Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Guvnor]

Told my girl the passion was lacking and I wasn't sure if the sexual chemistry was there and shyt got worse. We had the worse sex ever cause she got too in her head thinking she may not be enough for me...smh.

how did her finding out go? only reason i won’t do it is bc im afraid of stds, wanna try n keep my integrity, and also bc ion think most of these girls are good enough for me :/

shyt crushed her, she was crying and it hurt the trust she had in me. Every time I open my phone she told me she feels terrible. If you ever do it make sure you don't get caught and wrap it up!

At the end of the day you have to ask yourself(same as me) is it worth it doing all of that when you could be single and moving how you want? Having better sex but maybe not a better relationship.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Told my girl the passion was lacking and I wasn't sure if the sexual chemistry was there and shyt got worse. We had the worse sex ever cause she got too in her head thinking she may not be enough for me...smh.


shyt crushed her, she was crying and it hurt the trust she had in me. Every time I open my phone she told me she feels terrible. If you ever do it make sure you don't get caught and wrap it up!

At the end of the day you have to ask yourself(same as me) is it worth it doing all of that when you could be single and moving how you want? Having better sex but maybe not a better relationship.

I know once I bust w another girl that ima be looking @ her in disgust not to mention the post nut shame that will 100% come after. Besides , I know I don’t wanna sneak around. I’m not a good liar as-is.

Had a similar conversation w my girl regarding lack of passion. It be feeling like we friends a lot of the time. I wonder if she’s like yours where she’s thinking whether or not she’s good enough…I’ve personally definitely had thoughts like that before. Do you think your girl may have stepped out in revenge?

Could be single and smash anyone I want, but I’m not all about smashing to begin with, and being w her showed me that I value a connection there. I remember the first few times we laid down and after how I wasn’t disgusted w her or wanting to leave/ get her out right after like I have been with many others. Idk I enjoy her a lot

 

[Apollo Creed]

I know it sounds funny but it’s sad
She hit him over the head from behind with a laptop multiple times there was blood everywhere.

Aint a damn thing funny, and watch he wont press charges, yet roles reverse his ass would be in prison or dead cause the cops killed him

 

[Apollo Creed]

she’s a psycho I’m sure this isn’t the first time. Dude refuses to listen it’s like that ish when you hear a woman says she walked into a door or something.

just make sure your boy has life insurance and you got a suit for the funeral since he wants to die

 

[Apollo Creed]

I know once I bust w another girl that ima be looking @ her in disgust not to mention the post nut shame that will 100% come after. Besides , I know I don’t wanna sneak around. I’m not a good liar as-is.

Had a similar conversation w my girl regarding lack of passion. It be feeling like we friends a lot of the time. I wonder if she’s like yours where she’s thinking whether or not she’s good enough…I’ve personally definitely had thoughts like that before. Do you think your girl may have stepped out in revenge?

Could be single and smash anyone I want, but I’m not all about smashing to begin with, and being w her showed me that I value a connection there. I remember the first few times we laid down and after how I wasn’t disgusted w her or wanting to leave/ get her out right after like I have been with many others. Idk I enjoy her a lot

when the passion is gone end it. Usually a sign things are done and yall just going through the motions. This is what happens when dudes just shack up with women with no end goals.

 

[TRUEST]

Aint a damn thing funny, and watch he wont press charges, yet roles reverse his ass would be in prison or dead cause the cops killed him

I saw a documentary a while back that says in cases of domestic abuse, men often refuse to press charges. But if it’s a woman who calls the cops, more often than not, they press charges.

I been there. Cops weren’t called but it’s one of those experiences that helps u realize what u don’t want in a partner. Someone who gets u heated enough where physical assault takes place is not someone u want as a girlfriend, baby momma or wife.

had a girl like that years ago. We got into it one morning after she got out the shower. I was heated. Think she got off on angering me. I shoved her and she landed hard on her ass. There was a massive mark on her ass. She got up and there was this satisfying grin on her face which let me know off top that she was a nutcase. She lunges at me and I realized I had to stop this or I might end up doing her something vicious. I just grabbed her, pushed her face to floor and put my weight on her till she calmed down.

girl was gorgeous but was certainly a threat to my independence.

 

[Guvnor]

I know once I bust w another girl that ima be looking @ her in disgust not to mention the post nut shame that will 100% come after. Besides , I know I don’t wanna sneak around. I’m not a good liar as-is.

Had a similar conversation w my girl regarding lack of passion. It be feeling like we friends a lot of the time. I wonder if she’s like yours where she’s thinking whether or not she’s good enough…I’ve personally definitely had thoughts like that before. Do you think your girl may have stepped out in revenge?

Could be single and smash anyone I want, but I’m not all about smashing to begin with, and being w her showed me that I value a connection there. I remember the first few times we laid down and after how I wasn’t disgusted w her or wanting to leave/ get her out right after like I have been with many others. Idk I enjoy her a lot

Yeah then cheating may not be the move cause with lying to women or anyone really you have to remember your lie. You might lie and say you was with your cousin then two weeks later she might ask how is your cousin and you might slip up and reply I don't really know it's been months since I've seen him. In that moment right there she caught you in a lie.

