Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Jasonmask]

Eating p*ssy>>> fingering p*ssy my forearms be getting tired fast lol but I don’t go down on every girl I smash I’d say less than 10%.

 

[re'up]

to me, you HAVE to talk about your passions and interests, traveling, food, books, movies,

that's where you'll find the connections. Even if it's slightly off beat, that will make you stand out, as long as you are socially aware and letting the convo go both ways

shows

1) you are passionate

2) you are interested in things that aren't boring

3) some is just status signaling, I admit, but just like business, you throw out those signals, and hope it connects.

oh have you been to the Waldorf in Los Cabos

oh i love that place and there you go, that's a start

 

[Apollo Creed]

It really ain’t tho

honestly 97% of the times hoes aren't saying anything important lmfao the point of convo is so she doesn't feel like a hoe (she already knows she wants to fukk you she just doesn't want any guilt associated with it).

nikkas give these hoes too much credit all day. At they so called high value jobs these bytches are scrolling tik Tok all day, and when they aint out with they fake ass friends just for the sake of taking photos they are at the crib drinking their lives away and scrolling TikTok somemore

 

[skyrunner1]

This is such a good way to look at it that I never thought of and actually seems achievable.

I honestly spent my childhood in the house homeschooled, no friends and depressed AF so that shyt deteriorated fast!

Yea if I wasnt soo distracted watching Deion take Colorodo on road and getting W, I would of fleshed out better but its something I have noticed other do and how natural it seems and people just go along with it. Its a major thing and you will notice it more now that you are aware of it.

Also you next line about childhood is something I have noticed also, it might seem like a minor thing to mention but is HUGE in overall scheme of things, imagine someone who got a million reps in lets even say at middle school (now mind you they say you have to socialize kids at really young age like elementary) but those reps add up over time, so now you basically have to hack that and just overload it now..

I have even seen people who study that stuff say kids should have multiple social circles and have seen that happen in real life.. for example a cousin has a child who goes to small charter school and they had a friend group they were ostracized from, they immediately fell in depression and had bad thoughts.. Told her put her in regular school and she began to thrive because in a bigger school if you lose one friend group, you can find another, you are in cheerleading, you have your track friends, you have honor society friends, etc. In charter school she lose her friends and she was DOA because it was only 5 kids or whatever small amount..

So I can only imagine being home schooled and not having the info back then to make sure you were socialized in other ways, joining sports, being around similar aged kids and such.. I think they do a better job of that now.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

There’s nothing more infuriating, demotivating, and depressing than meeting a woman you have near everything in common with, like right down to the niche interests, just to find out she has a boyfriend



I’m not getting out of bed this weekend. I don’t even feel like going to school tomorrow

It happened again TWICE. This time I took my dad's advice and tried looking online, found 2 girls, one in Florida, another in Cali, and both of them had BFs and they gave me their instas and they weren't lying so I can't even be mad at them.

I'm convinced that I'm just gonna have to give up finding a woman I have shyt in common with, because they're either overweight, have a face like Yarlock the destroyer of worlds, or have like 30 different guys trying to date them.

 

[The ADD]

It happened again TWICE. This time I took my dad's advice and tried looking online, found 2 girls, one in Florida, another in Cali, and both of them had BFs and they actually gave me their instas and they weren't lying so I can't even be mad at them.

I'm convinced that I'm just gonna have to give up finding a woman I have shyt in common with, because they're either overweight, have a face like Yarlock the destroyer of worlds, or have like 30 different guys trying to date them.

How old are you?

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

How old are you?

21

 

[BlaccSunrise]

it was a chick at the grocery store the other day that choosing hard but I'm iffy on if it was a tranny or not so I didn't even try.

Since the locs are growing, working out is paying off and I finally realized I had to shave off that crooked ass mustache "I'm clean-shaven gang now" the choosing has been off the charts to what I'm used to so I should really be swimming in it. Not hitting the same hoes over and over.

Locs are a cheat code. I got freeforms with a receding hairline, and bytches still like to orbit around me

 

[The ADD]

21

 

[WIA20XX]

Thanks breh, sometimes I get in the "interview" mode and just ask BS questions that mean nothing and don't know how to fill in the spaces when it's my turn. I know I need to practice more with randoms, it was a chick at the grocery store the other day that choosing hard but I'm iffy on if it was a tranny or not so I didn't even try. Also I hear fat bytches are good for practice.

