Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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yeah im just thrown off like damn i got dumped for doing the right thing, staying school not being a bum,getting my degree etccc:mjcry::mjtf:

Come on breh. You’re smarter than this. You weren’t dumped because of any of that. She dipped because another breh somehow piqued her interest. What’s gonna happen is she’s gonna shake that tree and see if it’s worth it or not. If it isn’t, she’s gonna come right back to you. Don’t allow it to happen.
 

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Brehs... i've been going out and about a bit more.


Meat women all the time... but this time... Saturday felt a bit different.


Let aside that she was beautiful as hell, outgoing and is a lawyer (and i got the approval from her homegirls - yes, i still believe in approach women in groups - your success rate sky rockets when you're perceived as bold/audacious).




... but the few minutes that i did chat it up with her and her friends... it was that sense of humor that made a vigga realize,



"Good lawd, i better not fukk this up... cuz i'm going to wife this woman."



I thought she was just talking shiit/drunk spewing when she said she wanted to go hang out... but yesterdays initial chat convo hopefully sealed the deal (no i haven't axed her out yet, but i'm going to do that later today, during lunch break perhaps).



Damn, i'm so nervous and excited at the same time that i'm up at 4:45 a.m. Pacific Stanley Time.



Fam... even if this shiit don't go no where. It was a huge confidence booster, and i kinda need that in my life right now. LOL.




As somebody who only does cold approaches/no social media or dating apps... this is a huge win for us old school playas (i met all my ex girlfriends this way and it's the only way i know).



Wish me luck for real for real.



I'm already thinking about what song i want to sing to her on our day of matrimony.



:ohlawd:




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Brehs... i've been going out and about a bit more.


Meat women all the time... but this time... Saturday felt a bit different.


Let aside that she was beautiful as hell, outgoing and is a lawyer (and i got the approval from her homegirls - yes, i still believe in approach women in groups - your success rate sky rockets when you're perceived as bold/audacious).




... but the few minutes that i did chat it up with her and her friends... it was that sense of humor that made a vigga realize,



"Good lawd, i better not fukk this up... cuz i'm going to wife this woman."



I thought she was just talking shiit/drunk spewing when she said she wanted to go hang out... but yesterdays initial chat convo hopefully sealed the deal (no i haven't axed her out yet, but i'm going to do that later today, during lunch break perhaps).



Damn, i'm so nervous and excited at the same time that i'm up at 4:45 a.m. Pacific Stanley Time.



Fam... even if this shiit don't go no where. It was a huge confidence booster, and i kinda need that in my life right now. LOL.




As somebody who only does cold approaches/no social media or dating apps... this is a huge win for us old school playas (i met all my ex girlfriends this way and it's the only way i know).



Wish me luck for real for real.



I'm already thinking about what song i want to sing to her on our day of matrimony.



:ohlawd:




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Meat :mjlol:










:dame:
 

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Brehs... i've been going out and about a bit more.


Meat women all the time... but this time... Saturday felt a bit different.


Let aside that she was beautiful as hell, outgoing and is a lawyer (and i got the approval from her homegirls - yes, i still believe in approach women in groups - your success rate sky rockets when you're perceived as bold/audacious).




... but the few minutes that i did chat it up with her and her friends... it was that sense of humor that made a vigga realize,



"Good lawd, i better not fukk this up... cuz i'm going to wife this woman."



I thought she was just talking shiit/drunk spewing when she said she wanted to go hang out... but yesterdays initial chat convo hopefully sealed the deal (no i haven't axed her out yet, but i'm going to do that later today, during lunch break perhaps).



Damn, i'm so nervous and excited at the same time that i'm up at 4:45 a.m. Pacific Stanley Time.



Fam... even if this shiit don't go no where. It was a huge confidence booster, and i kinda need that in my life right now. LOL.




As somebody who only does cold approaches/no social media or dating apps... this is a huge win for us old school playas (i met all my ex girlfriends this way and it's the only way i know).



Wish me luck for real for real.



I'm already thinking about what song i want to sing to her on our day of matrimony.



:ohlawd:




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Wow. Take this women off the pedestal breh. You’re going to be in for huge disappointment if things don’t turn into the mythical fantasy that you envision of her.
 

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Need some advice brehs. My gf of 1 year was smoking a blunt in a car outside her guy friends apartment. We share our locations with one another so when I found out I walked up to the car and told her to come get her shyt out of my car. She told me I’m overreacting but from my point of view that shyt was against the code. Idgaf how long she knew breh but I never met breh and she decides to go smoke with him?



Tell me brehs am I overreacting I told her to fukk off :francis:

was she sitting in the car with him, or by herself?

Either way, doesn't matter. When a woman doesn't tell you something, it doesn't mean they're guilty or did anything wrong....but it means you need to start watching her.

Example, other night, this chick I was with we spent the afternoon together, dinner, she dropped me off at my car at 7pm and she was saying she was super duper tired and was gonna pick her daughter up and put her to bed as soon as she got home so she could go to sleep early b/c she had work early the next day. Next day, I go on my snap, and I see her on our friends snap (another girl) and they were out at Chilli's having drinks until like 9:30pm. But she was just "dead tired/exhuasted" 2 hours earlier.

Now, I'm NOT saying she did anything wrong by going back out. But it also makes me aware that I need to be aware/watchful.
 

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Brehs....another situation....

When you've given a chick enough time and the situation isn't going where you want it to go(ie sex), how do you disengage without appearing an a$$hole? I know being an a$$hole is sometimes necessary, but me being an a$$hole is NOT an option in this particular situation

What should I say to her? Cause if I just pull back, she's gonna ask if I'm mad at her. And why....
 

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Brehs....another situation....

When you've given a chick enough time and the situation isn't going where you want it to go(ie sex), how do you disengage without appearing an a$$hole? I know being an a$$hole is sometimes necessary, but me being an a$$hole is NOT an option in this particular situation

What should I say to her? Cause if I just pull back, she's gonna ask if I'm mad at her. And why....
Have you been escalating? Have you brought her back to the crib and seducing her?
 

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Exactly. I would have done what @George Gooney did or at the very least set her straight. Not even five seconds into a date and she's already coming with the bullshyt. It would only get worse. The only positive is that she revealed herself to be an idiot sooner rather than later which is a good thing.

Nah, as I'm getting older I don't have patience for the nonsense. My tolerance for stupid ass, childish women is at an all time low and isn't gonna change.

Basically.
 

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Brehs....another situation....

When you've given a chick enough time and the situation isn't going where you want it to go(ie sex), how do you disengage without appearing an a$$hole? I know being an a$$hole is sometimes necessary, but me being an a$$hole is NOT an option in this particular situation

What should I say to her? Cause if I just pull back, she's gonna ask if I'm mad at her. And why....
If you want sex, and she's not giving you any, you have every right to leave her alone. Nothing a$$hole about that.

Just leave her, and if you don't want to say it's about sex, just give her the generic "no connection" excuse or some shyt.

Don't waste your time any more than she's already wasted yours
 

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yeah im just thrown off like damn i got dumped for doing the right thing, staying school not being a bum,getting my degree etccc:mjcry::mjtf:
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