Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

That "real man" shyt kills me. What the fukk makes you real in that situation?

There aint nothing admirable about that situation. You wasn't there to see that baby be born, missed their first words, first steps etc. In the end you'll never be that kid's daddy, you just a nikka who fukkin they mom. nikkas just love framing themselves as some sort of hero to escape the reality of their L.

That's female shyt

That's my point. When I have children, I want EVERYTHING from the jump: The sex (obviously), seeing my woman's belly grow bigger, the birth, first words, first steps, first day of school etc.....I want the whole entire experience that's unique to me as a father.

But nah, I'm supposed to be a "real man" and take on some broad with kids to prove I'm a responsible person.

I damn sure ain't putting myself in a position where you get some snotface brat come tell me I'm not their dad while the mother sides with them and insists I can't talk to her kids that way - I've seen that shyt happen before. fukk that.

On the other hand, what if the kids love you, you love them, but the mother decides it's over between the both of you for whatever reason and decides to go off with some other dude 500 miles away and insists you never contact any of them again? Then there ain't shyt you can do about not seeing them because you're not their biological father. So all that providing you did for them over the years and you ain't got shyt to show for it but a bunch of photographs and you're left looking like a sucker like that dude at the end of Smooth's video 'You've been played'.

Nope, neither scenario is happening to me. Sorry.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Why won’t these Peter Pan manboys man up and marry aging flighty selfish career gal sluts already? | Dalrock

 

[sixsixtwo]

I'm 28, my wife(25) is giving me conditions in order to keep our family together after I found out she cheated on me. : relationships

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I'm 28, my wife(25) is giving me conditions in order to keep our family together after I found out she cheated on me. : relationships

Man that's such a rough story. Sucks that guys like that get walked on. Dude was with his wife when she was obese then when dropped the pounds, he was in her rear view. And of course there are kids involved. What a shame. It's crazy when you read these stories and you can clearly see all the red flags. It's easy to be blinded, if you allow it.

 

[Serb]

Coli Brehs, I come to you humbly with my story from last night.

there is this bish who lives across the courtyard in my apartment complex and ive been lightly talking to over the past month or so. We went and studied at the lib once and various other little meetups and we hit it off pretty good i could tell we have good chemistry ETC.

Now the issue here is that this bish has a guy whos like the abominable simpman. I mean brehs, this bish denies that she has a relationship with dude when he is 20 feet away from us at the bars. The guy is all kinds of clingy and insecure posting pictures of them to her wall calling her babe and shyt with no reciprocation because she never uploads anything, bought the bish 500 dollar shoes and shyt, and she still is out denying his existence.

She always is texting me first and shyt to talk and last night she was sending me pictures of herself while she was out and met up with me at a bar downtown. Now everything is normal she comes in and she is hugging on me and we are chopping it up and im just holdin on to her hips while we are talkin and ol' boy barges into the bar looking like hes trying to crush some buildings. i was pretty drunk so i dont recall exactly what happened next but i think its some combination of him grabbing her and taking her away or something and talking some shyt to me.

My friend immediately got in this dudes face (he was super faded) without me asking or anything and was talking shyt to him and all kinds of wild shyt about how we are gonna murk him and whatever. I calmly pull him away from dude and chill him out then proceeded to go talk to the girls "friend". I apologized for my friend being a dumbass and told him that hes all good etc.

I don't think its ever worth it to be fighting over girls. My question to all of you is what do i do now? She hasn't hit me since last night and i was contemplating cutting the bullshyt and being like

"look i dont really remember what happened last night but i know that that dude doesnt want us to talk so if thats the case let me know and ill be on my way. I dont want to have to keep dealing with that if we are gonna keep talking"

What do you guys think?

Also last night her best friend confirmed that this girl actually was into me. What's a breh to do?

 

[sixsixtwo]

I hired a honeytrap to catch my man cheating.. and she stole him for herself - Mirror Online

 

[CrossBones]

Coli Brehs, I come to you humbly with my story from last night.

there is this bish who lives across the courtyard in my apartment complex and ive been lightly talking to over the past month or so. We went and studied at the lib once and various other little meetups and we hit it off pretty good i could tell we have good chemistry ETC.

