Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

The last 3 pages have been a breath of fresh air in a Locker Room full of thirsty apprectiation threads. To add to what guys have been saying, it's important to recognize the situations that can break even a strong man's composure. For me and a lot of other men, it's 1. meeting a pure dime 2. having a woman cry for you to just do what she asks.

Breaking down number 1:
meeting a dime makes you lose composure because your mind and body start begging you to lock this woman down quick. You will instinctually feel like blowing up her phone with romantic messages and calls as soon as she shows some interest, but as we all know, that's a losing move. The worst part about dealing with dimes is their flakiness. These broads have hundreds, if not thousands of brehs blowing up their phones at any given time. If she gave you a chance and showed high interest today, another dude might step up to the plate and blow her mind in the next few days, then you end up getting a very different response the next time you hit her up. It takes great emotional maturity to not start blowing up her phone at that point and just give her a chance to come back on her own.

Breaking down number 2:
women crying unleashes our instinct to protect. This makes you easily susceptible to bend to her will at this point, and she can grab control of the relationship now. A lot of women cry when asking for a commitment, and the men bow to her demands thinking they are being a bad person for making her cry. Just know that a woman will lose respect for you for bending to her will, even if you did it when she was crying.

Don't pay attention to women's tears, it's all bullshyt. I mentioned a few pages back that women learn that tactic from when they're babies when they cry to get what they want.



I had some chick I was FB friends with try and run game on me years ago when we were talking on skype crying about she hadn't had anything to eat over the last couple of days and how her boyfriend was so bad blah blah blah....I wasn't nearly as aware as I am now so I listened to the bullshyt. Even when she was crying over the phone I felt something was a bit off. She didn't directly ask me for money but she was trying her luck. Long behold a week later I see on her FB with the same man she's complaining about taking selfies with him on a plane to the Virgin Islands like everything's sweet in paradise.

That was a wakeup call and ever since then I vowed never to trust or care about any woman's sob stories. The same shyt they complain about is the same shyt they go back to.

When men go through hard times we're told to just "man up" and deal with it. So the same applies.

 

[Silkk]

Mood:

 

[Silkk]

Big Sexy

 

[DaRealness]

Brehs...seriously, be careful who you seed/wife up.
Just been reading that thread on Nas' psycho ex wife wanting to take their kid to Colombia. Even he once admitted he ignored all the red flags.

We've all messed with the wrong chicks at times, but imagine being stuck with a broad like that cos you both have a child together. I've known many men throughout the years who would give their right arm for their babymothers not to be in the picture so they can have a normal relationship with their kids.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Brehs...seriously, be careful who you seed/wife up.
Just been reading that thread on Nas' psycho ex wife wanting to take their kid to Colombia. Even he once admitted he ignored all the red flags.

We've all messed with the wrong chicks at times, but imagine being stuck with a broad like that cos you both have a child together. I've known many men throughout the years who would give their right arm for their babymothers not to be in the picture so they can have a normal relationship with their kids.

Sounds like both my brothers. Seeded up the wrong women and now are shells of themselves. They got, got in the honeymoon period.

Just waiting a year or two to really look at these chicks, would have had them out of those relationships without kids.

And able to find a woman of quality

 

[MikeOck]

Don't pay attention to women's tears, it's all bullshyt. I mentioned a few pages back that women learn that tactic from when they're babies when they cry to get what they want.



I had some chick I was FB friends with try and run game on me years ago when we were talking on skype crying about she hadn't had anything to eat over the last couple of days and how her boyfriend was so bad blah blah blah....I wasn't nearly as aware as I am now so I listened to the bullshyt. Even when she was crying over the phone I felt something was a bit off. She didn't directly ask me for money but she was trying her luck. Long behold a week later I see on her FB with the same man she's complaining about taking selfies with him on a plane to the Virgin Islands like everything's sweet in paradise.

That was a wakeup call and ever since then I vowed never to trust or care about any woman's sob stories. The same shyt they complain about is the same shyt they go back to.

When men go through hard times we're told to just "man up" and deal with it. So the same applies.

If you were a Captain Save A Hoe simp she'd have taken your money straight to that other breh and treated him to dinner with it

 

[DaRealness]

Sounds like both my brothers. Seeded up the wrong women and now are shells of themselves. They got, got in the honeymoon period.

Just waiting a year or two to really look at these chicks, would have had them out of those relationships without kids.

And able to find a woman of quality

Those type of women especially prey on you when you've got your shyt together. It's always better to just take your time, cos I thought my ex wife was the best woman in the world...luckily we didn't have kids together so I dodged that bullet at least.

If you were a Captain Save A Hoe simp she'd have taken your money straight to that other breh and treated him to dinner with it

Yup....and just like a dikkhead I was even tempted to send her something. I could still slap myself for even being on the phone to a chick like that, listening to her "problems" but you live and you learn.

 

[Him]

i'm asexual at work

Yep. I’ll never miss business with pleasure ever again.

 

[Sinnerman]

I really can't find it in me to get all that attached to a woman I'm seeing anymore

Gift and a curse?

 

[Silkk]

Mood:

Almost over her now

Charging chicks quick is the key brehs

 

[Silkk]

I really can't find it in me to get all that attached to a woman I'm seeing anymore

Gift and a curse?

Gift

 

[TOAD99]

I really can't find it in me to get all that attached to a woman I'm seeing anymore

Gift and a curse?

Gift these hoes are fickle, better to not get attached because the majority of times shyt won’t even work out

Not being attached makes it easier to have multiple women in the rotation as well

 

[TRUEST]

I really can't find it in me to get all that attached to a woman I'm seeing anymore

Gift and a curse?

neither. you're just not into her

 

[DaRealness]

AMS posts a lot of videos but this is an important one right here:



I think I might have mentioned this already on here once, but I bushed this chick that was trying that same bullshyt with me. I used to attend salsa classes and this female I was acquainted with at the time gonna tell me what type of shoes to wear and all that bullshyt. It was shyt test after shyt test and in the end I just dumped her. Ended up with her blowing up my phone for a few months afterwards, but like dude said....don't change ANYTHING about yourself for a chick. If she can't accept anything about who you are, then she can bounce. Don't let broads waste your time because if they're into you little bullshyt like that wouldn't make a difference.

 

[PewPew]

So chick from the other day came to my job with chipotle and is being all Uber invested in me. I asked her about her future and she says she wants to be a wife, but she thinks that she will need a nanny and someone to come help her cook and clean every other week.

In my head I was putting her in the hit and quit category. I stayed cool though, and just kept the conversation going. But man these broads are a trip.

If they young they just want to fukk you and have fun with your resources, and when they’re older they want to be taken care of and pampered with your resources.

I ain’t mad though, just makes me want to focus on shyt I can control more. Like the effort I put in at my job, and my money.