Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Bgreat]

Most nikkas cant walk away because the moment they get a chick’s attention they feel this their rare chance for sex.

This is why i tend to he harsh in here because after a while you realize nikkas just sit around being terrorized by women when they can just ghost these hoes and keep it moving lol

Its easier to replace the hoe than it is your 6 certs.. i dont understand the confusion

 

[The ADD]

Well, the first thing you're going to have to get used to is telling the truth to a chick about how you live your life. Trust me, you want to cut the stress down.
And I've seen that a lot since I moved into this avenue. I want my life to be as unfussy and undramatic as possible.

I usually wait until after we've smashed as it could be a one-off or agreed hook-up but if she wants to be in my life she is going to have to either be into this or not

Which brings me to my second point. For a lot of chicks, this will be too much, to be confronted with it so upfront can be a lot. Some come around some are not down at all. Many prefer a man to be honest over bullshytting them.

At the moment I have a primary chick who is my 'main' and I see other chicks around her, some who are very happy not being in a full relationship. Suits me, everyone is open and honest with each other.

I have to say I don't think I've been in this much of a healthy mind state for a long time.

Obviously this is not for everyone but I prefer it.

Does your main see other dudes?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Its easier to replace the hoe than it is your 6 certs.. i dont understand the confusion

its a wisdom thing. Younger me would roast hoes, then when you get older but still not that wise you think "ok I got my shyt together let me find the next level" but then you realize all these hoes the same and 7/10 they gonna do something dumb.

This is why I tell dudes work on themselves and GET A LIFE so they have something to do outside of hoes AND you will meet hoes you are more compatible with because they will likely be doing the stuff you find interest in (thus y'all can bond over that) vs tryna "game your way" into some p*ssy.

The only "game" I give at this stage is what to look out for so you know when to bounce or not get trapped, but ultimately at the surface level either a chick wants you or she doesn't, who wants to be with someone you gotta convince to like you? Most dudes can't even figure out that part thats why once they do get a chick they end up food/being terrorized, managing a relationship is something most cats can't do because they can't even get past step 1 (for context I use relationship in the literal human relationship sense as even FWB is a 'relationship' that you manage).

 

[Panther]

its a wisdom thing. Younger me would roast hoes, then when you get older but still not that wise you think "ok I got my shyt together let me find the next level" but then you realize all these hoes the same and 7/10 they gonna do something dumb.

This is why I tell dudes work on themselves and GET A LIFE so they have something to do outside of hoes AND you will meet hoes you are more compatible with because they will likely be doing the stuff you find interest in (thus y'all can bond over that) vs tryna "game your way" into some p*ssy.

The only "game" I give at this stage is what to look out for so you know when to bounce or not get trapped, but ultimately at the surface level either a chick wants you or she doesn't, who wants to be with someone you gotta convince to like you? Most dudes can't even figure out that part thats why once they do get a chick they end up food/being terrorized, managing a relationship is something most cats can't do because they can't even get past step 1 (for context I use relationship in the literal human relationship sense as even FWB is a 'relationship' that you manage).

This

 

[RealCrownHeights]

This aint ginna end well. Good luck

She's made improvement's tremendously with the spending and going out etc but you still say its a lost cause? We live in an expensive city and stuff cost regardless. We usually do like 70/40

 

[Apollo Creed]

She's made improvement's tremendously with the spending and going out etc but you still say its a lost cause? We live in an expensive city and stuff cost regardless. We usually do like 70/40

Im trying to be insensitive because im sure you love her but yes imo.

If yall both work you shouldnt he doing 70/40 and getting married. You mentioned her being able to pay student loans with them savings while you feel the pressure.

That doesnt seem fair. Unless you doing the stay at home mom and you be “provider” thing a woman should carry her weight lol they got more oppurtunity than us and we still give em an easy streak.

 

[DaHNIC82]

The root of these issues we are having is that theres too many Goofy ass nikkas rewarding these chicks even though she still showcasing fragrant behavior because they either don't wanna lose access to puzzy or desperate for puzzy.

