What did she say?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Case in point. Met a chick off hinge. Exchanged numbers, chopped it up and set up a meet up yesterday.
Earlier on in the day she hit me up to confirm we’re still on and i said yea. 8:15ish. She said can we do 8:30? I said even better. She said thank you.
8:25pm rolls around and i get to the spot. She shoots me a text sayin she running late and asks where i’m at and i say i’m here.
She says “omg i’m at the gym.I’m so sorry. Gonna shower quick”
I should’ve been like “what? you said 8:30?” and said naa and left then…
But i asked how far does she live from where i was, she said 10 mins away…
This was around 8:31pm.
8:45pm i left and texted her the same.
She responded with “left as in you went home?”
“I was leaving now”
Ignored both texts.
Then later on she sends me a text saying “thank you for your efforts to see me and sorry for making you wait”
Ignored that too and deleted her number.
Men, respect yourselves and your time. Only reason she thought she could try that on me was because dudes before me allowed and accepted that shyt. She met the wrong one.
No arguments. No getting mad. No back and forth.
Act.
@ the gym
Prolly gettin pounded
next time, when you see "im at the gym" lol read that shyt and delete and block without responding.Case in point. Met a chick off hinge. Exchanged numbers, chopped it up and set up a meet up yesterday.
Earlier on in the day she hit me up to confirm we’re still on and i said yea. 8:15ish. She said can we do 8:30? I said even better. She said thank you.
8:25pm rolls around and i get to the spot. She shoots me a text sayin she running late and asks where i’m at and i say i’m here.
She says “omg i’m at the gym.
I should’ve been like “what? you said 8:30?” and said naa and left then…
But i asked how far does she live from where i was, she said 10 mins away…
This was around 8:31pm.
8:45pm i left and texted her the same.
She responded with “left as in you went home?”
“I was leaving now”
Ignored both texts.
Then later on she sends me a text saying “thank you for your efforts to see me and sorry for making you wait”
Ignored that too and deleted her number.
Men, respect yourselves and your time. Only reason she thought she could try that on me was because dudes before me allowed and accepted that shyt. She met the wrong one.
No arguments. No getting mad. No back and forth.
Act.
I was coming from the angle that a dude with a large follower count is usually a bigger deal than a female with one.
A lot of these IG females have massive follower counts (might be inflated/fake), but even the real followers are guys just checking for booty shots. Which can turn into an OnlyFans or Dubai situation.
Now if a female has a massive FEMALE following - that's a useful platform to sell stuff.
I'm not sure about dudes with large follower counts though.
She told me to get off her damn phone. I was like hold up. Who the fukk you think you talking too? I ain't your child
There's levels of disrespect I don't tolerate. I never allow a woman to belittle me, call me out my name, take swipes of my manhood, or steal and lie to me.
this a bytch on the roster or "your lady"?She told me to get off her damn phone. I was like hold up. Who the fukk you think you talking too? I ain't your child
There's levels of disrespect I don't tolerate. I never allow a woman to belittle me, call me out my name, take swipes of my manhood, or steal and lie to me.
Bush her nowShe told me to get off her damn phone. I was like hold up. Who the fukk you think you talking too? I ain't your child
There's levels of disrespect I don't tolerate. I never allow a woman to belittle me, call me out my name, take swipes of my manhood, or steal and lie to me.
This from my lady champ.
I told her from the beginning the levels of disrespect I don't tolerate and I wouldn't vice versa.. Even when we have disagreements or arguments, we wouldn't go rogue on disrespect.
I dunno if that was to test to see if I'm bluffing or to test to see if I'm gonna stand on what I say but I told her to call me back when she gets her head together so we can clear the air and left it at that...
If she doesn't call back.
. I'm moving another one up the ranks
This from my lady champ.
I told her from the beginning the levels of disrespect I don't tolerate and I wouldn't vice versa.. Even when we have disagreements or arguments, we wouldn't go rogue on disrespect.
I dunno if that was to test to see if I'm bluffing or to test to see if I'm gonna stand on what I say but I told her to call me back when she gets her head together so we can clear the air and left it at that...
If she doesn't call back.
IMO Disrespect should not be tolerated at any levels because imagine what can happen if you take the next step, or for something even bigger. It speaks to how she was raised.
There are feminine ways chicks can show they are upset and while it can be annoying it isn't "disrespectful".
Things we allow tend to set precedent for later stages.
Me personally I'd cut her off, but depending on the relationship I'd go to the concert or whatever solo or with someone else and post all the fun you having just to pour salt in the wounds like "bytch this train don't stop"
How long have y’all been together?
IMO Disrespect should not be tolerated at any levels because imagine what can happen if you take the next step, or for something even bigger. It speaks to how she was raised.
There are feminine ways chicks can show they are upset and while it can be annoying it isn't "disrespectful".
Things we allow tend to set precedent for later stages.
Me personally I'd cut her off, but depending on the relationship I'd go to the concert or whatever solo or with someone else and post all the fun you having just to pour salt in the wounds like "bytch this train don't stop"
Big facts