Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silkk]

Its amazing the lengths that women will go to to defend a lie

 

[SATAN]

It's sad that a female friend had to put me on game to this TWICE, but here it is.

If a woman tells you she has a boyfriend but is still being flirty and showing interest in you, it's because she doesn't want you to get attached or catch feelings. So just give her your number and let her hit you up on her terms. Don't set up any dates, she doesn't want to get caught. Just meet up and smash.

I posted this like a couple of months ago but I still didn't fully understand until the friend told me more about it.

When I first met her, she immediately started talking about her boyfriend so I took that as a hint to not shoot my shot.

A female friend of mine who takes classes with me asked me why I haven't asked the instructor out on a date yet, she said that the instructor is really into me. I told her about the boyfriend thing.

My friend said that it's called a "boyfriend-bomb", a lot of women do this when they feel too attracted to a man too soon.

We ended up fukking on some lowkey shyt, but I think most brehs immediately take "I have a boyfriend" as a signal to stop pursuing, but that's not always the case. But if she showed no interest and she said she has a boyfriend, then it is actually a no in that case.

 

[jadillac]

Its amazing the lengths that women will go to to defend a lie

yeah, i don't understand it.

 

[jadillac]

It's sad that a female friend had to put me on game to this TWICE, but here it is.

If a woman tells you she has a boyfriend but is still being flirty and showing interest in you, it's because she doesn't want you to get attached or catch feelings. So just give her your number and let her hit you up on her terms. Don't set up any dates, she doesn't want to get caught. Just meet up and smash.

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You said "get caught".....are you talking about if the chick actually does have a boyfriend?

I mean, I just go by the rule, "do unto others..." Cause you don't know how much dude cares about her, and that's a shytty feeling finding out the girl you really care about, spent money on, time, etc and another dude is piping her on the low.

I don't ever want that karma to come back on me.

Not judging you though.

 

[SATAN]

You said "get caught".....are you talking about if the chick actually does have a boyfriend?

I mean, I just go by the rule, "do unto others..." Cause you don't know how much dude cares about her, and that's a shytty feeling finding out the girl you really care about, spent money on, time, etc and another dude is piping her on the low.

I don't ever want that karma to come back on me.

Not judging you though.

I just wanna fukk.


Women gonna fukk around behind their man's back anyway, I don't care anymore

 

[jadillac]

I just wanna fukk.


Women gonna fukk around behind their man's back anyway, I don't care anymore

yeah, but some dudes will kill you for that. At the very least, put issues in your life you don't want.

"Love" makes ppl crazy.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Brehs... i've been going out and about a bit more.


Meat women all the time... but this time... Saturday felt a bit different.


Let aside that she was beautiful as hell, outgoing and is a lawyer (and i got the approval from her homegirls - yes, i still believe in approach women in groups - your success rate sky rockets when you're perceived as bold/audacious).




... but the few minutes that i did chat it up with her and her friends... it was that sense of humor that made a vigga realize,



"Good lawd, i better not fukk this up... cuz i'm going to wife this woman."



I thought she was just talking shiit/drunk spewing when she said she wanted to go hang out... but yesterdays initial chat convo hopefully sealed the deal (no i haven't axed her out yet, but i'm going to do that later today, during lunch break perhaps).



Damn, i'm so nervous and excited at the same time that i'm up at 4:45 a.m. Pacific Stanley Time.



Fam... even if this shiit don't go no where. It was a huge confidence booster, and i kinda need that in my life right now. LOL.




As somebody who only does cold approaches/no social media or dating apps... this is a huge win for us old school playas (i met all my ex girlfriends this way and it's the only way i know).



Wish me luck for real for real.



I'm already thinking about what song i want to sing to her on our day of matrimony.








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If this ain't the most square shyt I've read all day.

You're completely right about the cold approaching a group /audacity thing. But the rest of your posts reads and comes from off as a guy who's chasing a broad that HE deems out of his league, and can't belive that a 'high level' broad is showing interest in me.

I'll let you swim and learn the lessons you need
All the best

 

[VertigoKnight]

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dudes like this ruining it for the rest of it brehs

Damn guy was ruthlessly evil.

This is like a woman's biggest issue when meeting a guy. Which is why I don't blame some women for turning down going to a guys house straight away.
And or checking in with their friends every hour or so just to be sure.

He probably picked her out cause she was on holiday and probably there by herself so no one would miss her for a while...

 

[Cape Town JHB]

so my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me today
the reason is number 1 i never introduced her to my parentsim Haitian and im sure all my Haitians brothers and sister cam agree that old school parents dont believe in meeting the girlfriend type shyt unless marriage is in the horizon
Number 2 is basically im in nursing school at the moment and i dont really have alot of money since i go to school full time and i work part time but like 1-2 days a week cuz nursing school takes alot of my time...... but anyway she told me that she cant wait any more longer till i finish my school. not gonna lie but it hurts like damn im not a bum on the streets....im bsuting my ass off getting my BSN degree and i know i may not be able to do some things she want but shyt can u understand
trust me brehs i tried my best with what little money i had i showed supreme effort

This chick is in what is called acquisitive mode. This is when a woman displays everything needed for a man to cuff her and showcase his long term commitment by involving her in his closest family and social circles.

