Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I just started this show "Married with Children" and I'm now realizing, this will most likely be my life. I make a decent wage for a black man in NY. I'm not "up" by any means, but i'm not broke either. All things withstanding, I told my girl and women friends that I'm saving and trying to not spend. Dosen't stop my girl from asking me for money even though we still go on dates and I pay, and like yea I get it the man is supposed to provide, but also like damn, why not ask your father?? We not even married yet.

My friend was even worse because we fukked and shyt in the past, but both her parents are doctors and she would ask me for money instead of them . Like nikka I take the 4 train to work and you've had a white Benz since college :hhh:. I actually know support my father, my brother he had when he and my mom split and now my girl and then Imma have kids and they need stuff. I'm only 31 for fukks sake :pacspit::ohlawd::sadbron:
 

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I just started this show "Married with Children" and I'm now realizing, this will most likely be my life. I make a decent wage for a black man in NY. I'm not "up" by any means, but i'm not broke either. All things withstanding, I told my girl and women friends that I'm saving and trying to not spend. Dosen't stop my girl from asking me for money even though we still go on dates and I pay, and like yea I get it the man is supposed to provide, but also like damn, why not ask your father?? We not even married yet.

My friend was even worse because we fukked and shyt in the past, but both her parents are doctors and she would ask me for money instead of them . Like nikka I take the 4 train to work and you've had a white Benz since college :hhh:. I actually know support my father, my brother he had when he and my mom split and now my girl and then Imma have kids and they need stuff. I'm only 31 for fukks sake :pacspit::ohlawd::sadbron:
I mean you don’t have to stay with her if the situation is to your detriment….
 

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I just started this show "Married with Children" and I'm now realizing, this will most likely be my life. I make a decent wage for a black man in NY. I'm not "up" by any means, but i'm not broke either. All things withstanding, I told my girl and women friends that I'm saving and trying to not spend. Dosen't stop my girl from asking me for money even though we still go on dates and I pay, and like yea I get it the man is supposed to provide, but also like damn, why not ask your father?? We not even married yet.

My friend was even worse because we fukked and shyt in the past, but both her parents are doctors and she would ask me for money instead of them . Like nikka I take the 4 train to work and you've had a white Benz since college :hhh:. I actually know support my father, my brother he had when he and my mom split and now my girl and then Imma have kids and they need stuff. I'm only 31 for fukks sake :pacspit::ohlawd::sadbron:

No m'am
 

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This is a 4/10 talking like this mind you


Maaaaaaaaan i can’t even be bothered with these chicks nowadays :pachaha:

Meanwhile she got $-21.48 in her account.

Demanding for “intention” & begging for money from my coli brehs

:mjlol:

This is what happens when they get too much experience and stay stuck on their highest setting.
 

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Meanwhile she got $-21.48 in her account.

Demanding for “intention” & begging for money from my coli brehs

:mjlol:

This is what happens when they get too much experience and stay stuck on their highest setting.
Comparing a yahoo boy in Nigeria to a hard working brit in an expensive city. The women are just dumb
 

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Meanwhile she got $-21.48 in her account.

Demanding for “intention” & begging for money from my coli brehs

:mjlol:

This is what happens when they get too much experience and stay stuck on their highest setting.

Work on yourself. Gain leverage, then make demands later.

Shorty wouldn't be on that time if Lip Stack Alley had a "Quick lil gems on dealing with men" thread, but their priorities aren't where it should be. Too focused on who Coco Jones is dating.
 

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You could write a whole thing about on linguistics, and the shaping of words through social media. I commented a few times about that recently.

Intentional is one of those words that in it's current iteration, or one of them, is women talking like I only want a guy that treats me from the outset like he wants to marry me and take care of me. Like expensive spot, flowers, a gift. It's not getting to know you, it's proving yourself. it's also a bizarre way of closing yourself off from connection.

It's a testament to social media's warping of everyone's mind. Basically everything getting more extreme, and having to heighten their personal value and brand. People think they are being like wise and "traditional" but they are unintentionally mischaracterizing history. Courting and all that ritualistic shyt was when people had very very few options, both men and women. And women who weren't from wealthy families, or royalty, were essentially indigent.

I know women who talk like that, make Tik Toks about it. And some of them practice it. Esp. on a dating app. I take them them out to lavish dates, but it's on my terms.
 

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You could write a whole thing about on linguistics, and the shaping of words through social media. I commented a few times about that recently.

Intentional is one of those words that in it's current iteration, or one of them, is women talking like I only want a guy that treats me from the outset like he wants to marry me and take care of me. Like expensive spot, flowers, a gift. It's not getting to know you, it's proving yourself. it's also a bizarre way of closing yourself off from connection.

It's a testament to social media's warping of everyone's mind. Basically everything getting more extreme, and having to heighten their personal value and brand. People think they are being like wise and "traditional" but they are unintentionally mischaracterizing history. Courting and all that ritualistic shyt was when people had very very few options, both men and women. And women who weren't from wealthy families, or royalty, were essentially indigent.

I know women who talk like that, make Tik Toks about it. And some of them practice it. Esp. on a dating app. I take them them out to lavish dates, but it's on my terms.

bytches watching too much Bridgerton & picking parts of history to implement today.

Agreed. It should always be on your terms & they should be also proving themselves.
 
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