Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

It's been said in here before but you can't expect a woman to be grateful for the things you do for her. It'll drive you crazy. They understand it but they don't internalize it like we do. It's expected to them. I read that thread by the way, she's a real winner.

ive said it before you can meet a women at a womens shelter where she is pregnant and alone and start dating her treating her good moving her in raising that child like your own and she will still cheat and leave you for some a$$hole who tingles her spine.


the thing that upsets me the most in all this, im a nice person i dont do things to get inside a womens pants, or to be acknowledged. but you help out these women they view you as weak

you need to go to the grocery store and its on my way sure i dont mind droppng you

in her mind, ah i can use this nikka for a ride from now on


and it is literally true, i remember the last girl i messed with sexually before i changed my ways, i treated her like crap. i would literally go over to her house have sex with her and leave, not call her for weeks until i wanted sex again. this went on for almost like 9 months, then she smartened up or got a bf, but the worse i treated her the more i ignored her the more she was on to me, shed get angrya nd say im using her and id just ignore then hey wanna come over

only older women appreciate kindness, ever notice girls you date if you meet their mom and their mom knows your a good guy the mom will treat you like a king, they know how i tis out there, but their young daughters are dum

 

[MikelArteta]

Exactly. Never give away your exclusivity willingly. The name of the game is the female has to WIN your exclusivity with her loyalty and dedication to you. That's the only way to handle these females... and even then, you have to always give that girl the impression that if she screws up and starts playing around, coming with the nagging and problems, that you'll be willing to drop her. NEVER attempt to win a woman or prove your loyalty through exclusivity. YOU are the prize, and real prizes are WON. They are not given away for free or little effort.

more men need to understand this

there are more women than men out there number 1

more women than men want to get married and have kids

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Every reply in this page is...





As i myself will, y'all need to bookmark the info in this thread into your craniums.


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[MikeyK]

ive said it before you can meet a women at a womens shelter where she is pregnant and alone and start dating her treating her good moving her in raising that child like your own and she will still cheat and leave you for some a$$hole who tingles her spine.


the thing that upsets me the most in all this, im a nice person i dont do things to get inside a womens pants, or to be acknowledged. but you help out these women they view you as weak

you need to go to the grocery store and its on my way sure i dont mind droppng you

in her mind, ah i can use this nikka for a ride from now on


and it is literally true, i remember the last girl i messed with sexually before i changed my ways, i treated her like crap. i would literally go over to her house have sex with her and leave, not call her for weeks until i wanted sex again. this went on for almost like 9 months, then she smartened up or got a bf, but the worse i treated her the more i ignored her the more she was on to me, shed get angrya nd say im using her and id just ignore then hey wanna come over

only older women appreciate kindness, ever notice girls you date if you meet their mom and their mom knows your a good guy the mom will treat you like a king, they know how i tis out there, but their young daughters are dum

Do you really believe that? You seem like a fake nice person.

 

[MikelArteta]

Do you really believe that? You seem like a fake nice person.

how do i seem like a fake nice person?

the difference between me and a "nice guy" or a "simp" when i do something kind i have no ulterior motive.

nice guys and simps expect they will get acknowledge and praised, a kiss, a blowjob maybe sex, i do things because im naturally nice..

i dont even have to know a chick that well but if you need help mo ving and im doing nothing that day ill help you out, i dont need a thanks, no heres a twenty, heres a kiss, heres a blowjob

 

[MikelArteta]

I look at it like this. p*ssy is the cheese in the mouse trap. These women have a plan and while you got a plan too you achieving your plan is also step in their plan. women don't really do something for nothing. they're intuitive thinkers and planners and they're usually always 2 steps ahead of the average man.

the average man sees a fly woman and his initial plan is to fukk her and that's it. he doesn't plan on making her his girl or wife or any of that. if a woman becomes your girlfriend she not only knew that was gonna happen before you did but that too was a step in her larger plan.

of the average man is the key,

the thing is women ruined the game for themselves, if they stopped all the ons, and screwing mad dudes, dudes would actually commit etc.

now whats the point? you can go on pof, send the same message to like 15 girls, 3-4 will bite, chat em up get their number, we all know the rules by 3 dates youll be in them pants and rinse n repeat.

