Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DapMeUp!]

nah you set the date and at most be like "lets do Monday, let me know if that works". Never toss the ball to her for her to decide what to do with it

There was no option for that. I already said Friday/Sat and she said she was busy.

She was on some "I got some appointments during the week so I will have to let you know when I'm free" type shyt.
TBH I'm not bothered by the flake, by the setup it was expected it's the text after that's like
I wasn't going to bother following up I just took the flake for what it was.

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

This song is real brehs, always remember some time she dont wanna man she just wanna fukk, so move accordingly with them

 

[Killigraphy]

Dealing with some women in they 30s currently. They look good but mentally its like they still stuck in they 20s its really annoying. Like I have this one chick who I don't text back immediately and she will get aggy about it.

Women mature faster than men, but I never saw that as a good thing, it just means arrested development happens faster for them, and they're stuck somewhere between High school and or teen mentalities. Even more so if they have daddy issues. With this comes childish notions, like wanting monopolize your time, friendships, and of course, attention. You really have to treat them like children. Ice them, and use behavioral techniques, so they get the point. I've ran into all ages who act like children, it doesn't change, and you can't hope to change this mechanisms....however you can teach them some control and or how to behave in spurts.

 

[Killigraphy]

fukked a girl and I probably shouldn’t have. Now I gotta figure out how to tell her I’m not interested in a relationship at the moment...she already texting me about how much she really likes me

Block her and be done. Think about it this way, you've done the more dangerous and life altering act of having sex, so telling her you have no interest and or blocking her should be no problem whatsoever.

 

[Organic Trees]

Linked up with a female friend & ended up drunk eating her out inside her whip in an unknown neighborhood

 

[The ADD]

Linked up with a female friend & ended up drunk eating her out inside her whip in an unknown neighborhood

 

[VertigoKnight]

High Interest Only From Now

I don't have it in me anymore to be pursuing half hearted half interested women.
It's so energy draining, now when I feel slight resistance I just pull back and chill.

It really shouldn't be hard.
I need to keep reminding myself of all the women that have made clear they were interested and wanted to link.

Too busy to be jumping through hoops for cooch.

Then you're learning breh.

If there is one crucial part of dealing with women it should be that we as men adopt that mindset quickly. Especially in this era of dating. I have a zero tolerance policy on it now. And that goes for women who were initially high interest and then start the bullshyt games. They can play those by themselves, as I won't be engaging.

The lockdowns over the past year have really exposed how a lot of these females are moving.

A low interest woman is obvious and avoidable. But these half hearted women are annoying, as they rely on having enough sporadic contact that you'll still engage with them, at least the first few times they pull their shyt.

Not hearing from them for a week and then sending a text that they reply to a few days later, telling you they've been 'busy'. Having to have some long ass back and forth just to set what should be a simple hang out up. It used to chide my ego. I would think naw this chick will bend to me and I'd over pursue.

Now I have no patience for the bullshyt. Men would save themselves a lot of initial grief if they leave these half interested women alone.

 

[Leao2005]

OGs what some Classic examples of choosing signals? I think this one 9 was choosing but I was way too oblivious .

also how can you tell the difference between friendly behavior and choosing.

 

[Killigraphy]

OGs what some Classic examples of choosing signals? I think this one 9 was choosing but I was way too oblivious .

also how can you tell the difference between friendly behavior and choosing.

Essentially, its never changed;

Choosing:
Legs uncrossed, or when they are they're pointed toward you.
Eye contact, constantly smiling.
Mentions sex first.
Touching; shoulder, knee, face, etc.

Friendly behavior is the complete opposite, zero eye contact, no sex talk, mentions other men she's interested in, etc. Those are always the obvious. Women aren't hard to understand, especially when the case is obvious. Even more so when your approach is that of a flirty one. I use kino (touching) all the time. From hand to shoulder touches. I always wait till they mention sex, introduce some kind of social lubricant like weed or liquor, and boom, whore city.

 

[MikelArteta]

Some girl I went out with a few times a few years ago I just bumped into her today at work.

awkward as hell

 

[Leao2005]

Essentially, its never changed;

Choosing:
Legs uncrossed, or when they are they're pointed toward you.
Eye contact, constantly smiling.
Mentions sex first.
Touching; shoulder, knee, face, etc.

Friendly behavior is the complete opposite, zero eye contact, no sex talk, mentions other men she's interested in, etc. Those are always the obvious. Women aren't hard to understand, especially when the case is obvious. Even more so when your approach is that of a flirty one. I use kino (touching) all the time. From hand to shoulder touches. I always wait till they mention sex, introduce some kind of social lubricant like weed or liquor, and boom, whore city.

If a joint constantly engaging in convo with you when you out at restaurant (like a chipotle/Panera) would you consider that choosing as well? and that social lubricant is a L for me, im straight edge lol.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Breh...It's just the I like you, but I still want YOU to chase me around attitude that is just

Example, I make plans to link with a chick I have linked up with a few times before.
I tell her to let me know what day she is free, as she said she was going to be busy this weekend so we should link in the week....cool.

She messages me tonight talking bout I didn't hear from you, So I didn't know if you still wanted to link Bytch you told me YOU was going to tell me what day you was free, you want me to check in with you everyday to check if your free??

im tired of that stupid shyt. Last Saturday this chick told me she was down to hook up the next day she took me off Snapchat. I knew the bytch was lying. I’m sorry but all women are the same.

 

[DJSmooth]

Linked up with a female friend & ended up drunk eating her out inside her whip in an unknown neighborhood

Did she return the favor?

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Travel and Area Codes

I was listening to the song "Area Codes". I was like "Yo! Luda and Nate Dogg was spitting some game". Get you some chicks in different locations.

If the women in your proximity don't do it for you, just travel. Different city, different state, different country.

I like meeting new chicks cause of the novelty and the experience we gon have. I usually tell them "Oh, I'm not from around here..." and smooth on from there.

 

[Neuromancer]

Then you're learning breh.

If there is one crucial part of dealing with women it should be that we as men adopt that mindset quickly. Especially in this era of dating. I have a zero tolerance policy on it now. And that goes for women who were initially high interest and then start the bullshyt games. They can play those by themselves, as I won't be engaging.

The lockdowns over the past year have really exposed how a lot of these females are moving.

A low interest woman is obvious and avoidable. But these half hearted women are annoying, as they rely on having enough sporadic contact that you'll still engage with them, at least the first few times they pull their shyt.

Not hearing from them for a week and then sending a text that they reply to a few days later, telling you they've been 'busy'. Having to have some long ass back and forth just to set what should be a simple hang out up. It used to chide my ego. I would think naw this chick will bend to me and I'd over pursue.

Now I have no patience for the bullshyt. Men would save themselves a lot of initial grief if they leave these half interested women alone.

Yep. If they ain't putting in effort you shouldn't either.