Took some professional headshot photos over the weekend and posted one as my New profile pic and the DM’s been lit![]()
Had one of the baddest in my DM’s call me handsome and we’ve been talking all day

Took some professional headshot photos over the weekend and posted one as my New profile pic and the DM’s been lit![]()

At first I took this response from you a certain way but I thought about it last nightLol girls are extremely gifted in relegating men to certain statuses within a few minutes of meeting them.
sounds to me when u met her and during your conversation with her she could see your eyes light up, the tone of ur voice changing. These are signs of excitement. These signs relegates u to the status of a fan, whether u admit it or not.
when u meet a girl, especially one who u find attractive, u have to become an actor and monitor every movement u make. Every word u say must be carefully selected.
If you’ve never been told u are arrogant, conceited, full of yourself, confident, very calm, boy oh boy, you’ve got work to do.
Idk shorty was just hittin all the check marks for what I look for personally. I got geeked a little too easilyI'd bush it and see if she hits you up when she comes back. If she doesn't, you have your answer![]()
How do I walk that line between being pleasant and not coming off like arrogant ass? Most girls get geeked the minute I tell them what I do for a living
Can someone hep me with this?
I've heard about photographers smashing their subjects.
Now, how exactly does that happen?
Any insight at all?

You’re a MAN. Stop it with this estrogen, fairy fakkit talk immediately
100% that nikka is an incel caricature troll.
I'm not buying it
fukk you allI think he is special needs
Generally I’d agree but I think breh should try a more direct approach if/when she comes by his neck of the woods. If breh made an ok but not great impression then ole girl might not hit him up. He’s gotta be the hunter in this situation. He has nothing to lose as well.
Man, you just have to step over that line from time to time. Only way to know where that line is is by making moves.
From what some photographer brehs have told me, its really no different than any other occasion/interaction with women. Escalate, escalate, escalate. While taking pics they start out professionally, get the girls to open up and then shoot their shot. Might be for drinks at the bar/crib etc.
I’ll caveat that they usually run this game with girls that request professional thirst traps shoots (azz and titties all out etc). If this is your proper gig you may wanna keep it strictly professional since that industry is heavy on referrals.
EDIT: One breh did tell me before the shoots he’ll ask the girl if she’d like him to bring refreshments for the shoot e.g. snacks, water, wine, champagne etc.
If she agrees to liq/wine then there’s an opening. He’ll also have on music while doing the shoot, crack jokes and just make the session comfortable
She’s suggestively dressed + she feels sexy while suggestively dressed + tipsy + good music and a photographer breh making her feel comfortable/sexy. That’s the play man![]()
Lol dude may not be as pressed for sex as u would think.
I’ve hung out with and taken many pretty women out on dates, with no intentions of fuccking. I have my reasons. Some girls hygiene may not elicit that sexual urge. Some girls have masculine energy but u still hang out with them cause they attract more girls to u.
Can someone hep me with this?
I've heard about photographers smashing their subjects.
Now, how exactly does that happen?
Step 1. Ask girl to take photos of her
Step 2. ???
Step 3. Smash
Are they just asking these girls out after the session and smashing on a later date? Or are they straight up making a move during the session?
Any insight at all?
never mix business and pleasure, these hoes are ruthless don’t pour gasoline on yourself.Can someone hep me with this?
I've heard about photographers smashing their subjects.
Now, how exactly does that happen?
Step 1. Ask girl to take photos of her
Step 2. ???
Step 3. Smash
Are they just asking these girls out after the session and smashing on a later date? Or are they straight up making a move during the session?
Any insight at all?
If you are serious about making money from photography, this seems like a way to fukk up your bread if things go left with the wrong girl.
never mix business and pleasure, these hoes are ruthless don’t pour gasoline on yourself.

a more skilled bullshytter coulda resolved the issue but I just don't careI don't wanna actually be a photographer. Just interested in how they go about smashing their clients.
If I go that route, it won't be for the money![]()

Happens keep it moving. Sometimes it not worth the stress.Lost my freakiest roster member. She caught feelings and I'm sewing my wild oatsa more skilled bullshytter coulda resolved the issue but I just don't care
Exactly, just opens up some salary cap money for new signingsHappens keep it moving. Sometimes it not worth the stress.

she already came backLost my freakiest roster member. She caught feelings and I'm sewing my wild oatsa more skilled bullshytter coulda resolved the issue but I just don't care
women love competition