Honestly man……..
For context, she was on a sexual vibe from the very first message. I played along, but I told her I wanted to get to know her. So we agreed to get drinks this Friday.
So we kept messaging on the app yesterday. Mostly about normal stuff. As it got later in the day, she started making more sexual jokes/comments. I played along, and she sent me her number.
She ended up sending me a vid of her twerking in lingerie. I complimented her. Then she asked me what I was doing tonight.
I told her I was chilling, and she said she was doing the same. I said I’m down to meet, but I don’t live on my own. She said she doesn’t either. I told her I could get a room for the night if she was down. She asked if I was serious. I said “yeah, I was already considering it”.
She asked me when I started considering it. I’m like. I said when I was picking a place to get drinks at. She asked me if I usually look for a hotel for dates.
Once again, I’m like
I’ve never been on a date but I didn’t tell her that.
I told her “Honestly no. I mean, I think about it but you were really bold lol”
She asked me if bold turns me on. I said yeah.
Then she said “It takes more than a drink to land me in bed babe. I don’t do casual sex, like to have some sort of connection.”
I told her I was confused. She explained that she needed to connect with the person on a date first. I was like “why did you ask me what I was doing tonight?” She said it was an innocent question. I told her she was toying with me.
She asked if I wanted her to slow down on the sexual comments/jokes. I said no. We kept texting. She ended up sending me a vid of her fukking herself with a dildo.
She said she’s usually not so sexual on the apps, but she decided to just be herself with me. We’re still going on the date.
I am. The date is tonight.
Wait, you at the crib?!Breh SHE GOING!! What area you goin on date, we can find the airbnb for you breh.. Though shyt might be expensive cuz its HIGH season and snow birds in town for christmas/new years
Yea, it’s close to Miami shores. Honestly I don’t even feel the need to do all that.
. Not even 2nd choice but third(there was another dude she'd been waiting on but he didn't make the move. If even said if he did she'd dump meee) 
I’m sorry to hear that man. Not to place blame on you, but what made you overlook how dude kept popping up the first six months of y’all first dating?Wife recently bought a new fone. Forfeiting the old one. One she had used for the last 3 years right before we go married. We got married 2 months ago (https://www.thecoli.com/threads/got-married-last-weekend-brehs.1056932/)
Did I not get curious and start reading old texts on her old fone while she was at work
I found out the dude who for some readon just wouldn't go away the first 6 months of dating is the actual love of her life
She basicly tried all she could to get with the guy and he kept curving her. It wasn't him keeping contact with her it was the opposite. And the times he would call he was simply returning the 10+ missed calls she left him.
I was the fall guy. I was the other, other option
She basicly gave up after the dude impregnated a chick. Then I became the ' I guess this one will do just fine' guy
I'm finding this shyt out after giving her the ring
We supposed to be 8 months into dating here.I’m sorry to hear that man. Not to place blame on you, but what made you overlook how dude kept popping up the first six months of y’all first dating?
Also
Post the texts for Friday fukkery
Wife recently bought a new fone. Forfeiting the old one. One she had used for the last 3 years right before we go married. We got married 2 months ago (https://www.thecoli.com/threads/got-married-last-weekend-brehs.1056932/)
Did I not get curious and start reading old texts on her old fone while she was at work
I found out the dude who for some readon just wouldn't go away the first 6 months of dating is the actual love of her life
She basicly tried all she could to get with the guy and he kept curving her. It wasn't him keeping contact with her it was the opposite. And the times he would call he was simply returning the 10+ missed calls she left him.
I was the fall guy. I was the other, other option
She basicly gave up after the dude impregnated a chick. Then I became the ' I guess this one will do just fine' guy
I'm finding this shyt out after giving her the ring
I’m starting to realize that.She is not serious and is teasing you for attention.
She needs a connection to have sex but she sends you a twerking vid & vid of her fukkin herself
Seems like she got you cuz you juelzing in the texts tryna downplay stuff.
I’m sorry for what you’ve found out and hope you take the necessary steps to find peace bruh.We supposed to be 8 months into dating here.
I don't think anything happened. Just sharing a bed everynight for the rest of your life with someone you KNOW would rather be somewhere else is killing me breh.
Ok got you. I always feel like Logistics is dam near most important thing if you tryna pipe. But play it cool, have no expectations and when the shyt test come or the words dont match the actions just roll with it and see how it plays out.I am. The date is tonight.
Yea, it’s close to Miami shores. Honestly I don’t even feel the need to do all that.
She sent me another vid
DAM Breh, I remember your original thread and sent congrats. I know it sucks but you have to understand its better to know SO EARLY and count your blessings. The deceit and betrayal is too much, this type of stuff and get you lined up and killed. Having a third/fourth unknown party who has access to your closest confidant is not something to play with. Im happy you been blessed with this info so early in union you can probably file for annulment and leave relatively unscathed. Speak to your lawyer ASAP.Wife recently bought a new fone. Forfeiting the old one. One she had used for the last 3 years right before we go married. We got married 2 months ago (https://www.thecoli.com/threads/got-married-last-weekend-brehs.1056932/)
Did I not get curious and start reading old texts on her old fone while she was at work
I found out the dude who for some readon just wouldn't go away the first 6 months of dating is the actual love of her life
She basicly tried all she could to get with the guy and he kept curving her. It wasn't him keeping contact with her it was the opposite. And the times he would call he was simply returning the 10+ missed calls she left him.
I was the fall guy. I was the other, other option
She basicly gave up after the dude impregnated a chick. Then I became the ' I guess this one will do just fine' guy
I'm finding this shyt out after giving her the ring
I have a post in my head I been trying to find the time to type out of the shyt I have heard and seen these last couple weeks in my holiday parties rounds I have made. ALOT of brehs are in situations they are not aware of, Its SOOOOOOOOO many women in workforce who are just doin crazy shyt. The Industries I am privy too, its just completely insane. Believe me when I tell you, you have been blessed.daaaaang bruh. what now?Wife recently bought a new fone. Forfeiting the old one. One she had used for the last 3 years right before we go married. We got married 2 months ago (https://www.thecoli.com/threads/got-married-last-weekend-brehs.1056932/)
Did I not get curious and start reading old texts on her old fone while she was at work
I found out the dude who for some readon just wouldn't go away the first 6 months of dating is the actual love of her life
She basicly tried all she could to get with the guy and he kept curving her. It wasn't him keeping contact with her it was the opposite. And the times he would call he was simply returning the 10+ missed calls she left him.
I was the fall guy. I was the other, other option
She basicly gave up after the dude impregnated a chick. Then I became the ' I guess this one will do just fine' guy
I'm finding this shyt out after giving her the ring
DAM Breh, I remember your original thread and sent congrats. I know it sucks but you have to understand its better to know SO EARLY and count your blessings. The deceit and betrayal is too much, this type of stuff and get you lined up and killed. Having a third/fourth unknown party who has access to your closest confidant is not something to play with. Im happy you been blessed with this info so early in union you can probably file for annulment and leave relatively unscathed. Speak to your lawyer ASAP.
This is a present from the GAWDS above.