So part of why I do the things the way I do is that - I want her to fill up the space. I want her to be yakking her head off and revealing all the secrets of the hidden temple.

1) I don't volunteer stuff about myself, but an astute woman can gather a lot about ME by the questions I ask HER. That's a green flag for me, because I don't deal long with chicks that are totally self absorbed. Dine and Dash for Ms. Narcissist.

2) Even if she isn't socially perceptive, you can tell if she's got good home training if she realizes that she's been doing all the talking, and then asks you questions.

And by her asking you questions - she's investing. Give her the opportunity to do so. I don't even ask for her name, or tell her mine.

3) Turns - again it's not like you're playing cards.

If she says she really loves her dogs, and goes on about Mr. Scruffles or whatever - rather than give my opinion about dogs (eff em, and eff all pets), I ask her when did she know Mr. Scruffles was the dog for HER.

The game is not about how I feel, what I have to say, what I bring to the table, but it is about how SHE FEELS, and how I get her to FEEL things.

This is not a defensive/offensive sort of thing - it's a different way of looking at the interaction.

And this "frame" for lack of a better term is useful for more than just hollering at broads. You can get damn near anyone to have an "episode" if you focus on them, their thoughts, their feelings, their memories.

Because as she's telling you about seeing the mangy mutt in the pound, she's also unconsciously editing/filtering herself to win your approval, get your approval, see if you approve, etc. UNCONSCIOUS is the key word here. She can't help but be honest, but also try to look her best.

All of us want to appear our best, but girls in particular are susceptible to these things because so much of their life depends on appearance. Her appearance often determines her acceptance in the world. Both visual, but also experiential. What's she like to hang out with?

So there's a lot of levels to these little chats. But the first thing you need to do is not approach them so seriously as if it were life and death.
You're not really trying to find out anything about her tbh, you just want her to FEEL.

A lot of flirting with a girl is not "lying", it's "playing". Are you playful? Is she?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

okay y'all

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

whatever

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

wow smh

 

[MicIsGod]

You giving out bad advice, homie.

You don't talk about your life, your passions, interests, traveling, food, books, movies to these chics.

You talk about THEIR life, THEIR passions, interests, traveling, food, books, movies to these chics.

Y'all are forgetting that women are narcissistic creatures that want to discuss themselves. They want to talk about themselves.

All you gotta do is ask some well placed questions and let them go. They'll talk for hours about themselves.

Only time you talk about yourself is when they ask you about you. Other than that, you keep the conversation focused on them.

You're killing 2 birds with one stone there. Firstly, you are feeding her narcissism (which she will reward you for) and then secondly, you are (supposed to be) collecting information.

Thirdly, women love mystery. If you go in telling her everything about yourself, she has no reason to talk to you anymore. She has cracked your mystery. Women want a challenge.

Damn this is true as hell.

 

[WIA20XX]

You giving out bad advice, homie.

You don't talk about your life, your passions, interests, traveling, food, books, movies to these chics.

You talk about THEIR life, THEIR passions, interests, traveling, food, books, movies to these chics.

Y'all are forgetting that women are narcissistic creatures that want to discuss themselves. They want to talk about themselves.

All you gotta do is ask some well placed questions and let them go. They'll talk for hours about themselves.

Only time you talk about yourself is when they ask you about you. Other than that, you keep the conversation focused on them.

You're killing 2 birds with one stone there. Firstly, you are feeding her narcissism (which she will reward you for) and then secondly, you are (supposed to be) collecting information.

Thirdly, women love mystery. If you go in telling her everything about yourself, she has no reason to talk to you anymore. She has cracked your mystery. Women want a challenge.

The brother re'up got a different angle, because he's got different goals.

If I did his style, what would happen is that I'd screen out a ton of broads that are bad for me, long term.
If he catered to modern day narcissitic women, he'd screen IN a lot of girls that are not right for him.

This young brother though, imo, he needs more "time under tension" - cause that's what builds your conversational muscles.

I'm of the opinion that you need to run through a good # of broads before you figure out what you actually like.