 

[MikelArteta]

damn bro. that's real. I almost died a couple of years ago too. My camaro flipped and fell off a bridge upside down. I used be a huge networker and 'known', but I realized I had to cut a lot of people off. (quality over quantity). I view life a whole lot differently now. Not very many get to see their morality flash before their eyes but when it does....you change for sure.

I don't even think I want to get married, I think I just want to see the rest of the planet before I go.

daps

Outside your parents deep down most people are really indifferent about you. To a limited extent they wish you well but not to the extent that you'd be more sucessful than them. They'll help you if its something easy but they're not usually gonna go out of their way and they won't suffer a great loss for your benefit. Most people are self absorbed and preoccupied with looking out for their own self interest. That's ultimately why being a nice person is worthless in our world today. Mainly because if you put others first in a world where everyone puts themselves first you'll always come up last.

this is true, i was in a car accident in the middle of nowhere and needed someone to pick me up, out of all my "friends" only two actually were willing to come get me and one lives a hour and a half away, little things like these is why i cut certain people out of my life, i almost died was in shock, wet all over and shivering and folks who just lived 10-15 min away were "busy"

 

[MikeyK]

how do i seem like a fake nice person?

the difference between me and a "nice guy" or a "simp" when i do something kind i have no ulterior motive.

nice guys and simps expect they will get acknowledge and praised, a kiss, a blowjob maybe sex, i do things because im naturally nice..

i dont even have to know a chick that well but if you need help mo ving and im doing nothing that day ill help you out, i dont need a thanks, no heres a twenty, heres a kiss, heres a blowjob

You state a hypothetical situation where helping out a pregnant woman get out of a shelter but quickly change it to her leaving for another man. There's a bitterness of her leaving like she owes you something for helping out but no mention of why she leaves.

You seem angry at women. Maybe not all but a certain type.

Hoes gon be hoes.

 

[MikelArteta]

You state a hypothetical situation where helping out a pregnant woman get out of a shelter but quickly change it to her leaving for another man. There's a bitterness of her leaving like she owes you something for helping out but no mention of why she leaves.

You seem angry at women. Maybe not all but a certain type.

Hoes gon be hoes.

angry? if i was angry at a women, id continue pumping and dumping, used and abused, cheat, release naked pics and videos, i am not angry.

its amazing how folks always drop angry and bitterness when someone lays down facts

there is no bitterness of someone leaving in that situation, i was using that situation as a example of how women and men are different. you always see men say, yeah man i love jane she stood by me when i had nothing, never a broad. if the roles were reversed and say a man in a homeless shelter met a nurse or something who works at the shelter and they fall in love, i gurantee you that man will be indebted to her and cherished her and love her for the rest of his life, thats how men are wired and how we think.

you've seen pulp fiction? bruce willis and ving rhames, rhames had a hit out on bruce willis and was going to kill him, willis saves rhames whn hes getting anally raped, and they good, you can save a man your enemy, and he will remember that for life and treat you with respect and dignity, now a broad?

 

[MikeyK]

angry? if i was angry at a women, id continue pumping and dumping, used and abused, cheat, release naked pics and videos, i am not angry.

its amazing how folks always drop angry and bitterness when someone lays down facts

there is no bitterness of someone leaving in that situation, i was using that situation as a example of how women and men are different. you always see men say, yeah man i love jane she stood by me when i had nothing, never a broad. if the roles were reversed and say a man in a homeless shelter met a nurse or something who works at the shelter and they fall in love, i gurantee you that man will be indebted to her and cherished her and love her for the rest of his life, thats how men are wired and how we think.

you've seen pulp fiction? bruce willis and ving rhames, rhames had a hit out on bruce willis and was going to kill him, willis saves rhames whn hes getting anally raped, and they good, you can save a man your enemy, and he will remember that for life and treat you with respect and dignity, now a broad?

