Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Everything Zen]

what is your long term objective with her?

hard to say tbh

we've been coworkers since march of last year, friends since around july of last year, and intimately involved only since this past february... i will say that I could see something serious with her, just need shorty to relax a little bit.

 

[Ohene]

hard to say tbh

we've been coworkers since march of last year, friends since around july of last year, and intimately involved only since this past february... i will say that I could see something serious with her, just need shorty to relax a little bit.

hard to answer without knowing exactly what you want from shorty

if youre on the fence youre prolly just better off just taking a step back. if she notices something is "different" and complains just reassure her that everything is fine, but that youre just a bit busy with some personal stuff - goals, hobbies or whatever. if she expresses issues/complains stand your ground

i find you cant be too available, they take it for granted. you have to be consistently inconsistent as Dante Nero once said lol

 

[The ADD]

hard to say tbh

we've been coworkers since march of last year, friends since around july of last year, and intimately involved only since this past february... i will say that I could see something serious with her, just need shorty to relax a little bit.

You’ve got mixed feelings which is giving her mixed signals.

You need to sort what you really want and respond accordingly .

 

[Everything Zen]

hard to answer without knowing exactly what you want from shorty

if youre on the fence youre prolly just better off just taking a step back. if she notices something is "different" and complains just reassure her that everything is fine, but that youre just a bit busy with some personal stuff - goals, hobbies or whatever. if she expresses issues/complains stand your ground

i find you cant be too available, they take it for granted. you have to be consistently inconsistent as Dante Nero once said lol

basically what the plan was... thx

You’ve got mixed feelings which is giving her mixed signals.

You need to sort what you really want and respond accordingly .

i feel like the "what are we"/"what do you want" convo usually doesn't come until at least the 3 month mark but fair enough. i do tend to take my time with these things.

 

[The ADD]

basically what the plan was... thx


i feel like the "what are we"/"what do you want" convo usually doesn't come until at least the 3 month mark but fair enough. i do tend to take my time with these things.

You’ve known her for year, became “friends” four months later then started a situation.

There is a building towards something more in her mind me thinks. It’s not like y’all meet three months ago.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

basically what the plan was... thx


i feel like the "what are we"/"what do you want" convo usually doesn't come until at least the 3 month mark but fair enough. i do tend to take my time with these things.

in her mind....you her man....

eventhough yall havent had the conversation....it seems inevitable to her.....

i hope for your sake if you not ready to be comitted that she doesnt start tripping....depending on how this is handled and her mind set....you could end up in HR

 

[DJSmooth]

how do you brehs course correct after giving up too much, too soon?


been smashing shorty from work (i know, i know) now since february. she's definitely a vibe and ive been enjoying her, but over these past few weeks, i lost my footing and began giving her wayyy too much of my time and emotional energy. now things are becoming a lil terse between us because she's open and is expecting more of me than i have or want to give rn. i already let her know that there's a conversation pending between us, just curious how yall handle females that you dikkmatize but actually really like.

Women wake up everyday trying to conquer the current man in their life, they don't take breaks, and when they do they will move on to the next one.

This comes off sounding like you didn't bring your A game everyday. You sound confused on what you want out of this and she will start steering the ship if you don't.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Women wake up everyday trying to conquer the current man in their life, they don't take breaks, and when they do they will move on to the next one.

This comes off sounding like you didn't bring your A game everyday. You sound confused on what you want out of this and she will start steering the ship if you don't.

the bolded is the craziest thing about women to me...because once they break the man down they no longer respect him

once the respect is gone....the sex stops...then the relationship shot clock starts....and she starts looking for the next victim

 

[ABlackMan]

Hoes be lying then be mad at you for holding that against em aye yo

 

[ABlackMan]

Don’t even talk to a broad that don’t post at least they fingers in they pro picture.


