Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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2 weeks ago I was out at a lil function I cold approached which I don’t do too often. Beautiful brown skin shorty, grad student and a college athlete. We struck up a good 30 minute and I walked her to her car. Laughing all that good shyt. I was actually shocked at myself:merchant:

She’ll be in Seattle til mid august on some intern shyt. She be taking like a day or two to respond, and I’m a bad texter myself

I was really feeling shorty tho, should I put her on ice til she back in town or on to the next one:jbhmm:

It be crazy the one shorty you actually not trying to smash immediately and get to know be the one that slippin away :mjcry:
why didn't you try to escalate right then? Did you get flirty at all during the conversation?

shyt right during that conversation if it's going good you need to be talking about hanging out/getting her alone etc something. The next link should have been talked about right then and there even if lightly. I think you didn’t give her the tingles bruh :francis: a day or two to respond is bush status.

She ain’t feeling it and she’s in a whole different city with other shyt on her mind.
 

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2 weeks ago I was out at a lil function I cold approached which I don’t do too often. Beautiful brown skin shorty, grad student and a college athlete. We struck up a good 30 minute and I walked her to her car. Laughing all that good shyt. I was actually shocked at myself:merchant:

She’ll be in Seattle til mid august on some intern shyt. She be taking like a day or two to respond, and I’m a bad texter myself

I was really feeling shorty tho, should I put her on ice til she back in town or on to the next one:jbhmm:

It be crazy the one shorty you actually not trying to smash immediately and get to know be the one that slippin away :mjcry:
Lol girls are extremely gifted in relegating men to certain statuses within a few minutes of meeting them.

sounds to me when u met her and during your conversation with her she could see your eyes light up, the tone of ur voice changing. These are signs of excitement. These signs relegates u to the status of a fan, whether u admit it or not.

when u meet a girl, especially one who u find attractive, u have to become an actor and monitor every movement u make. Every word u say must be carefully selected.

If you’ve never been told u are arrogant, conceited, full of yourself, confident, very calm, boy oh boy, you’ve got work to do.
 

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Lol girls are extremely gifted in relegating men to certain statuses within a few minutes of meeting them.

sounds to me when u met her and during your conversation with her she could see your eyes light up, the tone of ur voice changing. These are signs of excitement. These signs relegates u to the status of a fan, whether u admit it or not.

when u meet a girl, especially one who u find attractive, u have to become an actor and monitor every movement u make. Every word u say must be carefully selected.

If you’ve never been told u are arrogant, conceited, full of yourself, confident, very calm, boy oh boy, you’ve got work to do.
Everyone else is speaking English but this breh right here is speaking FACTS!

If you don’t think youre the shyt and act accordingly she won’t either.

As a side I’ll also add aggressive to this list. Note I said aggressive not thirsty. There’s a happy medium in escalation, I’ve had women tell me I’m “aggressive”(their word) but I’ve gotten each and every one of them in my bed. But I’m handsome gang so YMMV.

I have noticed what women consider creepy is entirely dependent on the man’s attractiveness.
 

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why didn't you try to escalate right then? Did you get flirty at all during the conversation?

shyt right during that conversation if it's going good you need to be talking about hanging out/getting her alone etc something. The next link should have been talked about right then and there even if lightly. I think you didn’t give her the tingles bruh :francis: a day or two to respond is bush status.

She ain’t feeling it and she’s in a whole different city with other shyt on her mind.
I seen other nikkas tryin to spit at her and her friends and they got bushed. I felt like I came correct :manny: Idk this is the first girl in awhile where I just felt that vibe instantly. There was no awkward pauses and she ain’t seem disinterested at all when we interacted. We talked career, family, cars, shyt even the playoffs(she hooped D3).

We wasn’t far from my crib either, but thats not what I was on that night. ima just try to get at her when she slide back next month :yeshrug:
 

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I seen other nikkas tryin to spit at her and her friends and they got bushed. I felt like I came correct :manny: Idk this is the first girl in awhile where I just felt that vibe instantly. There was no awkward pauses and she ain’t seem disinterested at all when we interacted. We talked career, family, cars, shyt even the playoffs(she hooped D3).

We wasn’t far from my crib either, but thats not what I was on that night. ima just try to get at her when she slide back next month :yeshrug:
eh idk I'm talking to a shawty across the country and she responds in minutes, talking freaky and is begging me to come see her.

Also been texting a bytch in the town that took a day to respond. You know when a chic is feeling you.

Look up a book called 'Mode One'

Those dudes that came at her direct got their answer off the bat and didn't have to waste time. You may have danced around playing it safe which she was cool with so there was nothing to shut down.

Google that and add PDF to the end. Should be a free copy floating around. This book taught me to be more direct. Gets you your answer faster.


I'd bush it and see if she hits you up when she comes back. If she doesn't, you have your answer :hubie:
 

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What makes u think she won’t? That’s what a lot of the dudes in here don’t get. If U were the husband, she’d be saying the same sh1t to the next n1gga. Just enjoy the attention and trust no one. Yes, that includes your wife.

my wife aint clubbing/going to bars so there is that
 

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Theirs this one girl I feel got away from me and it hurts every time I think about her. TITTY BAR TMRW NIGHT
 

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When I get disappointed I turn into Quasimoto for days. Just super sad and shyt. Can’t even fukking smile, become shy.
 

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what are some of y’all go to pick up lines on these dating apps?
 

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Breh when I was in my twenties I did a fucckton of the things you’re talking about here.

after a while u realize you’re really not some mysterious Mac daddy. These girls are just sluts. And they can be your slut if If if if if if you don’t put them on a pedestal. Like dude who texted ol girl saying he had so much fun. Such a dude is clearly new to game and does not understand women.

and just like ol girl fuccked u, I can assure u u ain’t the first n1gga she let hit that fast.

and as far as taking girls out to eat, I do that a lot. Not cause I’m trying to impress them but cause I personally enjoying going out to eat. Plus it’s always fun to me when the bartenders start shooting their shot when the girl I’m with goes to the restroom. I just enjoy the restaurant/bar vibe. And i usually order way more food than the girl. Last girl I went out with last week I took to a restaurant. She ordered chicken salad I ordered a giant steak. Bill was like $160. I thoroughly enjoyed my food.

Just be careful out there. These girls are fuccking everybody.

I'm not saying any of these girls are virgins nor will I be the last to fukk but the vast majority of guys they see strike out than actually hit. I always ask about their last dates, previous guys, etc - Majority of thee guys opt for dinners and shyt, doing too much
 
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