With my girl she swears she didn't step out and even handed me her phone to look through and my inspection came back clean. No crazy calls or text, not even a nude picture which makes me look crazy cause now she see's me as insecure. I have the same issue where it feels like we are friends. When I brought up lack of passion she said maybe our sex drives don't line up and I want it more than her, she also said she never initiated sex in previous relationships but the whole convo made her think and feel she wasn't good enough for me and now when we are intimate she may start to over think shyt.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I saw a documentary a while back that says in cases of domestic abuse, men often refuse to press charges. But if it’s a woman who calls the cops, more often than not, they press charges.

I been there. Cops weren’t called but it’s one of those experiences that helps u realize what u don’t want in a partner. Someone who gets u heated enough where physical assault takes place is not someone u want as a girlfriend, baby momma or wife.

had a girl like that years ago. We got into it one morning after she got out the shower. I was heated. Think she got off on angering me. I shoved her and she landed hard on her ass. There was a massive mark on her ass. She got up and there was this satisfying grin on her face which let me know off top that she was a nutcase. She lunges at me and I realized I had to stop this or I might end up doing her something vicious. I just grabbed her, pushed her face to floor and put my weight on her till she calmed down.

girl was gorgeous but was certainly a threat to my independence.

im pretty physically imposing to most women plus i vet out women who think arguing is fun, so i never had any domestic issues, especially since my personality is pretty no nonsense even though i am very witty

 

[Bossyyyyy]

when the passion is gone end it. Usually a sign things are done and yall just going through the motions. This is what happens when dudes just shack up with women with no end goals.

End goals wym? I started dating her bc she was one of the first girls that were legitimately worth my while and also adds to my life. End goals meaning getting married?

 

[Max.]

Had to dismiss a chick out of my place yesterday.

Spoiler: Full story

Met her a few times and we've had sexual activity before. But the last time we met she was on her period but we played around a bit. She's also weird about kissing, like she doesn't like it.

Yet she's sucked my dikk with no problem, anyway yesterday I have my hands down her jeans in my bed and we're watching something. I go to take her jeans off and she's asking me what are you doing?

I think she's playing, so I leave my hands down her jeans and a few mins later I go again she tells me no, and she's not ready. I'm not trying to catch a charge so I backup.

I'm like well when will you be ready? she mumbles she doesn't know. Last time we almost fukked she said I was too big for her and I could hurt her.

Sucked all the want I had for her, so I tell her it was getting late and I'll get her a cab home as I was up in a few hours for a friend's brunch. She seemed kinda shocked I was basically asking her to leave the crib at 3am but she gets out my bed and gets her stuff together. Call her an UBER and tell her take care she hugs me and leaves. She gets home and says thank you for the lovely evening with lovehearts and she'll talk to me soon.



Naw luv. Didn't even open the app to look at the full message and to show I'd read it.

I should have bushed her previously but she caught me in a good mood, never again.

had a story like this before years ago…was kickn it with this super “woke” white bytch…that had a fat ass but i think most dudes wouldnt talk to her..she was all talk n when i was feeling on her..she feeling on the dikk…i was basically like we messn around or not?? She said it very oddly like i was tryna force her or something so i just player cool n left


2nd time…she started actn lil weird so i stopped…maybe she had 2nd thoughts

 

[dizzy4111]

she’s a psycho I’m sure this isn’t the first time. Dude refuses to listen it’s like that ish when you hear a woman says she walked into a door or something.

I know from personal experience that shyt will only get worse from here...and that's pretty bad already

 

[MikelArteta]

Aint a damn thing funny, and watch he wont press charges, yet roles reverse his ass would be in prison or dead cause the cops killed him

He won't
He lied at the hospital saying something fell from the shelf and hit his head

 

[MollyGalaga]

All these girls on my line, and I still want you




You don't want me tho

 

[360dagod]

Told my girl the passion was lacking and I wasn't sure if the sexual chemistry was there and shyt got worse. We had the worse sex ever cause she got too in her head thinking she may not be enough for me...smh.


shyt crushed her, she was crying and it hurt the trust she had in me. Every time I open my phone she told me she feels terrible. If you ever do it make sure you don't get caught and wrap it up!

At the end of the day you have to ask yourself(same as me) is it worth it doing all of that when you could be single and moving how you want? Having better sex but maybe not a better relationship.

Bruh you gotta know when to curb the conversation...
The type of conversations your having is doing more damage than the actual cheating...

 

[Guvnor]

Bruh you gotta know when to curb the conversation...
The type of conversations your having is doing more damage than the actual cheating...

So in other words you felt I should have never discussed this kind of thing with her? If so then what do you feel I could have done to try to improve things?