Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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When that body language is off it feels doomed.

My wife was that way the first time we met. Struggle city for that hour or so……
her general body lanaguage was good but the jacket thing i found to be bad etiquette/body language.
she's a bit ditsy so i dont know about anything serious but shes a nice girl and attractive. would be nice to keep her on a roster
 

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her general body lanaguage was good but the jacket thing i found to be bad etiquette/body language.
she's a bit ditsy so i dont know about anything serious but shes a nice girl and attractive. would be nice to keep her on a roster

Did you bring it up?

If you're not making attempts to call her attention to faux pas or correct her behavior real time - her place on the roster could easily become a nightmare.

To me, If I bring a chick to a spot, and she's dressed inappropriately - I do the calculus.

a) Say something and risk the immediate L. But honestly, I no longer need more notches so I digress.

b) Say nothing and have to deal with her BS down the line cause I neglected something, instead of handling it right then and there.

Lot of these hoes is goofy, cause because they're nice and attractive, no dude is trying mess it up. Just play it cool, ignore the nonsense, so you can slide up in it. They receive no guidance. Get the short term W, for the long term L>

That was me for 15 years, and at least 3 long term relationships....

Listen to me now, and believe me now, not later on - put your damn foot down, or end up with your chick talmbout she was mad at you during your presidency (LOL)
 

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Did you bring it up?

If you're not making attempts to call her attention to faux pas or correct her behavior real time - her place on the roster could easily become a nightmare.

To me, If I bring a chick to a spot, and she's dressed inappropriately - I do the calculus.

a) Say something and risk the immediate L. But honestly, I no longer need more notches so I digress.

b) Say nothing and have to deal with her BS down the line cause I neglected something, instead of handling it right then and there.

Lot of these hoes is goofy, cause because they're nice and attractive, no dude is trying mess it up. Just play it cool, ignore the nonsense, so you can slide up in it. They receive no guidance. Get the short term W, for the long term L>

That was me for 15 years, and at least 3 long term relationships....

Listen to me now, and believe me now, not later on - put your damn foot down, or end up with your chick talmbout she was mad at you during your presidency (LOL)
hmmm i did comment but i can admit it was a bit passive aggressive.

i think i asked, "why's your jacket on, are you cold?" and i forgot what her response was.

thing is I am a bit of the opposite. i be calling bytches out on their bs too much. i cant be bothered as much anymore unless its a long-term prospect i'm interested in. but i definitely hear you and will keep your advice in mind. I def coulda told her
 
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Was it cold in the restaurant? :jbhmm:


What kind of jacket we talking about?

:patrice:

thin trench coat.
nah i dont think it was but women be cold so iunno
bad body language though

You might be on to something, you might be on your Seinfeld shyt. Hard to know. :yeshrug:


Did you ask her for her reasoning? Maybe she was self-conscious?

Its whatever honestly

When that body language is off it feels doomed.

My wife was that way the first time we met. Struggle city for that hour or so……

On to the next :blessed:

i'll keep her around on the bench

her general body lanaguage was good but the jacket thing i found to be bad etiquette/body language.
she's a bit ditsy so i dont know about anything serious but shes a nice girl and attractive. would be nice to keep her on a roster
Whole thing devolved literally into the type of convsrsation that would happen in the booth at Tom's, just with a bit of Breh flair... :mjlol: :myman:
 
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