Cape Town JHB
All Star
Have any of you seasoned brehs been out with some brehs who, even though they get girls, simply have a very basic and broad understanding of Game and female nature/sex dynamics?...and you have to sit there and watch them stumble and fumble to or away from p*ssy
Example, i was once out with this other cat in Johannesburg, just me and him and we were deep in some debate about rugby or some trivial guy talk.
This guy has always been able to pull girls, which is why he was my acquaintance to begin with... Anyway these 2 girls (early 20s) come to our table and ask if we don't mind joining them at THEIR table (subliminal power move
) ... Before I could even utter a word, he says "cool no problem" and is already motioning to get up.
The problem here was very simple, these chicks were checking us out from the jump and liked what they saw, instead of them coming to ask to JOIN US or anything showing submission or positive affirmation of being into us. They effectively summoned us like their pets and a guy who's far from lame with girls didn't even spot what was being done, in his mind p*ssy fell on our laps.
One was a thick light skin girl, the other was a petite deep brown chick (my favorite
), within less than 15min i don't know how the conversation drifted, but the dark one was giving me a lecture on how oppressed the black woman is and how black men have "male privelege"
, your typical pseudo educated, intersectional hoe babble. Eventually I pissed her off enough to where they decided to leave.
I've come accross this issue ALL the time, when I'm with some guy/s and we're out, as soon as a group of pretty girls comes through or we gotta approach some super hot chicks.... cats relent power, start ass kissing, start agreeing with the girl and making one of their boys look weak, start asking or prioritizing what the girls wanna do etc etc just horrendously butchering every Game principle there is and missing every gigantic red flag the chick shoots at us.
This situation is made worse coz I can't give grown men a crash course on women /Game on the spot, let alone with the girls present.
Any of you brehs experienced going out with peers or some cats you know, even cousins/family.
Also another unmanly bytch ass move I've seen from the modern black man, consistently now, is the "Frugal Simp" , the guy who's always hesitant to spend money on a cab, or entrance fee to a club or buy booze in bulk, he's forever having mini discussionss and delays whenever it's time to pay for something, BUT magically as soon as there's a vague promise of p*ssy from some bytchs he's just met , he's talking about booking Air BnBs or decent hotels, he's talking about copping bottles, paying for an Uber to take everyone here or there, he becomes an instant "Baller" once he thinks some bytchs will give him some p*ssy.
My brother pulled this "Frugal Simp "move too
:
he came from out of town and I drove him around all around the city running his errands. He would offer to buy us some food, but would preface it with "but nothing expensive I'm trying to spend wisely"
, he would offer to fill the petrol in the car but just a minimal fee etc
Then some chick he used to fukk ages ago called him saying she was in town too, but in the North at her cousin's place, he immediately suggested they book a hotel, order some food, and that he'd pick her up at X o'clock blah blah.
I've never quite forgotten how disgusted I was sitting in the driver's seat with the permanent
, and have never really taken my brother seriously ever since.
I almost dread going out with other guys now. Be it family, childhood friends, colleagues or just acquaintances in general.
a good wing man is as a rare a a good woman
Example, i was once out with this other cat in Johannesburg, just me and him and we were deep in some debate about rugby or some trivial guy talk.
This guy has always been able to pull girls, which is why he was my acquaintance to begin with... Anyway these 2 girls (early 20s) come to our table and ask if we don't mind joining them at THEIR table (subliminal power move
) ... Before I could even utter a word, he says "cool no problem" and is already motioning to get up.The problem here was very simple, these chicks were checking us out from the jump and liked what they saw, instead of them coming to ask to JOIN US or anything showing submission or positive affirmation of being into us. They effectively summoned us like their pets and a guy who's far from lame with girls didn't even spot what was being done, in his mind p*ssy fell on our laps.
One was a thick light skin girl, the other was a petite deep brown chick (my favorite
), within less than 15min i don't know how the conversation drifted, but the dark one was giving me a lecture on how oppressed the black woman is and how black men have "male privelege", your typical pseudo educated, intersectional hoe babble. Eventually I pissed her off enough to where they decided to leave.I've come accross this issue ALL the time, when I'm with some guy/s and we're out, as soon as a group of pretty girls comes through or we gotta approach some super hot chicks.... cats relent power, start ass kissing, start agreeing with the girl and making one of their boys look weak, start asking or prioritizing what the girls wanna do etc etc just horrendously butchering every Game principle there is and missing every gigantic red flag the chick shoots at us.
This situation is made worse coz I can't give grown men a crash course on women /Game on the spot, let alone with the girls present.
Any of you brehs experienced going out with peers or some cats you know, even cousins/family.
Also another unmanly bytch ass move I've seen from the modern black man, consistently now, is the "Frugal Simp" , the guy who's always hesitant to spend money on a cab, or entrance fee to a club or buy booze in bulk, he's forever having mini discussionss and delays whenever it's time to pay for something, BUT magically as soon as there's a vague promise of p*ssy from some bytchs he's just met , he's talking about booking Air BnBs or decent hotels, he's talking about copping bottles, paying for an Uber to take everyone here or there, he becomes an instant "Baller" once he thinks some bytchs will give him some p*ssy.
My brother pulled this "Frugal Simp "move too
:he came from out of town and I drove him around all around the city running his errands. He would offer to buy us some food, but would preface it with "but nothing expensive I'm trying to spend wisely"
, he would offer to fill the petrol in the car but just a minimal fee etc Then some chick he used to fukk ages ago called him saying she was in town too, but in the North at her cousin's place, he immediately suggested they book a hotel, order some food, and that he'd pick her up at X o'clock blah blah.
I've never quite forgotten how disgusted I was sitting in the driver's seat with the permanent
, and have never really taken my brother seriously ever since. I almost dread going out with other guys now. Be it family, childhood friends, colleagues or just acquaintances in general.
a good wing man is as a rare a a good woman
. I used to take this shyt personal and think it's me and not them but it's not me it is them. The last couple girls I smashed off hinge i didn't ask for there number they sent it to me so I'm not asking for the number anymore if they want me to have it they will send me it. Maybe asking for her number set her off. Either way I'm not letting shyt draw out soon as I match and we got some chemistry going I am trying to meet up.