Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Breh this shyt ain't even funny. Went through multiple profiles and could barely find one nice chick

Just filled with overweight, covered in tattoos, smokers etc :hhh:

Even the single moms got simps now :stopitslime: they used to be easy money

And mfs say online dating is the main way to find women going forward. Hell nah fukk this
 

Tryna Makit

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Ya man been striking out left and mf right...shyt crazy

Im enough of a vet to push forward and play the numbers but my convo been dry...almost talking way outta p*ssy it seem.....

I gotta get it together man, frfr.

shyt starting to fukk with my attitude:pachaha:
 

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I’ll be back in 2 weeks. Already have 2 thangs from my last trip a month ago waiting for me when I touch down (one picking me up from the airport).

if you can’t pull in Atlanta god bless you
Is there anything different about the women there? I’m from nyc
 

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Ya man been striking out left and mf right...shyt crazy

Im enough of a vet to push forward and play the numbers but my convo been dry...almost talking way outta p*ssy it seem.....

I gotta get it together man, frfr.

shyt starting to fukk with my attitude:pachaha:

It’s a whole other world out here rn. Chicks that would stick, even as bed buddies, feel like they have too many options, because they literally do. These apps have done a number on dating/hooking up. These women now have stables, because every man swipes right on everything. Your local cashier is swiping left on big money making entrepreneurs because she thinks she’s going to find an NBA or NFL player on tinder, it’s wild.

I’ve noticed a new phenomenon. These girls block and unblock you when they want some, never seen this shi!t before yet it is happening. When they’re horny they’ll unblock and message you again. No man is not expendable in 2021, I don’t care how good your game is, this new stuff is just different. If you’re into getting her details and into her head, she will want someone more direct and aggressive, if you’re direct and aggressive, she will want someone more patient. And they will ping pong with options based on what they are feeling in the moment. They are more about the next and new match because it’s literally like a drug to women. Imagine getting 50 matches a day, you would get spoiled with options real fast. A lot of times on the apps you will end up with your dik in your hand, yet trust, these women aren’t putting out as much as we think either, this is an ego/mental boost for them. But they do get to pick and choose from a new batch of men daily which is scary.

When you go outside though and you still get a lot of women looking your way, you know you still got it, yet the crazy thing is these same chicks that feel you in person, swipe left on the apps. It can drive you crazy if you let it, yet you need to see through it and keep moving/focusing on your own life.

Totally get the frustration though and it is absolutely warranted. The pandemic sort of made it worse because it added an influx of more people (more men that swipe right on everything and more women getting conditioned to think they are better than they are, because “look at all the options I have!”)

It’s important to not get in your own way and make it a self fulfilling prophecy though. Vent and move on.

What a weird world we’re in rn
 
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Is there anything different about the women there? I’m from nyc
The numbers and the ratio works in your favor. Nevertheless, if you can’t pull in your own city you won’t just magically be able to pull in Atlanta.

The sheer volume of women works in your favor. That leads to a bit more receptiveness on their part.
 

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Always think that she’s fukking with another dude because there’s a great chance that she is

This advice :dwillhuh::ehh: 100%

You're one of those guys who gets one-itis easily. You're attached to a characteristic, not a person. Its obviously hard at times to tell the difference. As with all encounters, jerk off and see if the post-nut clarity changes any perception of her. Secondly, write down what you like about her the most, and realize that you more than likely can find that in anyone else. Then there's the fact that you might just be a neophile, and while that can be nice, chasing a new feel EVERY time can be bad. Frame is about the creed or mantra that yokes you into the behavior that doesn't leave you exposed. Some say "fake it to you make it", and that can work for some, but I like to know its not an act, and its who I am, not what I want to represent. Though it is true, when choosing to appear like the devil, all men will submit, so if it helps, the world is your stage.

Develop said mantra by using common staples;

She's not the only one like her in the world.

You are better than her

Sex means nothing coming from her as it has no power over you

She needs to jump through your hoops, not you, hers.


I agree. It's her exterior that i'm attracted to because it's my ideal therefore i'm telling myself she could be the "one" :snoop:

Anyway we went out on our 2nd date and I ended up smashing

It's funny how fuccing someone can really change your perception of them.

Still like her but i think im dealing with a witch
 

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It’s a whole other world out here rn. Chicks that would stick, even as bed buddies, feel like they have too many options, because they literally do. These apps have done a number on dating/hooking up. These women now have stables, because every man swipes right on everything. Your local cashier is swiping left on big money making entrepreneurs because she thinks she’s going to find an NBA or NFL player on tinder, it’s wild.

I’ve noticed a new phenomenon. These girls block and unblock you when they want some, never seen this shi!t before yet it is happening. When they’re horny they’ll unblock and message you again. No man is not expendable in 2021, I don’t care how good your game is, this new stuff is just different. If you’re into getting her details and into her head, she will want someone more direct and aggressive, if you’re direct and aggressive, she will want someone more patient. And they will ping pong with options based on what they are feeling in the moment. They are more about the next and new match because it’s literally like a drug to women. Imagine getting 50 matches a day, you would get spoiled with options real fast. A lot of times on the apps you will end up with your dik in your hand, yet trust, these women aren’t putting out as much as we think either, this is an ego/mental boost for them. But they do get to pick and choose from a new batch of men daily which is scary.

When you go outside though and you still get a lot of women looking your way, you know you still got it, yet the crazy thing is these same chicks that feel you in person, swipe left on the apps. It can drive you crazy if you let it, yet you need to see through it and keep moving/focusing on your own life.

Totally get the frustration though and it is absolutely warranted. The pandemic sort of made it worse because it added an influx of more people (more men that swipe right on everything and more women getting conditioned to think they are better than they are, because “look at all the options I have!”)

It’s important to not get in your own way and make it a self fulfilling prophecy though. Vent and move on.

What a weird world we’re in rn

That’s what i been constantly saying. Never take online dating serious.

A 3/10 that you wouldn’t look twice at in real life will act like a 10/10 online with unrealistic standards and demands.

Hoes online also get a kick out of unmatching, ignorning and just seeing which dudes are desperate for them while purposely not putting any effort in return.

Its a funny world we live in when you get unmatched by a double-chinned chick online for sending a gif as an opener but bag a young slim thick mixed attractive jawn walking down the street. :skip:
 

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They was out today

:whew:

Y’all better cold-approach. Stand behind what you say and don’t give a fukk about rejection. But be respectful with it.

I like to start with incorporating my environment. Not so much direct questions towards the woman.
For some reason the cold approach don’t work these days
 
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They was out today

:whew:

Y’all better cold-approach. Stand behind what you say and don’t give a fukk about rejection. But be respectful with it.

I like to start with incorporating my environment. Not so much direct questions towards the woman.

I been in Vegas for a month now. Cold approach is the gold standard outchea
 
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