Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Leao2005

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Definitely, most women don't talk to men at all without some kind of push, so if she's starting anything, you can bet she wants you. And the drugs are never for you, its always for them. Depending on the job, you should always know what to expect from each and every target.
Damn :francis: I fumbled a 9 no cap.
 

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It's crucial to understand and know why your girl is with you. For a lot of women many will settle into a relationship, settle meaning - 'They accept that they cannot attract the guy/s they want to commit to them so they chose the 'beta male' whose main role is to provide them with the stability and financial secruity they require'

Here's a Quick Gem for the older Brehs (late 20's to mid 30s) who are thinking of settling down but unsure if their woman actually likes em for them or has placed them in the provider role.

1. Ask yourself and identify what your qualties are that attract women and why you got this particular chick sticking with you. Be honest with your analysis. Is she with you for your personality/looks or for your potential/money etc?

2. Next ask yourself, in her prime (18-27... age where girls get the most attention and offer from a plethora of different types of men) would she date me? Be truthful with yourself. If you can't see her dating you in her prime then somethings wrong.

3. Lastly, look at who her past boyfriends were when she was with in her prime or when she had no baggage. If they don't resemble or aren't similar to you in character then shes looking at the bigger picture for herself and settling for you.


I've seen this situation play out many times. A woman only messes with certain type of men in her prime years (lets say she likes to date free-spirited spontaneous musicians) only to do a 180 and switch it up to settling down with the oppposite (A rigid by the books boring accountant).... only to later cheat/divorce him as she desires to go back to what she was originally attracted to.
 

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Literally going through this now. Chick is 29. After asking how my day was I told her it was slow and that I got a nap in. The next thing she says is “I thought you were busy because this is my first time hearing from you”

I was busy. Busy sleeping.

3rd date we haven’t kissed or had sex and you are already nagging about sleep?

Have you attempted to kiss her or make a move on her?
 

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breh messing with a lawyer, enjoy your L :mjlol::francis:

Yeah, this most recent ex is at law school, Arizona State. But she was the most difficult person I've ever engaged with. I never stressed so much in the months that we dated. It was living hell.


On the contrary,


Girlfriend of five years prior was a paralegal and started law school the fall that we broke up. This was back in 2017.

She's now a lawyer for a big firm here in downtown seattle.



But this woman gave me her everything. Was as sweet as a Charleston chew and cute as a button on a baby's onesie; super supportive, never argumentative and extremely generous. She loved the shiit out of me. But i took her for granted and philandered like crazy. I broke her heart and feel guilty as hell for it now.



You can't really generalize based on profession. Same fields but with personalities on two different ends of the spectrum. ASU girl was very smart but was super superficial and materialistic. Ex of 5 years was smart but sensible and serene.



That said... I'm going on a date (my first since breakin' up with ASU law student on Halloween).



She was actually a customer of mines/body shop and I just fukkin' shot my shoot. Low and behold, we're kicking it Thursday night. Cute petite little latina that drives an S3. Noice.



You wanna know something extremely wild? None of you guys are going to believe this...


She works as a paralegal/defense side for City of Seattle. I couldn't make this shiit up fam.


I guess i have a type. But it's not like i actively look for them. It's purely coincidental. LOL!!!!!



Sincerely hope third time is a charm. She's a charmer, too (but they all start that way. haha).



Wish your breagham luck.
 

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I’m so heated brehs!!!


I chose this cute 33 year old female that I met at Walmart over a bad 18 year old female that was working as a temp at my old job at a warehouse.

The 33 year old had 2 kids and all that, but was an easy fukk.

Now I come across the young girl Instagram and she’s badder than ever. She’s at Albany state and just had her phirst day out as an AKA. I didn’t know she comes from a lineage of AKAs and successful woman. Mom is in medicine and dad in real estate.

god damn it..

I flaked on her twice and was slow texting her because I thought she was just another ain’t shyt young bytch that was gonna be a temp worker forever.

:francis:
Albany State, as in Georgia, Albany State? Where your from breh? :jbhmm:
 

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Have you attempted to kiss her or make a move on her?
No I haven’t, I’m not complaining about that though. I take things slowly. The reason I brought that up was to show that she has no real reason to expect a text back right away and shouldn’t be passive aggressive about a couple hours going by without contact.
 

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No I haven’t, I’m not complaining about that though. I take things slowly. The reason I brought that up was to show that she has no real reason to expect a text back right away and shouldn’t be passive aggressive about a couple hours going by without contact.
Did you tell her this? If not, you should make it clear. Her behavior won’t improve, might even get worse if you don’t establish that boundary.
 

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Question brehs, you ever get money out of a woman?

Not in a pimping type way, but let’s say you’re casually fukking with someone who has a lot of money and can pretty much buy/do whatever they want.

Have you benefited from that financially? Like a woman who in essence pays/rewards you to be with you.

I had this weird thought that the only women in my life should be the ones who are giving me something in return other than p*ssy.
 
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