Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yea man I’m not sure what it is either. She talks a lot about wanting me/ being turned on, but we rarely actually follow thru. It’s like I’m constantly being teased. We both recently graduated and moved home, so I’m sure not having a place of our own is part of the issue, but it also existed when we both had our own places.

I’m kinda nearing the point where I don’t wanna try anymore. It’s crazy I feel like i gotta put so much work in for a part of the relationship that should be expected. I could have an easier time bagging a random girl off the street dawg. Then I look at the beginning of our relationship and think of how she was constantly trying to do something sexual w me. Being flirty, unprompted head, adventurous etc. Now I gotta ask and ion like that. Been feeling like something wrong with me man. i know sex isn’t a huge deal, and honestly when I wasn’t in a relationship, I wouldn’t even be out there like that, just here and there when I wanted it. I get money, I’m productive and ambitious, in the gym constantly, and handsome not to mention that I always try to be a good bf

I try to not focus too much on this part of our relationship lacking, but it’s one of the few issues I’ve brought to her yet it remains unchanged. Like overall we’re pretty good relationship wise. I don’t wanna beg or have the feeling that I’m begging, that’s so gross, and I also feel that beating off is a gross and lowly thing to do too so that makes everything harder. She sees issues and brings them to me and I do my best to solve them, I don’t get why it can’t go both ways.

sex IS important.

.. and she might be getting it somewhere else.

shyt always start off good and freaky.

the living situation doesn’t matter because bytches MAKE TIME. Trust me.

sounds like she’s pulling away.

she dismisses your concerns? Smh. What she say to you? That you’re crazy, insecure, or it’s not a big deal?…

if so, I got her all figured out.

bytches are dirty yo
 

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Lmao Two chicks I used to fukk with both decided to hit me up today wanting to smash again when I'm tryna sort out my relationship shyt. As I said before just gonna fall back, might just be too into that chick but the passion ain't there.

@Bossyyyyy I feel your pain breh. It's like that with mine too, everything is there but the passion and it didn't help that she found out I was cheating. I'm planning to just fall back and do me on the side, if shyt don't improve I'll just leave her and let someone else deal with that but I ain't gonna be initiating it every time.
 

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Lmao Two chicks I used to fukk with both decided to hit me up today wanting to smash again when I'm tryna sort out my relationship shyt. As I said before just gonna fall back, might just be too into that chick but the passion ain't there.

@Bossyyyyy I feel your pain breh. It's like that with mine too, everything is there but the passion and it didn't help that she found out I was cheating. I'm planning to just fall back and do me on the side, if shyt don't improve I'll just leave her and let someone else deal with that.
Have you had a real conversation with her about it recently?
 

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sex IS important.

.. and she might be getting it somewhere else.

shyt always start off good and freaky.

the living situation doesn’t matter because bytches MAKE TIME. Trust me.

sounds like she’s pulling away.

bytches are dirty yo
Lmao Two chicks I used to fukk with both decided to hit me up today wanting to smash again when I'm tryna sort out my relationship shyt. As I said before just gonna fall back, might just be too into that chick but the passion ain't there.

@Bossyyyyy I feel your pain breh. It's like that with mine too, everything is there but the passion and it didn't help that she found out I was cheating. I'm planning to just fall back and do me on the side, if shyt don't improve I'll just leave her and let someone else deal with that but I ain't gonna be initiating it every time.


how did her finding out go? only reason i won’t do it is bc im afraid of stds, wanna try n keep my integrity, and also bc ion think most of these girls are good enough for me :/
 

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sex IS important.

.. and she might be getting it somewhere else.

shyt always start off good and freaky.

the living situation doesn’t matter because bytches MAKE TIME. Trust me.

sounds like she’s pulling away.

she dismisses your concerns? Smh. What she say to you? That you’re crazy, insecure, or it’s not a big deal?…

if so, I got her all figured out.

bytches are dirty yo

When it come to my concerns being dismissed, first I was sex crazed (I’m not), then it was excuses, then it was “it’s not a big deal” now it’s “I’m trying”. I’m kinda over it bro. It was never like I was bringing this stuff up to her in a hostile or rude way either. Despite my frustration , my goal was to always be very open and receptive when bringing problems up (any problems).

It’s asinine how hard I gotta try to smash my own girl, meanwhile girls I barely know throw it at me. It also baffles me how if I were to step out that I’m in the wrong regardless whereas on the other end, that person has “needs”

you mention women being dirty and I agree 100% just not too long ago I was talking to a girl n she was telling me how she step out on her nikka whenever he get locked. apparently he know tho and had his nikkas sent to her house when they caught wind :mjlol:

If I was 60 and going weeks-months without sex it would be a diff story, but no I’m 23
 

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When it come to my concerns being dismissed, first I was sex crazed (I’m not), then it was excuses, then it was “it’s not a big deal” now it’s “I’m trying”. I’m kinda over it bro. It was never like I was bringing this stuff up to her in a hostile or rude way either. Despite my frustration , my goal was to always be very open and receptive when bringing problems up (any problems).

It’s asinine how hard I gotta try to smash my own girl, meanwhile girls I barely know throw it at me. It also baffles me how if I were to step out that I’m in the wrong regardless whereas on the other end, that person has “needs”

you mention women being dirty and I agree 100% just not too long ago I was talking to a girl n she was telling me how she step out on her nikka whenever he get locked. apparently he know tho and had his nikkas sent to her house when they caught wind :mjlol:

If I was 60 and going weeks-months without sex it would be a diff story, but no I’m 23

man a lot of us has been through this believe it or not. It doesn’t get better unfortunately. Either you’re gonna have to deal with it or get someone else more sexually compatible with you.

She doesn’t even give you throat either?…
 

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man a lot of us has been through this believe it or not. It doesn’t get better unfortunately. Either you’re gonna have to deal with it or get someone else more sexually compatible with you.

She doesn’t even give you throat either?…


Naw man. If she does, I gotta ask, and that’ll only last for 2-3 min max at typically low effort. I think the only time I got blown to completion was before we started being official :mjlol::unimpressed:
 

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So at what point after fukking do you ask women to build with you?

I got money to be made, I can’t waste time dropping off dikk if I’m not getting any gain from it other than a nut.

Like 2nd or 3rd time?
 

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Went on a date last night the woman was 34 she was engaged 3 times talking about how she wasn’t going to settle.

The reasons she gave for ending the engagements at 19 the man was killed in a bar fight.

the second one was “down low” and the third one she was in a relationship for seven years.

She wants three kids and to be “financially spoiled” by her man.

She is 4’11 and says most men don’t want to be a “husband” and want a roommate on 50/50

However she shops at thrift stores and goes on Three vacations a year.

Longest relationship was 7 years and been in therapy for 3+ years.

Also states she is dating with a purpose.

All of this shyt is real
Bushes nikka.....

You really trying deal with a woman that has that type of entitlement.

Ask yourself this, does this sound like a woman you see yourself spending the other half of your life with?
 
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