Got this one shorty been bad for years she always only posted her top half though but in pics with family you see her she nice up top and below the waist lol

She done had two kids now and maaaaaaan the pic she just uploaded smh she ain’t told nobody all this but being sweet on me lol like wtf


Mug was gonna wait until we met up for me to find out she blew up below the waist.

Crazy

 

[The ADD]

Don’t even talk to a broad that don’t post at least they fingers in they pro picture.


Got this one shorty been bad for years she always only posted her top half though but in pics with family you see her she nice up top and below the waist lol

She done had two kids now and maaaaaaan the pic she just uploaded smh she ain’t told nobody all this but being sweet on me lol like wtf


Mug was gonna wait until we met up for me to find out she blew up below the waist.

Crazy

You never met her after all these years/before the kids?

 

[ABlackMan]

You never met her after all these years/before the kids?

she 6 years younger than me bruh no I didn’t try to and when it was applicable she wasn’t living here. She just moved back last year earlier this year or something.

I don’t play Facebook too tough so no I hadn’t kept up with her. We been talking for a few days cause she liked a a few picture on my stories.

She was open to hanging out in different states and places I’m just like what the hell that’s fast too fast

Seen the pics today and just smh lol bigger than I go for

 

[ABlackMan]

You ever been with someone long-term and they suddenly switch it up a bit during sex like throw it back more or do something extra whereas before it was same old same old.

Did you ever question why?

Sheeeeeeeesh been there with the thoughts. Just ask her though and you’ll find out.

“Idk I was just trying something”

Women have they own minds and they watch flicks too. Just gotta listen for a trembling voice or feel for shaky palms

 

[ABlackMan]

The one shorty I posted up about before I cut the shyt after I tried to get some time in and was met with the “I close/im busy” shyt.

Say she not into anything romantic right now(is that fukking or just chilling? All of the above?)
So I say cool I’m moving on through but we good we cool I’m not tripping no hard feelings whatever. It’s mutual.


I didn’t think just hanging out was romantic and had not established trying to fukk even though we had been handsy with one another. Anyway though

two days go by.
next time
I see her I say hey and she speak back. I keep walking…she gone “oh ok bye”

I draw back mistakingly whats up, really tryna keep my feet moving.

We talk a lil bit small talk bs and go on.


I see her again the next day and I don’t speak lmao she start raging out turning red and looking at me like why aren’t you talking to me.

Comes and stands directly in front of me just eyeing me.



Two more days pass and she’s hitting me up asking to meet for some ice cream and hang out.

I ain’t jump out my body but we set up a time, not really wanting to do it, ima be late to it too and just as I’m just finishing my shower she text me saying something came up.


just back and forth on some shyt I just told her I’m trying to kick it and make her cum when she need help with it.

She responds saying she wanted to hang out and that we can set up for a different day.

I just left it at that. What a wash

 

[RaspberryFitted]

The one shorty I posted up about before I cut the shyt after I tried to get some time in and was met with the “I close/im busy” shyt.

Say she not into anything romantic right now(is that fukking or just chilling? All of the above?)
So I say cool I’m moving on through but we good we cool I’m not tripping no hard feelings whatever. It’s mutual.


I didn’t think just hanging out was romantic and had not established trying to fukk even though we had been handsy with one another. Anyway though

two days go by.
next time
I see her I say hey and she speak back. I keep walking…she gone “oh ok bye”

I draw back mistakingly whats up, really tryna keep my feet moving.

We talk a lil bit small talk bs and go on.


I see her again the next day and I don’t speak lmao she start raging out turning red and looking at me like why aren’t you talking to me.

Comes and stands directly in front of me just eyeing me.



Two more days pass and she’s hitting me up asking to meet for some ice cream and hang out.

I ain’t jump out my body but we set up a time, not really wanting to do it, ima be late to it too and just as I’m just finishing my shower she text me saying something came up.


just back and forth on some shyt I just told her I’m trying to kick it and make her cum when she need help with it.

She responds saying she wanted to hang out and that we can set up for a different day.

I just left it at that. What a wash

you jumped out the window with this one