Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
thats not intentional enough tho.Spring / Summer coming
Date options below:
Coffee
Ice Cream / Frozen Yogurt / Vegan Ice Cream / Protein Shake
Happy Hour
Bottle of Wine in the park / pier
Outdoor concert (Jazz, R&B, etc)
Go for a Walk
Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
also I said to her what does that even mean and she unmatched me. I wasn't taking her out after her response but I was curious what she was gonna say back.
Redwood
Superstar
Regardless of that, at least you don't have to worry about her anymore...
For now at least
Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
too many men put up with bullshyt and try to date bytches that aren't interested or aren't cooperating. If she has an attitude or is making you jump through hoops it's bushes status.Regardless of that, at least you don't have to worry about her anymore...
For now at least
What happened with the other chick?
Redwood
Superstar
Are you following your own advice here breh?
Women dont like “intentional” men
Thats just code for how they want somebody whos willing to spend money on them without any expectations
Be serious /intentional for real and they will get scared away. Meanwhile the dude who is avoidant, keeps them guessing and is consistently inconsistent with her is the one who can’t peel her off.
Thats just code for how they want somebody whos willing to spend money on them without any expectations
Be serious /intentional for real and they will get scared away. Meanwhile the dude who is avoidant, keeps them guessing and is consistently inconsistent with her is the one who can’t peel her off.
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
I always tell women I don’t have intentions because I simply don’t know YOU yet. We could be friends, you could be a girlfriend, maybe a wife, maybe I never want to see you again, but. We need to spend time to figure it out.
Which again is interesting, because the idea that you would select your wife, or girlfriend, or whatever, based on HINGE prompts, to me, seems like mail order brides or arranged marriages. But, that's how we have been conditioned. You insert your data, and out comes your response. This very synthetic, sterile approach.
You leave no room for physical chemistry, or touch, or human connection (beyond messages), or the kind of closeness that COMES from things like physical intimacy, spending actual time together, but it cannot come before.
Had a pretty funny exchange with a girl yesterday, lives in my neighborhood, goes to law school. Saw her at a trendy taco spot by my house, then saw her the next day at a trendy bakery, then saw her again, walking in the area. I finally stopped her and said "Hey were you a the taco spot last night"
and we had a quick back and forth about that and whatever else, she's from LA. I was in a hurry and said I would talk to you longer, but lets have coffee tomorrow
She got that funny look, where she wasn't uncomfortable with me, but had like that Gen Z anxiety rambling. She says something like "well I have a situation....uhhh relationship...uhh I am kinda like in a situation.....and I don't want to mislead you..." and I was like don't worry about it, but what if we just get coffee? how many people do you even know in the city?
Somehow that turned into me saying, so if we meet up and hang out and talk, it's ok, but if we plan it, like exchange numbers, it's not? So, meet me without the texting. And she's like you're trying to find a loophole. And I was like you want to see me again, but we can't plan it. So I'll see you around. And the next day we ran into each other again, and we are both smiling and laughing.
and we had a quick back and forth about that and whatever else, she's from LA. I was in a hurry and said I would talk to you longer, but lets have coffee tomorrow
She got that funny look, where she wasn't uncomfortable with me, but had like that Gen Z anxiety rambling. She says something like "well I have a situation....uhhh relationship...uhh I am kinda like in a situation.....and I don't want to mislead you..." and I was like don't worry about it, but what if we just get coffee? how many people do you even know in the city?
Somehow that turned into me saying, so if we meet up and hang out and talk, it's ok, but if we plan it, like exchange numbers, it's not? So, meet me without the texting. And she's like you're trying to find a loophole. And I was like you want to see me again, but we can't plan it. So I'll see you around. And the next day we ran into each other again, and we are both smiling and laughing.
Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
Yea I wasn’t gonna take this chick out I wanted to hear her response tho for entertainment purposes.