Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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phcitywarrior said:
I don't quite get it with this one chick. We've been "friends" since college and at times had feelings for each other but always kind of missed the connection.

I was meant to head back to Nigeria for this past Christmas but skipped on it because my cousin's wedding got postponed and I had some job stuff as well. When I told her I wasn't going she got all bummed out per se. I told her there would be other times.

She called me last night talking about how much fun she had in Nigeria and how she wished I was there. She then said she wanted to invite me over so we could catch up and what not.

Idk, when I do try and move in on her and "step up to the plate" she kinda falls back. After that I cool off. We'll see.
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Breh if I was you I would cut this chick off. She’s an attention ho,
 
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Lately I’ve been thinking about deleting my social media. I got a few chicks on their who rejected me and I don’t like seeing signs of failure. :mjcry:

I even got the chick who said I might’ve got her pregnant on my Instagram
 
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BrehWyatt said:
I'm in a situation right now with this chick I'm talking to. We both agreed that we're feeling each other but we've decided to pause the courtship/work toward cuffing shyt. She's concerned about distance between us and her focus predominantly lies on her career or whatever. In her words, she said she's not at a place where she could devote the effort she wants to devote in order to put her best self forward in a relationship like I deserve or whatever.

Problem is, she's dope as fukk so regardless, she's somebody I'd want to keep around in some fashion. I'm in a weird position where I want to ensure she's an option later down the line -- we both agreed to leave the door open -- but at the same time, I gotta keep trucking.
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Lol and u believed her.
 
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semicko82 said:
Lately I’ve been thinking about deleting my social media. I got a few chicks on their who rejected me and I don’t like seeing signs of failure. :mjcry:

I even got the chick who said I might’ve got her pregnant on my Instagram
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Delete the damn page :what:
 
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phcitywarrior said:
I don't quite get it with this one chick. We've been "friends" since college and at times had feelings for each other but always kind of missed the connection.

I was meant to head back to Nigeria for this past Christmas but skipped on it because my cousin's wedding got postponed and I had some job stuff as well. When I told her I wasn't going she got all bummed out per se. I told her there would be other times.

She called me last night talking about how much fun she had in Nigeria and how she wished I was there. She then said she wanted to invite me over so we could catch up and what not.

Idk, when I do try and move in on her and "step up to the plate" she kinda falls back. After that I cool off. We'll see.
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I don’t have time for playing hard to get. It’s disrespectful of my mental energy.
 
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Lol and u believed her.
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one thing i've learned in life if a woman truly wants to be with you nothing will stop her. Not distance, kids, money, height
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I'm aware. I told her as much when we last spoke about it. "You make time for the things you care about" verbatim.

I've seen it first hand. If a woman legit wants you ... there ain't shyt you can really do about it in terms of trying to hit them with the :whoa: :hubie: during pursuit on their end. They're coming unless you curve them disrespectfully and even then...

That's why I'm trying to keep on trucking and not sit around waiting on her or whatever, and part of that process may involve me having to come to terms with the fact that she can't really be kept as an option or whatever (I admit that I got emotionally attached to a degree much quicker than I anticipated).

Need to get to a point where I can demonstrate interest and have the chick do the chasing from there :mjlol:
 
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phcitywarrior said:
I don't quite get it with this one chick. We've been "friends" since college and at times had feelings for each other but always kind of missed the connection.

I was meant to head back to Nigeria for this past Christmas but skipped on it because my cousin's wedding got postponed and I had some job stuff as well. When I told her I wasn't going she got all bummed out per se. I told her there would be other times.

She called me last night talking about how much fun she had in Nigeria and how she wished I was there. She then said she wanted to invite me over so we could catch up and what not.

Idk, when I do try and move in on her and "step up to the plate" she kinda falls back. After that I cool off. We'll see.
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She's playing games back and forth with you. Move on to someone else who know and go for what they want.
 
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