It’s a whole other world out here rn. Chicks that would stick, even as bed buddies, feel like they have too many options, because they literally do. These apps have done a number on dating/hooking up. These women now have stables, because every man swipes right on everything. Your local cashier is swiping left on big money making entrepreneurs because she thinks she’s going to find an NBA or NFL player on tinder, it’s wild.
I’ve noticed a new phenomenon. These girls block and unblock you when they want some, never seen this shi!t before yet it is happening. When they’re horny they’ll unblock and message you again. No man is not expendable in 2021, I don’t care how good your game is, this new stuff is just different. If you’re into getting her details and into her head, she will want someone more direct and aggressive, if you’re direct and aggressive, she will want someone more patient. And they will ping pong with options based on what they are feeling in the moment. They are more about the next and new match because it’s literally like a drug to women. Imagine getting 50 matches a day, you would get spoiled with options real fast. A lot of times on the apps you will end up with your dik in your hand, yet trust, these women aren’t putting out as much as we think either, this is an ego/mental boost for them. But they do get to pick and choose from a new batch of men daily which is scary.
When you go outside though and you still get a lot of women looking your way, you know you still got it, yet the crazy thing is these same chicks that feel you in person, swipe left on the apps. It can drive you crazy if you let it, yet you need to see through it and keep moving/focusing on your own life.
Totally get the frustration though and it is absolutely warranted. The pandemic sort of made it worse because it added an influx of more people (more men that swipe right on everything and more women getting conditioned to think they are better than they are, because “look at all the options I have!”)
It’s important to not get in your own way and make it a self fulfilling prophecy though. Vent and move on.
What a weird world we’re in rn