If you think women are any different then you then no matter what facts are presented to you, you will pick and choose what fits your view on them. Some chick did you dirty and fukk her for that shyt but they ain't all the same. Are you female family members the type to screw you over? Where do you draw the line between good women and bad women?

 

[MikelArteta]

If you think women are any different then you then no matter what facts are presented to you, you will pick and choose what fits your view on them. Some chick did you dirty and fukk her for that shyt but they ain't all the same. Are you female family members the type to screw you over? Where do you draw the line between good women and bad women?

there is a saying trust but verify.

 

[winb83]

Do you really believe that? You seem like a fake nice person.

No good deed goes unpunished to a woman. in general women have a sense of entitlement that men don't. women expect things to go their way and you become a means to that end if you start doing them favors.

you do a woman a favor and there's an instant mental shift. "What else can i get outta this guy?" women will walk all over you if you let them but one of their better tricks is walking all over you and having you not even realize they're doing it.

it always starts off minor. "Can you get me a Coke when you go to the store?" "Can you get me some gum?" "Can you bring some Hennessy when you come by?" then its "My car broke down can you take me to the store?" gradually it increases to shyt like "I have an emergency and I need to borrow $50 till i get paid. Can you lend it to me?" its a slow but gradual increase kinda like this.
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the problem with this is the more you do for them the less they respect you. if or when it gets to the ridiculous level of you putting them on your cell phone plan or letting them move in and paying most of if not all the rent at that point its total disdain for you. mind you if you're at the level of doing stuff like that its probably a girlfriend or so you think but they'll fake a relationship with you to get all that shyt and fukk around on you behind your back and when they talk to their "besties" about you you're a clown that they only tolerate because you're doing all that shyt. when it gets to that level chicks obviously have leverage over that guy and will use that leverage to get him to do shyt for their own amusement just to laugh with their friends about it.

that's the harsh reality of the slippery slope of kind acts to women. that's what the kind boyfriend gets in return for his kindness. complete contempt, disdain, and becoming a human wallet and favor machine.

 

[Karume]

there is a saying trust but verify.

never expected a ronald reagan reference in this thread

 

[MikeyK]

I have no problem with that saying.

I just see your posts and I see someone that got hurt. In a situation like your's there are two ways to handle it, be more open, vulnerable and compassionate or close up, be harsh and bitter. I'm guessing you've adopted the latter. I'm not trying to tell you you're wrong for being that way cuz you're not, I just want you to know there's more. There are people on the coli that go harder than you but I get at you cuz we both from the gta.

I've been to other cities and I think Toronto got some of the best women. No one should be wasting their time talking about how women are fukked up. Everyone is fukked up, just accept people for who they are and don't judge em. Find the fukked up women, and move past em to something you like.

 

[winb83]

I have no problem with that saying.

I just see your posts and I see someone that got hurt. In a situation like your's there are two ways to handle it, be more open, vulnerable and compassionate or close up, be harsh and bitter. I'm guessing you've adopted the latter. I'm not trying to tell you you're wrong for being that way cuz you're not, I just want you to know there's more. There are people on the coli that go harder than you but I get at you cuz we both from the gta.

I've been to other cities and I think Toronto got some of the best women. No one should be wasting their time talking about how women are fukked up. Everyone is fukked up, just accept people for who they are and don't judge em. Find the fukked up women, and move past em to something you like.

there's a game being played out here. there's rules of engagement to it. the game is not played on one of two extremes its somewhere in the middle.
some guys are open vulnerable and compassionate and the first girl they meet is a good person and they marry her and live happily ever after.

every girl out here isn't a good person in fact most people aren't good people because self preservation and looking out for your own self interest will often place you at odds with the being good.

in the real world you have 4 main paths. don't play the game at all, learn the rules of the game and play accordingly, get fukked over, or idealize everything and play against the rules hoping you get lucky cause if you don't see the previous path.