Lol girls are extremely gifted in relegating men to certain statuses within a few minutes of meeting them.2 weeks ago I was out at a lil function I cold approached which I don’t do too often. Beautiful brown skin shorty, grad student and a college athlete. We struck up a good 30 minute and I walked her to her car. Laughing all that good shyt. I was actually shocked at myself
She’ll be in Seattle til mid august on some intern shyt. She be taking like a day or two to respond, and I’m a bad texter myself
I was really feeling shorty tho, should I put her on ice til she back in town or on to the next one
It be crazy the one shorty you actually not trying to smash immediately and get to know be the one that slippin away![]()
sounds to me when u met her and during your conversation with her she could see your eyes light up, the tone of ur voice changing. These are signs of excitement. These signs relegates u to the status of a fan, whether u admit it or not.
when u meet a girl, especially one who u find attractive, u have to become an actor and monitor every movement u make. Every word u say must be carefully selected.
If you’ve never been told u are arrogant, conceited, full of yourself, confident, very calm, boy oh boy, you’ve got work to do.


a day or two to respond is bush status.
Idk this is the first girl in awhile where I just felt that vibe instantly. There was no awkward pauses and she ain’t seem disinterested at all when we interacted. We talked career, family, cars, shyt even the playoffs(she hooped D3). 


