Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DaRealness

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I think it's safe to say that in 2019 the myth of having to be a "nice guy" (you don't know how much I hate that term) is more or less shattered at this point. If any man hasn't got THAT memo by now then he's either been living under a rock or he doesn't want to be saved. The whole thing was a scam, a con. What we were taught growing up were naive philosophies at best with no basis in reality.

Even against all the current severe opposition to natural, god made masculinity most men are slapping their foreheads realising they've been fooled this whole time.

As a man you have to stand on your square and not get shifted because women will constantly shyt test you and try and coerce and shame you into things you know damn well you don't want to do i.e. lending money, giving them lifts, dating single mothers or overweight broads etc.

There's a current thread on here right now with some dude complaining he told his woman some secret that she blurted out. Whether you believe the bible is literal or figurative, I always remember that story where Samson simped and blabbed off to Delilah on some pillow talk bullshyt and ended up getting his hair cut and losing his strength. You see that with dudes all the time, running their mouth to women, trusting them with shyt they have no business knowing and showing all their cards. Now I treat women like mushrooms - feed them shyt and keep them in the dark. You don't need to know why I'm not with my ex, or how many women I'm dating or what I'm looking for in a woman. None of your business. I date, keep my options open and that's all you need to know. Women ask too many damn questions.

This applies to all areas of life because when you show you're easily coerced you'll just get ate up in this world.
 

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Ive cut down on soda(maybe one/ day) n added another day or cardio n saw a big difference..my shirt felt lil looser
Don’t repeat this publicly. When my shirts feel loose I get terrified. U want to fill up your shirts. Not with fat but with muscles. Trust me. Girls notice.
 

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So i had an interesting thought that i forgot to share. the definiton of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result, so i decided to do the opposite of everything ive been doing. And its working!

i usually keep my hair cut and my face clean shaven, but now im letting both grow out
i used to not work out and eat terribly, but now im working out and eating right. lost 10 pounds as of this morning.
I used to chase one chick in particular and always text her first or pressure her to hang out. Now i dont text her at all
i used to wear whatever to work, now i take extra time to look my best
I never wore cologne, just deordant. but now i wear Versace and yves saint laurent. Got hella chicks telling me i smell great

The results is that i am looking and feeling better, and women are starting to notice. Chicks at work are starting to notice me and speak more. Had one girl literally tell me "we should text' yesterday and give me her number (dont worry, i wont smash. But i have smashed 4 chicks at work so far:lupe::lupe::lupe:)

So if you dont like whats happening in your life with women, or just period, literally do the exact opposite of what you usually do.

Ironically the more I work on myself, the more chicks annoy me lol.

What I mean by that is, when they hit me up, nine times out of ten it's a distraction and doesn't enhance anything I'm currently doing but will most likely take time away from what I'm doing. That's why I'm more selective in who I meet up with. Not trying to hear no sob stories or maybes. We either get straight to business or you get out my face.
 

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Journalist shorty hit me up and wants to cook me dinner as she has been really busy working. Tbh I've liked her checking in with me every few days.

My thing for this year is meeting with women who can do things for me as well.

On Hinge so far I've met her and I've been talking to a very successful chick who does writing and helps with film funding for people of color and tech stuff here in Van.

Hinge showing peoples surnames is very helpful, lets me filter out basic bytches and also see what a chicks thinking is all about before I get too deep. It also means these chicks are usually actually busy, but that's the price for success.

Helps that they are both very attractive of course.
 

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I think it's safe to say that in 2019 the myth of having to be a "nice guy" (you don't know how much I hate that term) is more or less shattered at this point. If any man hasn't got THAT memo by now then he's either been living under a rock or he doesn't want to be saved. The whole thing was a scam, a con. What we were taught growing up were naive philosophies at best with no basis in reality.

Even against all the current severe opposition to natural, god made masculinity most men are slapping their foreheads realising they've been fooled this whole time.

As a man you have to stand on your square and not get shifted because women will constantly shyt test you and try and coerce and shame you into things you know damn well you don't want to do i.e. lending money, giving them lifts, dating single mothers or overweight broads etc.