You're well on your to tenfolding your sexual market value once you get access to that nursing degree, she knows your options will pop open as soon as you start making money, so she's counting her chips and banking on another guy, who's showing far more willingness to openly cuff her. Without knowing you i know that she's slightly older and even though she's the main bread winner now your nursing salary will completely trump hers.

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn guy was ruthlessly evil.

This is like a woman's biggest issue when meeting a guy. Which is why I don't blame some women for turning down going to a guys house straight away.
And or checking in with their friends every hour or so just to be sure.

He probably picked her out cause she was on holiday and probably there by herself so no one would miss her for a while...

yep dude is a pos, i love meeting people when I travel. When I was in Lisbon I met a chick there who was travelling by herself, but it is so risky and I don't blame women who don't travel by themselves.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Thought I'd drop this jewel in this thread as well:

What determines whether or not a woman is a thot is YOU. She can be a thot for one man and a born again virgin for another. Women are social chameleons with a very malleable social compass. #FreeGame

Vague ambiguous horse shyt.
a young green kid reading this will interpret in so many inaccurate ways, Game is supposed to be airtight.

Respectfully we can discuss it.

"sometimes it's not about the beauty of the the bytch, but the duty of the bytch" - Bradley Honorable, "American Pimp", 1999

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs....another situation....

When you've given a chick enough time and the situation isn't going where you want it to go(ie sex), how do you disengage without appearing an a$$hole? I know being an a$$hole is sometimes necessary, but me being an a$$hole is NOT an option in this particular situation

What should I say to her? Cause if I just pull back, she's gonna ask if I'm mad at her. And why....

just cut your losses and move on breh


"One of the greatest tools a man can develop is the boot-- the ability to let a woman go, to kick her to the curb and keep it pushing without looking affected." - Kevm3

 

[Cape Town JHB]

they are going to slip bro, it happens

i had 7 chicks on rotation , when i got with wifey those other chicks started to fade out naturally

if your serious about your chick its a waste of time keeping other chicks on retainer, if they are decent it wont be long till they find something else

just be aware you dont want to waste time, i dunno

Horrendous advice. How does this thread allow this to slip by undetected brehs.

When you cuffed what you do is keep a side chick that knows her place, maybe she has a kid or went through a divorce etc some jaded broad who got good p*ssy.

But most importantly you must aggressively flirt and entertain hotter and higher level broads than your wife. Even if you don't fukk them, the fact that your game will remain razor sharp will keep your "good girl" remaining "good" as opposed to getting comfortable

 

[jadillac]

Brehs... i've been going out and about a bit more.


Meat women all the time... but this time... Saturday felt a bit different.


Let aside that she was beautiful as hell, outgoing and is a lawyer (and i got the approval from her homegirls - yes, i still believe in approach women in groups - your success rate sky rockets when you're perceived as bold/audacious).




... but the few minutes that i did chat it up with her and her friends... it was that sense of humor that made a vigga realize,



"Good lawd, i better not fukk this up... cuz i'm going to wife this woman."



I thought she was just talking shiit/drunk spewing when she said she wanted to go hang out... but yesterdays initial chat convo hopefully sealed the deal (no i haven't axed her out yet, but i'm going to do that later today, during lunch break perhaps).



Damn, i'm so nervous and excited at the same time that i'm up at 4:45 a.m. Pacific Stanley Time.



Fam... even if this shiit don't go no where. It was a huge confidence booster, and i kinda need that in my life right now. LOL.




As somebody who only does cold approaches/no social media or dating apps... this is a huge win for us old school playas (i met all my ex girlfriends this way and it's the only way i know).



Wish me luck for real for real.



I'm already thinking about what song i want to sing to her on our day of matrimony.








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I'm assuming part of your post is tongue in cheek, but the rest of it, don't let some of the guys in here make you feel bad. We all need a confidence boost from time to time, so that's good for you. BUT, just be guarded against letting yourself ignore certain things she does b/c you really want it to work. You'll pay for that in the end.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

One thing I've noticed when it comes to women is that accessibility plays a huge part in your success. I know certain guys swear by cold approaches but for most dudes (including myself) the most common way to meet women is through social circle, work, school etc.

Anyone got any advice on how to meet new women once the well runs dry?
The women I socialise with at the moment are not attractive

Join a national gym and drive to various gyms within your city, to actually work out, then before you leave, gather 20 numbers and stop going to that gym.

It's one of my many shortcuts when in a new city and wanting to grow a quick roster. Also churchs