Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sjankis630]

Damn Breh! Them pics look like they came straight outta a Toronto tourist pamphlet. Are these from your cellphone camera ?

 

[Serious]

Your last paragraph is poignant. I spent the last how many weeks trying to get her to communicate what's on her mind, what's bothering her, etc. I straight up told her like...I'm trying hard to make things work and iron out the issues in the relationship, and it's almost like that pushed her away more. But then it's all "you don't listen to anything I say; you don't care about my feelings anymore" bullshyt like that. I'm damned if I do damned if I don't.

About the image she had of me...I was basically the best guy friend she could ask for. She trusted me with anything. Even back when we just "drinking buddies" she would stay at my crib the whole weekend, sleep in my bed with me, knowing she was safe. That type of trust level. Eventually she made the move and I couldn't turn it down. I guess she had an idealized version of me in her mind that I just couldn't live up to. I knew all her faults, flaws, relationship history, etc. going in and I accepted her despite all that. I couldn't get the same consideration back but that's how it go.

For the record she's 21 so I know she has a lot of growing to do. But my optimistic ass thought maybe things could be different with her because she really has held me down through some tough times in my life recently. She's not the person I thought I knew and that's a hard pill to swallow. She'd probably same the thing about me though so idk. I'm going thru it right now brehs.

Don’t think it changes with age

 

[Serious]

It's one thing but I think us being at a distance kinda made this situation difficult. She lives in Cali, I live on the East coast.

Wtf is wrong with y’all long distance mofos

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn Breh! Them pics look like they came straight outta a Toronto tourist pamphlet. Are these from your cellphone camera ?

nah a dlsr canon , haven’t shot in a while was nice to get out and do it again

 

[MikelArteta]

Don’t think it changes with age

It does I’m 36 and women still act the same to me the only difference is some know they don’t have a lot of time anymore

 

[Neuromancer]

How do you tell a woman you don't want her spending the night every time she comes over, without hurting her feelings..

You just tell her. Would she care about your feelings?

 

[Neuromancer]

Damn. I came in here hoping for some good news and it's more bad than not. Sounds like this had a good day @TradePascalSiakam

 

[Boogie]

Actually had a date today and it went well. We walked around the city looking at my watch like 19km , went down to the fake beach and chilled as well, had a great talk and i was taking photos of the city. Anyways we made it back to where we started and she invited me over to her apartment I said sure. We ended up playing scrabble on her balcony then I had to bounce as I had other obligations.


Spent like three dollars and had a good time

She invited you to her crib and y’all played Scrabble???

 

[MikelArteta]

She invited you to her crib and y’all played Scrabble???

 

[Serious]

got a lil chick i been trying to bag, but, she always bs’n, i guess she want a nikka to wine and dine her, and it’s like broad relax you was a side chick to a nikka, my guess he must have had money, i don’t mind dating you, but don’t be out here demanding shyt, and she stay watching all my stories faithfully

Ain’t you married

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn. I came in here hoping for some good news and it's more bad than not. Sounds like this had a good day @TradePascalSiakam

Sadly I still don’t get excited or whatever. I know how women are

why I always do something I want to do. The taking photos and going for a walk

 

[Serious]

I don't know this chic but we got a few mutuals. She pops up on my recommends and I see this is the first pic. Read the caption, swipe through the pics and y'all tell me if anything is wrong with this

Or the dude don’t want to be on social media.....

 

[Vinny Lupton]

How do you tell a woman you don't want her spending the night every time she comes over, without hurting her feelings..

Go to her crib

 

[Serious]

it's insane how many men are willing to out up with this

Bruh went out and spent bread on a ring and this is probably the first time most folks even knew she had a man much less a nikka on the verge of proposing.

And she still didn't post him oh hell nah this guy is beyond beta

If the dude has other hoes?

 

[Vinny Lupton]

So this PAWG I was supposed to meet up with a few months ago saw me DJing a couple of places on the weekend.

She hasn't contacted me since she said she would get back to me about when she was free.
First message "My friend is having a rooftop party on Friday, are you able to DJ there?"

The pure audacity of some of these hoes. Told her I'm busy.

If it was a paid gig you shoulda took it