Well, the first thing you're going to have to get used to is telling the truth to a chick about how you live your life. Trust me, you want to cut the stress down.
And I've seen that a lot since I moved into this avenue. I want my life to be as unfussy and undramatic as possible.
I usually wait until after we've smashed as it could be a one-off or agreed hook-up but if she wants to be in my life she is going to have to either be into this or not
Which brings me to my second point. For a lot of chicks, this will be too much, to be confronted with it so upfront can be a lot. Some come around some are not down at all. Many prefer a man to be honest over bullshytting them.
At the moment I have a primary chick who is my 'main' and I see other chicks around her, some who are very happy not being in a full relationship. Suits me, everyone is open and honest with each other.
I have to say I don't think I've been in this much of a healthy mind state for a long time.
Obviously this is not for everyone but I prefer it.
