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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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They be in such a rush to get coupled up, then the ring, then the wedding, then the first kid - and then fall right out of love....
Not sure why dudes allow it
Not sure why dudes allow it
It's all good until the female stops being with it.
As predictable as the behavior change is, it always comes out of nowhere.
Ehhh not so sure there. Even in this thread, dudes go on about troubles and you start asking questions and you see they never liked her much to begin with.
That very much explains the 54% divorce rate, and the 80% rate of women filing for divorce...
Yeah, the guy didn't like the girl enough.
Always the guy's fault.
He cheats - scumbag
She cheats - he neglected her
My mental point of origin doesn't start with women...
Lol you made the leap but ok
note on communication/lateness:
A lot of people in their 20's and 30's are going to have that kind of text/lateness relationship, it's because they live their lives with constant updates, constant texts, alerts, group chats, it's like an anxiety pool, so it's just the default to everything.
A lot of people communicate via text up until the actual second they walk in, down to where they are sitting, rather than just showing up on time, no communication. A lot of people ASSUME the other will be late, unless you have been in constant contact.
Not even commenting on whether you did right or wrong, or whether it was intentional or not, just that it's really common, and endemic.
I am one one of those who just wants a time and a place, and will show up. No updates, just a confirmation, even 24 hours before. It feels so juvenile and insecure to have those kinds of "Are you there" "where you are you" "leaving now" "5 minutes away", "walking in the door", 'parking outside"
but it's a reality.
A lot of people in their 20's and 30's are going to have that kind of text/lateness relationship, it's because they live their lives with constant updates, constant texts, alerts, group chats, it's like an anxiety pool, so it's just the default to everything.
A lot of people communicate via text up until the actual second they walk in, down to where they are sitting, rather than just showing up on time, no communication. A lot of people ASSUME the other will be late, unless you have been in constant contact.
Not even commenting on whether you did right or wrong, or whether it was intentional or not, just that it's really common, and endemic.
I am one one of those who just wants a time and a place, and will show up. No updates, just a confirmation, even 24 hours before. It feels so juvenile and insecure to have those kinds of "Are you there" "where you are you" "leaving now" "5 minutes away", "walking in the door", 'parking outside"
but it's a reality.
Or just invite them over and you don’t have to worry about it
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Case in point. Met a chick off hinge. Exchanged numbers, chopped it up and set up a meet up yesterday.
Earlier on in the day she hit me up to confirm we’re still on and i said yea. 8:15ish. She said can we do 8:30? I said even better. She said thank you.
8:25pm rolls around and i get to the spot. She shoots me a text sayin she running late and asks where i’m at and i say i’m here.
She says “omg i’m at the gym.I’m so sorry. Gonna shower quick”
I should’ve been like “what? you said 8:30?” and said naa and left then…
But i asked how far does she live from where i was, she said 10 mins away…
This was around 8:31pm.
8:45pm i left and texted her the same.
She responded with “left as in you went home?”
“I was leaving now”
Ignored both texts.
Then later on she sends me a text saying “thank you for your efforts to see me and sorry for making you wait”
Ignored that too and deleted her number.
Men, respect yourselves and your time. Only reason she thought she could try that on me was because dudes before me allowed and accepted that shyt. She met the wrong one.
No arguments. No getting mad. No back and forth.
Act.
If she had a job interview she wouldn't have been late.
Any chick that cancels a date with me I delete
On a related note.
Landlord is in my spot fixing some wiring.
He gets a call from a prospective tenant.
Ol girl is African.
She's asking for directions to get to the address (which she presumably already has)
LL - I waited for an hour, I'm not there any more...
African Woman - There was traffic
LL - I don't care. If you're late to see the apartment, you will be late with the rent.
@RealAssanovanext time, when you see "im at the gym" lol read that shyt and delete and block without responding.
nah man thats not enough. if a bytch gonna waste your time, waste hers
make her think youre waiting so she arrives while youre already gone