yup. lived with my ex...not gonna lie if she hadnt moved in with me directly from a diff country and theres no way it woulda lasted 11 monthsTravel with her for a week or live together to speed up the process.
Women can only keep up the facade for so long. I had one snap on me after only a month of talking on the phone. I was like this was quick for once.
I asked one of the last women I was dating if I changed over time like she did when we first met? And she changed the subject lol
it was solely due to me being patient with her
if it was a toronto chick i woulda deaded her within 3-6 months
on the flipside like you alluded to, she once told me that I really am what i told her i was...she was just to ignorant and idealistic to understand and take in what i was saying lol . meanwhile it was like she morphed into a new person once moving in