Now the issue here is that this bish has a guy whos like the abominable simpman. I mean brehs, this bish denies that she has a relationship with dude when he is 20 feet away from us at the bars. The guy is all kinds of clingy and insecure posting pictures of them to her wall calling her babe and shyt with no reciprocation because she never uploads anything, bought the bish 500 dollar shoes and shyt, and she still is out denying his existence.

She always is texting me first and shyt to talk and last night she was sending me pictures of herself while she was out and met up with me at a bar downtown. Now everything is normal she comes in and she is hugging on me and we are chopping it up and im just holdin on to her hips while we are talkin and ol' boy barges into the bar looking like hes trying to crush some buildings. i was pretty drunk so i dont recall exactly what happened next but i think its some combination of him grabbing her and taking her away or something and talking some shyt to me.

My friend immediately got in this dudes face (he was super faded) without me asking or anything and was talking shyt to him and all kinds of wild shyt about how we are gonna murk him and whatever. I calmly pull him away from dude and chill him out then proceeded to go talk to the girls "friend". I apologized for my friend being a dumbass and told him that hes all good etc.

I don't think its ever worth it to be fighting over girls. My question to all of you is what do i do now? She hasn't hit me since last night and i was contemplating cutting the bullshyt and being like

"look i dont really remember what happened last night but i know that that dude doesnt want us to talk so if thats the case let me know and ill be on my way. I dont want to have to keep dealing with that if we are gonna keep talking"

What do you guys think?

Also last night her best friend confirmed that this girl actually was into me. What's a breh to do?

I think you handled it well. dudes get killed over p*ssy everyday, theres no need for putting your or his life in danger over a woman. especially one you barely even know.

but as for her, shes real comfortable with getting expensive gifts from this guy, keeping him around, using him for attention and benefits (if she wanted to - she could have just rejected him and ignored him a long time age), and not being real with him, or you about the whole thing. she seems like a mess and its not worth it. if shes down with using him and misleading him, and even possibly risking yourself over her deceptive ways, whats that mean about her?

 

[Serb]

I think you handled it well. dudes get killed over p*ssy everyday, theres no need for putting your or his life in danger over a woman. especially one you barely even know.

but as for her, shes real comfortable with getting expensive gifts from this guy, keeping him around, using him for attention and benefits (if she wanted to - she could have just rejected him and ignored him a long time age), and not being real with him, or you about the whole thing. she seems like a mess and its not worth it. if shes down with using him and misleading him, and even possibly risking yourself over her deceptive ways, whats that mean about her?

Thank you. i appreciate the input. I don't really see her as being the wifey type at this point just based off of what you said, and theres no chance I'm about to be knowingly sharing her with some guy (who by the way is 28 years old, doesnt go to our school and knows no one around here) her and i are both 21...

I can't decide whether or not I want to hit her up and say that to her. Cause then she knows its a choice, and for me the outcome isn't that important .

For this girl to even be in a conversation of non fukk piece she would have to do massive amounts of work to repair the image that shes created for herself to me over the past few weeks.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

She already showed you what she's about. There's no way she actually ever told the other dude what the real situation is. She's a user. He obviously gives her the boost she needs so she gives him just enough to keep him engaged. What sane male would pull a woman away from another man when there's no romantic connection or reciprocation at all? I'd toss her in the bushes and leave both of them to their vices. If you allow her to run more game on you and wriggle her way back into your good graces you'd be doing yourself an extreme disservice.

 

[Serb]

She already showed you what she's about. There's no way she actually ever told the other dude what the real situation is. She's a user. He obviously gives her the boost she needs so she gives him just enough to keep him engaged. What sane male would pull a woman away from another man when there's no romantic connection or reciprocation at all? I'd toss her in the bushes and leave both of them to their vices. If you allow her to run more game on you and wriggle her way back into your good graces you'd be doing yourself an extreme disservice.

