Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

FLATOP

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Relationships/marriages where both parties have good intentions can still not work out

Yet people willingly enter unions with persons who have nothing but bad intentions

Abusers, users, gold diggers, the lazy, listless, shiftless, and crazy. If a sucker is born every minute, then a perpetual victim must be every second
 

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No such thing as the one
If she dies tomorrow that’s it for you?

I equate it to how jack Nicholson, Heath ledger, Joaquin Phoenix, Mark Hamill etc have played the joker

for us Vanessa, Sarah, Maxine , Ruth can all play the one
This. I feel like young men are fed and watered that Hollywood "the one" bs, and they are already steps behind in the game.
 

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When I say the one, does it mean the only one, nah. But one of “the ones”.
I see what you're saying but it's still like your putting someone on a pedestal when you call them the "one". A man's options should always be open even when he thinks he found the one
 

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I see what you're saying but it's still like your putting someone on a pedestal when you call them the "one". A man's options should always be open even when he thinks he found the one

I hear yah. I do think it’s good to have options, but even more important to actually make a choice.

Abundance spoils wants. If you find a good woman then committ to her and begin the next phase in your life (if that’s what you care for).

There’s a stability you get when you have a wife and become a family man. There’s a focus that is had by not having to always play the field.
 

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I hear yah. I do think it’s good to have options, but even more important to actually make a choice.

Abundance spoils wants. If you find a good woman then committ to her and begin the next phase in your life (if that’s what you care for).

There’s a stability you get when you have a wife and become a family man. There’s a focus that is had by not having to always play the field.
Now that you put it like that, I see your point.
Most men are just taught chase after women, but all that chasing you blur the woman who's has the potential to be a good mother with the woman who's just good for a one night stand.
That's how most men get fukked over.
Dap and rep
 

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Osmashed redbone on date one. Did the corey wayne classic and went to several places in one night, got to my whip hit the neck massage and she pulled my dikk out and that was the cue to rotate back to the spot.

It feels like every new chick I hit badder than the last :wow:
 

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This is what I hate suppose to meet a chick for lunch. Messaged and no reply, not wasting my time going anymore.

And you know she saw your message. It takes a couple of secs to write a "see you there" reply

Glad she exposed herself before you wasted time and effort on her. Some women and their lack of accountability never ceases to amaze me.
 

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This is what I hate suppose to meet a chick for lunch. Messaged and no reply, not wasting my time going anymore.
Similar thing just happen to me. I posted about it Sunday night. Matched with this chick at like 6 pm, talked on and off for a few hours. Going well so I say we should meet up for sushi Tuesday night she says sounds good. I say why don't we exchange numbers so we don't have to talk on this app. She says I'm going to sleep (It was like 9 pm) let me send you my number tomorrow. I said alright talk to you tomorrow even tho I knew she was gonna flake. I hit her up last night like hey we still going to sushi tomorrow night and I looked today and she unmatched me :russ:. I used to take this shyt personal and think it's me and not them but it's not me it is them. The last couple girls I smashed off hinge i didn't ask for there number they sent it to me so I'm not asking for the number anymore if they want me to have it they will send me it. Maybe asking for her number set her off. Either way I'm not letting shyt draw out soon as I match and we got some chemistry going I am trying to meet up.
 

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Similar thing just happen to me. I posted about it Sunday night. Matched with this chick at like 6 pm, talked on and off for a few hours. Going well so I say we should meet up for sushi Tuesday night she says sounds good. I say why don't we exchange numbers so we don't have to talk on this app. She says I'm going to sleep (It was like 9 pm) let me send you my number tomorrow. I said alright talk to you tomorrow even tho I knew she was gonna flake. I hit her up last night like hey we still going to sushi tomorrow night and I looked today and she unmatched me :russ:. I used to take this shyt personal and think it's me and not them but it's not me it is them. The last couple girls I smashed off hinge i didn't ask for there number they sent it to me so I'm not asking for the number anymore if they want me to have it they will send me it. Maybe asking for her number set her off. Either way I'm not letting shyt draw out soon as I match and we got some chemistry going I am trying to meet up.

yup ah well saved myself some money i would have spent on lunch and meeting up with that chick i met 5 times in a few hours
I'm just saying imagine if i went to that restaurant would have wasted my lunch.

I at least have the decency to tell a chick that hey something came up wont be able to make it.
 

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yup ah well saved myself some money i would have spent on lunch and meeting up with that chick i met 5 times in a few hours
I'm just saying imagine if i went to that restaurant would have wasted my lunch.

I at least have the decency to tell a chick that hey something came up wont be able to make it.
That's why always gotta send the confirmation text or phone call before you even leave your work or your house because bytches are flakey.
 

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I hear yah. I do think it’s good to have options, but even more important to actually make a choice.

Abundance spoils wants. If you find a good woman then committ to her and begin the next phase in your life (if that’s what you care for).

There’s a stability you get when you have a wife and become a family man. There’s a focus that is had by not having to always play the field.

the thing is even the worst woman looks good early on that's how they get you. Like a rb running against a third string defense in preseason they look like a young barry sanders, checkboxes are checked you start thinking of a future with them but once that reg season hits if they make the squad they looking like trent richardson out there
 
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