Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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there are defo clubs at ya college that

If you traveling to these locations to meet these women, cool. If not? that shyt is depressing to me to be honest.

As far as your interests, there are definitely clubs and organizations tailored to them. You aren’t this unique kid on campus to where you the only one who likes those things. Search out for those clubs.

If they don’t exist, create them. Spread the word you are hosting an Anime discussion session every Tuesday at 8PM. Order Papa Johns locally and some soda.
 

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honestly 97% of the times hoes aren't saying anything important lmfao the point of convo is so she doesn't feel like a hoe (she already knows she wants to fukk you she just doesn't want any guilt associated with it).

nikkas give these hoes too much credit all day. At they so called high value jobs these bytches are scrolling tik Tok all day, and when they aint out with they fake ass friends just for the sake of taking photos they are at the crib drinking their lives away and scrolling TikTok somemore
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Facts. Alot of these broads are boring as fukk
 
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You giving out bad advice, homie.

You don't talk about your life, your passions, interests, traveling, food, books, movies to these chics.

You talk about THEIR life, THEIR passions, interests, traveling, food, books, movies to these chics.

Y'all are forgetting that women are narcissistic creatures that want to discuss themselves. They want to talk about themselves.

All you gotta do is ask some well placed questions and let them go. They'll talk for hours about themselves.

Only time you talk about yourself is when they ask you about you. Other than that, you keep the conversation focused on them.

You're killing 2 birds with one stone there. Firstly, you are feeding her narcissism (which she will reward you for) and then secondly, you are (supposed to be) collecting information.

Thirdly, women love mystery. If you go in telling her everything about yourself, she has no reason to talk to you anymore. She has cracked your mystery. Women want a challenge.
Big FACTS. Just set them up and let them run their mouth. Even when they ask you questions you can be playfully vague then redirect back to them. Waste of time to talk about your interests at that point, especially if it's some nerdy shyt.

When I was younger I used to wonder how some guys were able to get away with sidechick or a whole nother family without their woman knowing. Now I know better :mjlol:

After you smash you can leak out more info if they seem really interested in you. If you're piping right and they're falling for you, then they'll easily want to participate in any interests or hobbies you have.
 

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What y'all don't understand is that all of them are narcissistic. See, y'all are victims of that whole "I'm different" philosophy that people carry around, men and women. When the truth is, we're not all that different from each other at all. And the people who are proclaiming their differentness be the most cookie-cutter drones that you could ever encounter.

Women have way more in common than they don't. All of them are narcissistic. If you're going to weed out narcissistic women, prepare to live like a monk in the mountains of Tibet.

With that being said, I agree with you that practice is good. He needs to just practice talking to women. It's easy and simple.

I wish I could pass him some of these chics trying to talk to me :snoop: They be calling me wanting to talk all the time, and I be sick of them.

I'm a 6 cert breh, I'm busy :what:

You know what's funny, women only want to talk about themselves all day on a surface level. You start cutting through the meat asking them deep questions about their childhood or their parents past relationships, they get quickly burnt out then want to change the subject.
 

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What y'all don't understand is that all of them are narcissistic. See, y'all are victims of that whole "I'm different" philosophy that people carry around, men and women. When the truth is, we're not all that different from each other at all. And the people who are proclaiming their differentness be the most cookie-cutter drones that you could ever encounter.

Women have way more in common than they don't. All of them are narcissistic. If you're going to weed out narcissistic women, prepare to live like a monk in the mountains of Tibet.

With that being said, I agree with you that practice is good. He needs to just practice talking to women. It's easy and simple.

I wish I could pass him some of these chics trying to talk to me :snoop: They be calling me wanting to talk all the time, and I be sick of them.

I'm a 6 cert breh, I'm busy :what:

What I'm saying is that whether we as men are the same as women, or we're different is not material.

I'm not having a conversation with this chick, I'm running an experiment, this is a sales funnel, a performance.

I don't care about what she says, I care that she's speaking.

On the real, She's not even the same person after you sleep with her, so trying to get to know her representative, imo, futile.

And these chicks can know everything about me, all my likes and dislikes, history, fave color, type of car I like, and still not know ME.

Remember, the typical cat that she sleeps with - it doesn't have much to do with what he says.

If a cat look like he can wreck it, sound like he can wreck it, gives her the personal impression that her back will be broken, as long as he don't say too much off the wall stuff, she will get her back broken by him.

She's choosing in 99% of situations. She's looking past the dudes flaws, cause some part of him does "it" for her.
  • Height?
  • Coloration?
  • Muscles?
  • Cologne?
  • That time of the month?
  • It's her birthday?
  • She's feeling ugly, and needs validation that guys want her
  • She broke up with her man and wants to get back at him
  • She found out he's cheating, and wants to get back at him, in secret
  • She's lonely, and the only thing she knows how to do is get with a dude
  • etc
Who knows?

These chicks don't have a clue about who they are, who they want, or any of that long term/big picture stuff. (and most men don't either, diff topic)

They say stuff all the time, but they do something different.

Look at her Ex's, none of them were 6'5" billionaire ballers. So these chicks are lying to all of us about what it takes.
The one time she dated her "prototype" she was either bored to tears, or she couldn't keep him satisfied.

But my dude specifically asked about upping his verbal game.

And this, imo, is how you do it.

It's damn near impossible to be Mr. "I got an answer for everything", until you talk to a lot of broads.

So my game is partially to get her to talk herself out, talk herself up, and talk herself into bed.

For the most part, giving her things to talk about passionately, and then steering the conversation is really the least work a man can do.

Living an impressive life, and telling her impressive things is the hard way imo.

Potna can always holla at a chick and straight up say "Wat dat mouf do" - but his success rate is gonna be low.

Rather than overload ol boy with conversational technique, I want him to take the easy route
 

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You know what's funny, women only want to talk about themselves all day on a surface level. You start cutting through the meat asking them deep questions about their childhood or their parents past relationships, they get quickly burnt out then want to change the subject.

Yeah women are like pets gotta keep shyt basic regardless of how complex they try to come off
 

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Latinas>>>>>> :whew:

Most likely to be aggressive when they’re into you. Very flirty and touchy. The energy from them is very engaging. They have a lot of rhythm which I say makes them great fukk partners. However, get them angry, you better hope she doesn’t poison your food or chop your member off. Ay dios mios!:pachaha:
 

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Man I'm realizing that it really is simps' fault for messing up the game

This chick I used to smash hit me up asking for $150 for gas because she driving back from another state. I told her nah.

I know she's a gambling addict and will just waste it plus I don't give hoes money.

Then she asks if she can live with me for 2 weeks til she gets a job. I told her nah.

I don't even know her like that plus she'll just steal from me and she untrustworthy.

Then she got mad and said fine, she already found some other dude that will let her live with him for 2 weeks

She found a simp to give her the money too. All those dude do is enable those hoes to act the way they do.
 
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