Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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One thing I've noticed is when you don't have a girlfriend around your money is much better. I noticed I don't really need that much money to live. I make an average wage but with no girlfriend and no kids and no responsibilities I live a life where anything within reason I want I can have. I just dropped $1700 on a big screen TV and financially it doesn't even effect me at all where as when I had women in my pockets my paper was never right enough to buy something like that.
Seriously one day I just woke up and realized there's nothing in this world a woman can provide that I actually need or can't at some level provide for myself or get elsewhere.
I've come to accept that if you want women in your life you're gonna have to pay a price. Women aren't free they come with direct and indirect cost both financially and mentally. When I get my life in order I'll get back to dating but my attitude is gonna straight up be woman I don't need you for nothing and I'm not doing shyt if you don't like it there's the door and you won't be missed. I won't be your man, I won't meet your family or friends and you won't meet mine. We can chill, fukk, and enjoy each others company but that as far as this is going an the moment you can't accept that I'm out.
Seriously one day I just woke up and realized there's nothing in this world a woman can provide that I actually need or can't at some level provide for myself or get elsewhere.
I've come to accept that if you want women in your life you're gonna have to pay a price. Women aren't free they come with direct and indirect cost both financially and mentally. When I get my life in order I'll get back to dating but my attitude is gonna straight up be woman I don't need you for nothing and I'm not doing shyt if you don't like it there's the door and you won't be missed. I won't be your man, I won't meet your family or friends and you won't meet mine. We can chill, fukk, and enjoy each others company but that as far as this is going an the moment you can't accept that I'm out.
CrossBones
Louder than words
whats good is when youre straight out the gate with the truth, you let everything be known up front so you can always walk without having to explain yourself, or have any stress over her not getting it or misleading her. if she wasnt down, then she never had to get down with you. she knew beforehand what it is
DaRealness
I think very deeply
CrossBones
Louder than words
you need to be very careful about what a woman wants to advertise out there. the more pronounced she is about getting that point across, the more likely shes bullshytting you.
a woman might say that she is "drama free" "classy" "down to earth" or even "looking for a good man" when really all you see is that she is full of drama, crass/argumentative, head in the clouds, and steading fukking with the players who dont want to settle with her ass. at first, when getting to know someone, look at their actions and believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear, word to hov.
real folks dont have to advertise theyre real all the time.
a woman might say that she is "drama free" "classy" "down to earth" or even "looking for a good man" when really all you see is that she is full of drama, crass/argumentative, head in the clouds, and steading fukking with the players who dont want to settle with her ass. at first, when getting to know someone, look at their actions and believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear, word to hov.
real folks dont have to advertise theyre real all the time.
Take ecstasy, save your relationship - Salon.com
"Women naturally product oxytocin bursts during sex which promote long-term emotional attachment to the man she's banging. This is nature's way of promoting an ideal two-parent family structure that is likely to endure at least until the children are able to start taking care of themselves.
But what we see now is that women spend so many years riding the cock carousel and fukking dozens of men that their brains become less sensitive to the oxytocin bursts they receive from sex. So over time, women gradually lose the ability to emotionally pair bond with the man they're having sex with. So the poor b*stard who settles down with the early-30s veteran carousel rider has no chance. As soon as she pumps out a couple of kids, her brain has no more use for the guy. Her emotional bond with him was so shallow from the get-go because she spent an entire decade getting pumped and dumped by a string of alphas. Her oxytocin receptors are shot from the constant highs and lows she received with every new pump and subsequent dump.
This is another reason why virginity was so highly valued in the past (and still is today by some). Beyond the guarantee of paternity, marrying a virgin greatly enhanced family stability. In the old days, the idea of marrying today's average carousel rider would have been as absurd and disgusting to most men as marrying a prostitute. But that's basically what men are doing now.
It's terrifying to realize that the average Western girl today has the emotional brain chemistry of a prostitute, and is so emotionally damaged from years of carousel riding that she needs ecstasy therapy to even have a chance of remaining emotionally bonded to the father of her children."
This is cray
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
He said things he needs. Children don't fall under that category.
The ratchness of some of these women just have me 
some men too but its widely known that some of us only think with 1 head 
So I'm at this diner with this chick and we're eating and talking...we start discussing our friends. She tells me none of her female friends are faithful
Then she tells me about one of friends who is 31 and has a kid that her mother keeps, met a dude on POF. Nothing wrong with that except for ol girl had a man in the military who is good and faithful to her. She meets this dude off pof and its strictly sex and she lets dude bust in her a few times 
(no birth control either) and ends up pregnant.
Chick is like 3 or 4 months pregnant and gets an abortion and pof dude doesn't help pay or go for support. After she has the procedure the pof dude text her saying when can they have sex again
She ends up telling the military dude and he wants nothing to do with her. She supposely got his name tatted on her to prove her loyalty to him.
All this was back in mid Dec. So today I go on to pof to see if any new fish are on there and I see this harlot on there with the headline I'm Back on Here Again These hoes man
some men too but its widely known that some of us only think with 1 head So I'm at this diner with this chick and we're eating and talking...we start discussing our friends. She tells me none of her female friends are faithful
Then she tells me about one of friends who is 31 and has a kid that her mother keeps, met a dude on POF. Nothing wrong with that except for ol girl had a man in the military who is good and faithful to her. She meets this dude off pof and its strictly sex and she lets dude bust in her a few times (no birth control either) and ends up pregnant. Chick is like 3 or 4 months pregnant and gets an abortion and pof dude doesn't help pay or go for support. After she has the procedure the pof dude text her saying when can they have sex again
She ends up telling the military dude and he wants nothing to do with her. She supposely got his name tatted on her to prove her loyalty to him.
All this was back in mid Dec. So today I go on to pof to see if any new fish are on there and I see this harlot on there with the headline I'm Back on Here Again These hoes man 
men don't "need" love the same way women "need" love. and it's not the same type of love either.true.
He needs Love though :inlove:
if you want to truly learn how guys think and feel on a very basic level, listen to the Black Phillip series.
