Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[semicko82]

I guess it’s true the women you are not interested in are the ones who’ll give you the most play.

One chick I told her I think we should be friends has been hitting me up everyday.

Another woman I ghosted hit me up two months later.

Meanwhile a chick I was really interested in gave me a lame excuse for not hanging out this weekend

It seems like you kind of have to ignore a chick to see if she’s interested.

 

[semicko82]

So chick from the other day came to my job with chipotle and is being all Uber invested in me. I asked her about her future and she says she wants to be a wife, but she thinks that she will need a nanny and someone to come help her cook and clean every other week.

In my head I was putting her in the hit and quit category. I stayed cool though, and just kept the conversation going. But man these broads are a trip.

If they young they just want to fukk you and have fun with your resources, and when they’re older they want to be taken care of and pampered with your resources.

I ain’t mad though, just makes me want to focus on shyt I can control more. Like the effort I put in at my job, and my money.

You still keep in contact with this woman

 

[PewPew]

You still keep in contact with this woman

Sort of. She still has my number but I make no effort to call or text her first. You see, I’m in a unique position where she is looking to me for validation because she realizes I’m a high value male. She believes that giving me p*ssy will trap me, when In fact, that couldn’t be further from the truth.

And you’re right in your other assessment. The less you focus on a chick, the more they want you. I now make no effort to pay attention to any chick I’m feeling. I don’t give out compliments, and I don’t validate. Once I see they’re truly invested in me for me, that’s when I release the proverbial flutes on em

 

[Silkk]

I guess it’s true the women you are not interested in are the ones who’ll give you the most play.

One chick I told her I think we should be friends has been hitting me up everyday.

Another woman I ghosted hit me up two months later.

Meanwhile a chick I was really interested in gave me a lame excuse for not hanging out this weekend

It seems like you kind of have to ignore a chick to see if she’s interested.

Of course breh, these bytches are backwards AF

 

[MikelArteta]

Of course breh, these bytches are backwards AF

its because they are used to every dude bending their back over for them, when a dude doesn't he's intriguing and mysterious.

 

[Max.]

Pawg invites me over
Chill on couch
She asks me to lay n bed but not do anything
She starts askn sexual questions
Jerks me off
I make a joke i dont like jeans n sweater
She asks me to leave bcuz she think ima tryna get her to smash

 

[Silkk]

Maaaaaaan the first few days after not seeing someone/trying to break an attachment is ROUGH

 

[BrehWyatt]

I'm in a situation right now with this chick I'm talking to. We both agreed that we're feeling each other but we've decided to pause the courtship/work toward cuffing shyt. She's concerned about distance between us and her focus predominantly lies on her career or whatever. In her words, she said she's not at a place where she could devote the effort she wants to devote in order to put her best self forward in a relationship like I deserve or whatever.

Problem is, she's dope as fukk so regardless, she's somebody I'd want to keep around in some fashion. I'm in a weird position where I want to ensure she's an option later down the line -- we both agreed to leave the door open -- but at the same time, I gotta keep trucking.

 

[Silkk]

I'm in a situation right now with this chick I'm talking to. We both agreed that we're feeling each other but we've decided to pause the courtship/work toward cuffing shyt. She's concerned about distance between us and her focus predominantly lies on her career or whatever. In her words, she said she's not at a place where she could devote the effort she wants to devote in order to put her best self forward in a relationship like I deserve or whatever.

Problem is, she's dope as fukk so regardless, she's somebody I'd want to keep around in some fashion. I'm in a weird position where I want to ensure she's an option later down the line -- we both agreed to leave the door open -- but at the same time, I gotta keep trucking.

That honestly sounds like me & the chick im talking to now except im the one focused on their career.

That shyt tough man, cause relationships are distracting AS fukk and if you want to be the best in your career you can't have any distractions fukking you up.

 

[A1aaa]

vapid conversations = ghost from me in 2019.




i don't have the mental energy to force myself to entertain it. women want the full package in a man... even if shawty bad, i'm moving past tryna appease a solely pretty face/nice body with no cool ambitions or substantial opinions. definitely need more out of these women from a mind standpoint at this stage, even if it's a short-term thing. step it up.


... unless i'm on vacation


ol girl hitting my line now but i just can't see myself enduring more basic ass convos, even if means smashing

 

[phcitywarrior]

I don't quite get it with this one chick. We've been "friends" since college and at times had feelings for each other but always kind of missed the connection.

I was meant to head back to Nigeria for this past Christmas but skipped on it because my cousin's wedding got postponed and I had some job stuff as well. When I told her I wasn't going she got all bummed out per se. I told her there would be other times.

She called me last night talking about how much fun she had in Nigeria and how she wished I was there. She then said she wanted to invite me over so we could catch up and what not.

Idk, when I do try and move in on her and "step up to the plate" she kinda falls back. After that I cool off. We'll see.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm in a situation right now with this chick I'm talking to. We both agreed that we're feeling each other but we've decided to pause the courtship/work toward cuffing shyt. She's concerned about distance between us and her focus predominantly lies on her career or whatever. In her words, she said she's not at a place where she could devote the effort she wants to devote in order to put her best self forward in a relationship like I deserve or whatever.

Problem is, she's dope as fukk so regardless, she's somebody I'd want to keep around in some fashion. I'm in a weird position where I want to ensure she's an option later down the line -- we both agreed to leave the door open -- but at the same time, I gotta keep trucking.

Just Keep it casual breh and your emotions open

 

[MikelArteta]

Taking a Uber to go on a date

Driver tells me oh you live around here and I say yes

He then said he used to live up the street but got divorced and wife took the house he’s now renting a basement apartment.

That he bought a house a few years ago pre construction thinking he’d be able to sell the house his ex wife is in for that house now he’s going to lose his 70k deposit and prob sued.

Between child support and his rent he has no more money which is why he’s driving a Uber

 

[semicko82]

Taking a Uber to go on a date

Driver tells me oh you live around here and I say yes

He then said he used to live up the street but got divorced and wife took the house he’s now renting a basement apartment.

That he bought a house a few years ago pre construction thinking he’d be able to sell the house his ex wife is in for that house now he’s going to lose his 70k deposit and prob sued.

Between child support and his rent he has no more money which is why he’s driving a Uber

Cold world

 

[semicko82]

I don't quite get it with this one chick. We've been "friends" since college and at times had feelings for each other but always kind of missed the connection.

I was meant to head back to Nigeria for this past Christmas but skipped on it because my cousin's wedding got postponed and I had some job stuff as well. When I told her I wasn't going she got all bummed out per se. I told her there would be other times.

She called me last night talking about how much fun she had in Nigeria and how she wished I was there. She then said she wanted to invite me over so we could catch up and what not.

Idk, when I do try and move in on her and "step up to the plate" she kinda falls back. After that I cool off. We'll see.

Breh if I was you I would cut this chick off. She’s an attention ho,