There's a current thread on here right now with some dude complaining he told his woman some secret that she blurted out. Whether you believe the bible is literal or figurative, I always remember that story where Samson simped and blabbed off to Delilah on some pillow talk bullshyt and ended up getting his hair cut and losing his strength. You see that with dudes all the time, running their mouth to women, trusting them with shyt they have no business knowing and showing all their cards. Now I treat women like mushrooms - feed them shyt and keep them in the dark. You don't need to know why I'm not with my ex, or how many women I'm dating or what I'm looking for in a woman. None of your business. I date, keep my options open and that's all you need to know. Women ask too many damn questions.

This applies to all areas of life because when you show you're easily coerced you'll just get ate up in this world.


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I think it's safe to say that in 2019 the myth of having to be a "nice guy" (you don't know how much I hate that term) is more or less shattered at this point. If any man hasn't got THAT memo by now then he's either been living under a rock or he doesn't want to be saved. The whole thing was a scam, a con. What we were taught growing up were naive philosophies at best with no basis in reality.

Even against all the current severe opposition to natural, god made masculinity most men are slapping their foreheads realising they've been fooled this whole time.

As a man you have to stand on your square and not get shifted because women will constantly shyt test you and try and coerce and shame you into things you know damn well you don't want to do i.e. lending money, giving them lifts, dating single mothers or overweight broads etc.

There's a current thread on here right now with some dude complaining he told his woman some secret that she blurted out. Whether you believe the bible is literal or figurative, I always remember that story where Samson simped and blabbed off to Delilah on some pillow talk bullshyt and ended up getting his hair cut and losing his strength. You see that with dudes all the time, running their mouth to women, trusting them with shyt they have no business knowing and showing all their cards. Now I treat women like mushrooms - feed them shyt and keep them in the dark. You don't need to know why I'm not with my ex, or how many women I'm dating or what I'm looking for in a woman. None of your business. I date, keep my options open and that's all you need to know. Women ask too many damn questions.

This applies to all areas of life because when you show you're easily coerced you'll just get ate up in this world.


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Ex wants to come do my hair tonight. While having it done for free would be nice Im tryna scrape. I feel the 5 hours it tskes to do she gon be too tired to fukk or I could be escalating instead. If time isnt of the essence (as in shell probs be chilling after she done for a bit) what would yall suggest.
 

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Update on my living situation.

Huge Change in plans I will be staying with my ex ex for another year :francis:

Im giving her 12 months to save her money up. She is annoying at times but I'm not going to just dump her on her head when she helped me when I was in need.

This situation helps me out in the long run as well. I will be saving more and spending my time trying to build my business/purpose.

But don't get this shyt fukked up. I still have my rotation in order. Today is Wednesday, I just made a date for Friday with one in my rotation (pulled back from her for about 2 weeks).
I have another one on Saturday I just met her in January gtd and I have in house p*ssy so I'm well feed out here. I Might be too comfortable:mjlol:
 

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Update on my living situation.

Huge Change in plans I will be staying with my ex ex for another year :francis:

Im giving her 12 months to save her money up. She is annoying at times but I'm not going to just dump her on her head when she helped me when I was in need.

This situation helps me out in the long run as well. I will be saving more and spending my time trying to build my business/purpose.

But don't get this shyt fukked up. I still have my rotation in order. Today is Wednesday, I just made a date for Friday with one in my rotation (pulled back from her for about 2 weeks).
I have another one on Saturday I just met her in January gtd and I have in house p*ssy so I'm well feed out here. I Might be too comfortable:mjlol:
Why doesn't she just get a roommate :dahell:
 

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Why doesn't she just get a roommate :dahell:
That is a great question.
She is a homebody. Her best friend is her sister who is married. Saying that to say who else is she going to live with? Id do her that solid while building an empire.
I moved before when we broke up. She fell on hard times and I helped her out one year a half later. I owed her one.
 

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That is a great question.
She is a homebody. Her best friend is her sister who is married. Saying that to say who else is she going to live with? Id do her that solid while building an empire.
I moved before when we broke up. She fell on hard times and I helped her out one year a half later. I owed her one.

:dahell::mindblown::mjlol:

fukk it not my life :yeshrug:
 
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