I feel you. Do you think I should just never talk to her again? Thats always an option

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

You're young man. I'm sure there are plenty of other girls around willing to get down with your program. And they don't require you to have your head on a swivel. Thrown in the bushes means never to be heard from or seen again.

 

[CASHAPP]

You're young man. I'm sure there are plenty of other girls around willing to get down with your program. And they don't require you to have your head on a swivel. Thrown in the bushes means never to be heard from or seen again.

@Serb and these poisonous females are very conniving and even if you ignore her she may find some way to force you to see her in some way. So lets say you end up being partnered with her in a lab or something and you can't really just walk out because you may fail or something.

Just tell her straight up that your not going to get involved with her and tell her before hand not to try any funny tricks like trying to feel up on you in the lab to see how you react. Like coming up behind your back in a corner(this happened in my experience) and whispering to you or something and asking "why are you giving me the silent treatment" and things like that.

Be foreful and don't allow her to do things like that. Because she is not taking you seriously at all and treating you like a little puppy and expects you to give in to you EASILY. Do not believe a word coming out of her mouth.

Some broads are wifey status while others are just straight jumpoff status. But in the case of this girl she already PROVED to you that you cannot use her for either. As I said before I am not anti ho as long as the two people are not in the middle of the relationship that another one has and is not jeopardizing that. And if the female stays single(which its a shame that most hoes cant realize if your that way once you should stay that way the whole time).

But as I said she is NEITHER because obviously you cannot wife up hoes especially because if she cheated on another guy with you, what is stopping her from continuing to do it especially towards you. Now she can't be a jumpoff either because she was reckless and made you take the fall.....especially not even having the nerve to own up and take accountability for you possibly having your life lost over p*ssy.

Throw her in the bushes. She starts hitting you up with some fake ass texts, emails,etc with all the "sorry" "He is my ex boyfriend he is very jealous" "Dont pay him any mind "Sorry for getting you involved baby...do you want to come over".

Ignore EVERY SINGLE WORD and don't show ANY sympathy. Let her know straight up your not going to fall to her bullshyt. By the way these are the type of situations Kev was talking about when he said it is okay to warn other guys about a certain female. Like he said avoid over corny reasons like rejection by her because she did not want to go out with you. But DEFINITELY let it get out to others you know or who are your peers about the type of broad she is.

Its not snitching if your letting the next man's life be saved from a Demon Delilah.

 

[CASHAPP]

“Ice is right, the pics I took with this man were in poor taste & I disrespected my husband however the pics were the only thing that happened.”


“Do I want to set the record straight? No,” she said. “Because it’s old news and those pictures with [Moose Diesel] are old too. People are going to think what they think and there’s nothing I can do about it. But people were also saying my booty was fake too. No matter what I said or did, so there’s nothing I can do about either.


“Ice and I just live our own lives. I have to answer to him and he has to answer to me and that’s it. We don’t care about the outside world and even though it can be hard out there, we just have to deal with it.”


^This is the kind of thing we are talking about with women and a lack of accountability in their life.

DailyMail website btw

 

[International Playa]

“Ice is right, the pics I took with this man were in poor taste & I disrespected my husband however the pics were the only thing that happened.”


“Do I want to set the record straight? No,” she said. “Because it’s old news and those pictures with [Moose Diesel] are old too. People are going to think what they think and there’s nothing I can do about it. But people were also saying my booty was fake too. No matter what I said or did, so there’s nothing I can do about either.


“Ice and I just live our own lives. I have to answer to him and he has to answer to me and that’s it. We don’t care about the outside world and even though it can be hard out there, we just have to deal with it.”


^This is the kind of thing we are talking about with women and a lack of accountability in their life.

DailyMail website btw

Fellas if you were in Ice-T position would you take her back???I know most of us would be highly tempted to

 

[CASHAPP]

Yall Check This video Out Now....Just I would replace "black women" with "women" in general because I think all women no matter the race are similar anyway.

Louis Farrakhan "Snake-Pit" Mouth Of Woman:



Nice to see the woman in the front nodding her head in agreement. I want a woman who is an "old soul" like that who isn't accusing men of being "gay" to her girl or "bashing women" and laughing at them when they speak the truth.