My chick right now is on the bench for being too fresh at the mouth. Was gonna take her to see LL and Rakim and right now thats a dub until she either apologize or make it up to me. If she don't. Bushes

Too many dudes today would still try to rationalize and negotiate with the broad because they scared to lose her or lose her to another dude. Fukk that... Even if she tells you that. Tell her to go head and keep it moving. Don't fall into the emotional manipulation and lead with actions

 

[VertigoKnight]

Does your main see other dudes?

Nope. But we have had that discussion. Uncomfortable as it was, and she feels she doesn't want to or need to.
I honestly think having the option makes it less appealing.

 

[Balla]

I keep getting ads for this shyt called Feeld.



Is it good?

 

[The ADD]

Nope. But we have had that discussion. Uncomfortable as it was, and she feels she doesn't want to or need to.
I honestly think having the option makes it less appealing.

How would you feel if she did?

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Just came from a party. Had a vibe with some shawties. Meeting women in real life honestly is 100x much better.

The energy is raw, present and right in the moment.

Always flirt! As soon as you lock eyes, start charming these broads. Physically, I escalate touch early.

Do not be afraid to touch her. We're physical beings.

Just don't be on no Harvey Weinstein shyt

Just tonight, I told this thick sista she reminded me of Lil Kim. Ass was fatter than 2 gallons of ham. She blushed like a school girl

I think I'm gonna come back to this club

 

[The ADD]

Just came from a party. Had a vibe with some shawties. Meeting women in real life honestly is 100x much better.

The energy is raw, present and right in the moment.

Always flirt! As soon as you lock eyes, start charming these broads. Physically, I escalate touch early.

Do not be afraid to touch her. We're physical beings.

Just don't be on no Harvey Weinstein shyt

Just tonight, I told this thick sista she reminded me of Lil Kim. Ass was fatter than 2 gallons of ham. She blushed like a school girl

I think I'm gonna come back to this club

When are they coming over to the crib to see you?

 

[WIA20XX]

In the realm of superficiality

Does a large follower count for a woman mean the same thing as a large follower count for a man?

 

[Ahadi]

In the realm of superficiality

Does a large follower count for a woman mean the same thing as a large follower count for a man?

Ehhh, no so much. They want you to be known, but not TOO known.

It’s more about:

Does he look good on my gram
Are we a good IG couple?
Will we get sponsorships?
Will my friends / friend group approve?

I’ve seen cases were the guy had less than 1000, kept his profile on private and had a “bad joint” with 100K+

 

[RealAssanova]

The root of these issues we are having is that theres too many Goofy ass nikkas rewarding these chicks even though she still showcasing fragrant behavior because they either don't wanna lose access to puzzy or desperate for puzzy.

My chick right now is on the bench for being too fresh at the mouth. Was gonna take her to see LL and Rakim and right now thats a dub until she either apologize or make it up to me. If she don't. Bushes

Too many dudes today would still try to rationalize and negotiate with the broad because they scared to lose her or lose her to another dude. Fukk that... Even if she tells you that. Tell her to go head and keep it moving. Don't fall into the emotional manipulation and lead with actions

Case in point. Met a chick off hinge. Exchanged numbers, chopped it up and set up a meet up yesterday.

Earlier on in the day she hit me up to confirm we’re still on and i said yea. 8:15ish. She said can we do 8:30? I said even better. She said thank you.

8:25pm rolls around and i get to the spot. She shoots me a text sayin she running late and asks where i’m at and i say i’m here.

She says “omg i’m at the gym. I’m so sorry. Gonna shower quick”

I should’ve been like “what? you said 8:30?” and said naa and left then…

But i asked how far does she live from where i was, she said 10 mins away…

This was around 8:31pm.

8:45pm i left and texted her the same.

She responded with “left as in you went home?”

“I was leaving now”

Ignored both texts.

Then later on she sends me a text saying “thank you for your efforts to see me and sorry for making you wait”

Ignored that too and deleted her number.

Men, respect yourselves and your time. Only reason she thought she could try that on me was because dudes before me allowed and accepted that shyt. She met the wrong one.

No arguments. No getting mad. No back and forth.

Act.