Brehs gotta ignore all this shyt and just do what theh want lol
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Brehs gotta ignore all this shyt and just do what theh want lol
If that’s all you “settled” for that’s pretty impressive
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Yeah I agree. Seems like the scarcity mindset tends to create attachment issues. For example you meet a woman that fits your criteria after months/years of flaking, games, combativeness, ghosting. She is fit, attractive, kind, easy going, great communication face to face and texting, etc,. It’s refreshing and you start to fantasize about the future and think “finally I found a good one”
So you press hard trying to lock her down thinking I can’t lose this one, I don’t want to mess this up. You try and see her several times a week, text her all the time. All your actions reek of desperation and she runs away. Rinse and repeat.
Yeah I agree. Seems like the scarcity mindset tends to create attachment issues. For example you meet a woman that fits your criteria after months/years of flaking, games, combativeness, ghosting. She is fit, attractive, kind, easy going, great communication face to face and texting, etc,. It’s refreshing and you start to fantasize about the future and think “finally I found a good one”
So you press hard trying to lock her down thinking I can’t lose this one, I don’t want to mess this up. You try and see her several times a week, text her all the time. All your actions reek of desperation and she runs away. Rinse and repeat.
Yup
You gotta keep the mentality you have when a girl that's just meh is into you. You don't care if she calls or texts, you're not going out of your way etc ..
My friend whos a photographer kept telling me this and would offer to take a few pictures of me for free. I didnt care much for online dating so I kept delaying but eventually bit the bullet. It makes a difference I cant lie
Sometimes it’s not a game problem, but just an attraction/interest problem in that she’s not that attracted 
When she is, things are far more straight forward.
Tryna give my younger cousin some advice.
When she is, things are far more straight forward.Tryna give my younger cousin some advice.
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Big Yella
lol legit
those terms I asked about all just sound like setting boundaries and being logical in dating. I don’t know why everything we do has to be categorized in some new term when it’s just some everyday activity lol
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Yeah I’m comin to grips with the fact that my pics kinda suck lol
Maybe I just say fukk it and make an IG
Brandsdale
Big Yella
@MikelArteta random, but did you meet your wife IN Uganda or was she in Toronto at the time?
Nike spends 1% of their revenue on R&D, but 8% on "demand creation".
It's all game. It's all about understanding psychology, and then implementing it, to create the demand.
In the short term - a chick had to have SOME level of interest to "like" a message or return a text. Call it low interest, but it's not "no" interest.
Being chicks flow in and out of that type of thing - she likes her BF Keisha today, hates her tomorrow - it's really the dude's job to develop that low level of interest to get her on the program. I.E. his game.
In the long term - a chick loves your dirty drawers those first 3 months, but after a while she gets used to you and then gets bored. If the dude wants to keep the chick on the team, he has to deal with her psychology.
Her base nature is change. She always wants something new, something novel, something to engage her senses, something to flame up her emotions.
When I worked in the office, I would keep track of how often these females would change their hair style DURING THE WORK DAY. Broads complaining about the A/C while wearing a skirt, sandals, and drinking iced coffee.
She can't just chill, especially the good looking ones. (it's a real wonder to me, how they're able to do so well in school tbh)
So as a dude, you either 1) gotta keep them emotionally occupied somehow, or 2) be good with her peacing out because she's bored and replacing her with a new model.
There's no escaping this.
The world has catered to her nature, and there's no going back.
Uganda my wife has never been to Canada
Was actually two years ago today I met my wife for the first time. I got super sick on my trip and she looked after me..I'm talking cleaning my bum and all that never asked for nothing. We ended up going to Rwanda and Kenya never thought I'd see or talk to her again. I've been to like 30 plus countries in my life and in all but Israel and Egypt I've met chicks so it was nothing new just didn't expect it to go anywhere or amount to anything
But then we kept talking when I got back. Every day and texting. Went back to Uganda and went back again and again and again. Thankfully I work remote so I was able to stay months at a time. I just knew something was different. Wrote a letter to her dad of my intent etc. popped the question and then yeah had traditional wedding paid bride price, then had white wedding where my parents and grandma travelled from Canada over.
Cdn government is azz twice applied for a tourist visa for her and twice denied. Even with everything provided. But they will let in scammers who claim refugee status .
Still awaiting spousal sponsorship to go through but process isn't the fastest been 6 months and it takes ten . I've been in Uganda for like 15/24 months . Baby just born 4 days ago will get her Canadian citizenship next week.
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reek of desperation OR genuinely displaying you have strong interest in this person's company?................
Yeah I agree. Seems like the scarcity mindset tends to create attachment issues. For example you meet a woman that fits your criteria after months/years of flaking, games, combativeness, ghosting. She is fit, attractive, kind, easy going, great communication face to face and texting, etc,. It’s refreshing and you start to fantasize about the future and think “finally I found a good one”
So you press hard trying to lock her down thinking I can’t lose this one, I don’t want to mess this up. You try and see her several times a week, text her all the time. All your actions reek of desperation and she runs away. Rinse and repeat.
all about perspective............it only becomes "desperation" if you're not placed in her "top tier"
Only is issue here is that it ignores her as an individual. She might not require attention to that level.
Yeah I agree. Seems like the scarcity mindset tends to create attachment issues. For example you meet a woman that fits your criteria after months/years of flaking, games, combativeness, ghosting. She is fit, attractive, kind, easy going, great communication face to face and texting, etc,. It’s refreshing and you start to fantasize about the future and think “finally I found a good one”
So you press hard trying to lock her down thinking I can’t lose this one, I don’t want to mess this up. You try and see her several times a week, text her all the time. All your actions reek of desperation and she runs away. Rinse and repeat.
My reference to him was more so No. 2. Yes, as a man the onus is on you to do the wooing/seducing etc but there should be some reciprocation of your advances from her.
I’m more so giving him advice of when to say enough is enough and not get strung along.
EDIT: This is why my thing is to get somewhat intimate with them a bit early on. If they shut it down completely then it’s likely not gonna happen at all.
No disagreement here.
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Telling, very telling
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