Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DapMeUp!]

Social media and travel culture is ruining a lot these chicks

I travel, love to travel….but I do it like a normal human being with stable discretionary income. 2,3 times a year. And a weekend getaway here n there…this chick I’ve known for 2 weeks is on some ‘let’s travel once a month’. Like internationally every month

And it’s not even on some leach shyt, she got her own money. Maybe too damn much. No budget travel, no cheap flights, no airbnb, she flies first class and only stays in resorts

But it’s like …for WHAT. She’s literally on a trip right now blowing my phone up trying to talk, she’s bored af, stressing over too much planning and it not feeling like a vacation All to have a ‘lit’ IG

What does she do for a living?

The only bytches I know to travel that often are escorts Dead serious.

 

[maxamusa]

What y'all be doing for first dates?

cocaine and korbel

 

[skyrunner1]

What y'all be doing for first dates?

Usually depends on vibe but most times I keep in mind its low pressure first meetup and kinda see how it goes in first 2 dates but on first date its some combo of like action and drinks, so bowling and then maybe like a commercial strip club.. I love the strip club as a closer because it has everything to set right vibe, music, high energy, sexy visuals, can get the girl a dance and usually the dancer will include you and make it a touchy affair, strong drinks at reasonable prices (strip clubs want you lit so you spend more money as long as you are aware of that you are good)..

If not that happy hour is great, have done brunch, candle making (I get random shyt from groupon to get deals and keep cost down but do cool different things), ax throwing, gun range, casino, etc. My thing is I have always been the fun guy so I usually lean into that, always keeps them coming back. Back when I didnt really think about things and just winged it did the whole dinner thing, ehh.. Have done the cinebistro thing also but wouldnt usually recommend on first date also, maybe date 2 or 3.

 

[Rich Spirit]

i like wine bars, typically they’re lowkey, quiet and not too crowded. You don’t have to chug your drink, just sip and enjoy some good conversation

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Damn I gotta find my lane again brehs

I'm handsome to the weed lip, "Love and Hip hop" ratchet types but I'm too ugly gang for the black Zazie Beetz type who goes for Brad and Chad

I might sound like a c00n but i will never find a chick who smokes massive amounts if weed or raps any of those recent ratchet girl lyrics attractive

Dating sucks or am I getting ?

 

[Ahadi]

Damn I gotta find my lane again brehs

I'm handsome to the weed lip, "Love and Hip hop" ratchet types but I'm too ugly gang for the black Zazie Beetz type who goes for Brad and Chad

I might sound like a c00n but i will never find a chick who smokes massive amounts if weed or raps any of those recent ratchet girl lyrics attractive

Dating sucks or am I getting ?

I’m in the same boat, It’s not sounding like “c00n” it’s having standards for yourself. Every brehette I run into youngboy or Some other rachet music or weed. Not worried about Brad at all, I outclass Brad lol.

Bottom line, either travel or date out unfortunately. Cause I don’t relate to any of that BS. Not to sound like one of these “new black ppl”, but I’m not into that type of element at all.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

I’m in the same boat, It’s not sounding like “c00n” it’s having standards for yourself. Every brehette I run into youngboy or Some other rachet music or weed. Not worried about Brad at all, I outclass Brad lol.

Bottom line, either travel or date out unfortunately. Cause I don’t relate to any of that BS. Not to sound like one of these “new black ppl”, but I’m not into that type of element at all.

I feel you. I get exactly what you mean.

 

[Ahadi]

I’m at a point where I want to scream. Can these bytches close their legs



God fukking damn. Enough with the kids.

 

[Armchair Militant]

One of the worst phrases a woman can say “I feel safe around you” (pre-smashing) = nice guy territory. Have you heard this often?

Women need mystery & someone unpredictable. You need their emotions to be everywhere. Being safe, predictable dries the box up.

Glad you aborted the mission tho, cause you would either get pity box or you’d jump through 50 different hoops.

My friend told me she feels safe around me yesterday.

I wasn’t planning on doing anything with her, but I thought it was funny. I guess I do come across as a nice guy.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

That's insane

It's how it used to be done up until recently.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

My friend told me she feels safe around me yesterday.

I wasn’t planning on doing anything with her, but I thought it was funny. I guess I do come across as a nice guy.

The curse of the nice guy strikes again

 

[maxamusa]

delete

 

[Braman]

Low effort.

Coffee, happy hour, late night drinks (x1 drink)

Should be some sort of physical interaction from the beginning, the middle, the end or all throughout.

Not the 1 drink I agree with all that except the 1 drink part. That’s the universal sign of disinterest on some ‘let me get tf outta here quick’

Also sellin yourself short w/ that. After 2 drinks plenty of women will hit the ‘so what now it’s still early’ This is why you always clean the crib before goin out

 

[Armchair Militant]

The curse of the nice guy strikes again

She be telling me about every guy that she meets like I’m one of her girlfriends. It’s a nice window into female psychology, but I’m not sure if I should feel some type of way

 

[Braman]

One of the worst phrases a woman can say “I feel safe around you” (pre-smashing) = nice guy territory. Have you heard this often?

Women need mystery & someone unpredictable. You need their emotions to be everywhere. Being safe, predictable dries the box up.

Glad you aborted the mission tho, cause you would either get pity box or you’d jump through 50 different hoops.

This isn’t true. It depends on the context around it. For a chick to even come to your crib and smash she’s thinking that even if she doesn’t say it