Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DJSmooth]

It's a humble brag for me — my girl and her mom just got me some Model Gundam Kits. Her mom's happy I treat her daughter right and understands that I'm buying what I couldn't when I was a kid.

In some other thread people are saying don't be yourself but please do, you'll find true happiness.

Dope her and her mom likes you

 

[Givethanks]

WHat thread are folks saying that in?.................And the make up of this forum is mostly folks 30+ who have experience in this world, you would think by then you realize that playing charades to bag a chick ain't it anymore, but some don't grow........

Yeah but if it works for them as I got older being myself was always the best outcome for me in the end. Doing shyt out of character always back fired for me.

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/advice-that-you-later-learned-was-bs.1082731/

Dope her and her mom likes you

Bro I'm saying — her mom is such a sweetheart man, having a connection to her family is the icing on the cake.

 

[Ohene]

It's a humble brag for me — my girl and her mom just got me some Model Gundam Kits

Thats a flex lol

 

[MikelArteta]

It's a humble brag for me — my girl and her mom just got me some Model Gundam Kits. Her mom's happy I treat her daughter right and understands that I'm buying what I couldn't when I was a kid.

In some other thread people are saying don't be yourself but please do, you'll find true happiness.

Always be yourself the thing one woman might have the ick for you over another will love it.

 

[cyndaquil]

WHat thread are folks saying that in?.................And the make up of this forum is mostly folks 30+ who have experience in this world, you would think by then you realize that playing charades to bag a chick ain't it anymore, but some don't grow........

Some of these dudes if they were truly themselves they would be alone and never get p*ssy because no one would wanna be around them. So its understandable

 

[Ohene]

chick gonna tell me she usually goes for the wrong guys. i say whats the wrong guy? dopeboy? scammer? she says she's dated multiple athletes

lol

 

[Scaaar]

Being a good Boyfriend is rewarding and all, but man once that good weather hits.

And them sundresses start popping out

 

[MikelArteta]

chick gonna tell me she usually goes for the wrong guys. i say whats the wrong guy? dopeboy? scammer? she says she's dated multiple athletes

lol

Dated or ran through

 

[cyndaquil]

chick gonna tell me she usually goes for the wrong guys. i say whats the wrong guy? dopeboy? scammer? she says she's dated multiple athletes

lol

Comes with the territory now with social media. If the girl you talking to bad and she post on ig enough to see some shyt she'll have em in her dms. At least she's honest. I'd take it as a plus cuz she could've not told you but like @MikelArteta is saying you gonna have to do your detective work to figure out if she was dating them or just getting ran through before you decide how to maneuver with her and decide what you're trying to pursue with her.
I kind of like this whole "it's ok for women to be hoes" era in that women will tell on themselves a lot more easily now. Way less surprises to deal with if you know what signs to look for.

 

[MikelArteta]

Comes with the territory now with social media. If the girl you talking to bad and she post on ig enough to see some shyt she'll have em in her dms. At least she's honest. I'd take it as a plus cuz she could've not told you but like @MikelArteta is saying you gonna have to do your detective work to figure out if she was dating them or just getting ran through before you decide how to maneuver with her and decide what you're trying to pursue with her.
I kind of like this whole "it's ok for women to be hoes" era in that women will tell on themselves a lot more easily now. Way less surprises to deal with if you know what signs to look for.

I remember I dated a girl whose ex was a partner at a big 4. Dude bought her a brand new car was sending her like 5 k a month and ish.

Chicks get accustomed to that lifestyle I can't do that ish

 

[cyndaquil]

I remember I dated a girl whose ex was a partner at a big 4. Dude bought her a brand new car was sending her like 5 k a month and ish.

Chicks get accustomed to that lifestyle I can't do that ish

That's her ex. If she has that expectation she need to go find it again. A lot of em don't there's only so many rich ass dudes willing to trick like that around and often times that isn't coinciding with true love and companionship. If a woman can't see that she doing you a favor. A pretty chick who makes your life miserable being high maintenance and a mooch aint even worth it. They'll offer you sex and then some other shyt that you likely don't need

 

[Scaaar]

I remember I dated a girl whose ex was a partner at a big 4. Dude bought her a brand new car was sending her like 5 k a month and ish.

Chicks get accustomed to that lifestyle I can't do that ish

Breh once you get to that state and remove your ego it's so much easier. I've encountered a lot of chicks that messed with scammers, promoters, etc. and they mentioned what them other dudes did for them. Younger men would try to match that band for band and you just end up wasting bread doing silly stuff. Now I let them know off rip I ain't doing it and I'm not competing with the ghosts of your ex's either. Also if they were so great you would still be with them but you're not and you're in my face now.

 

[Ohene]

Dated or ran through

Dated as far as i know
Yea i’ll have to slowly see what’s up

 

[Ohene]

That's her ex. If she has that expectation she need to go find it again. A lot of em don't there's only so many rich ass dudes willing to trick like that around and often times that isn't coinciding with true love and companionship. If a woman can't see that she doing you a favor. A pretty chick who makes your life miserable being high maintenance and a mooch aint even worth it. They'll offer you sex and then some other shyt that you likely don't need

This chick doesn’t seem high maintenance in the slightest but Meh it’s early

 

[Ohene]

Breh once you get to that state and remove your ego it's so much easier. I've encountered a lot of chicks that messed with scammers, promoters, etc. and they mentioned what them other dudes did for them. Younger men would try to match that band for band and you just end up wasting bread doing silly stuff. Now I let them know off rip I ain't doing it and I'm not competing with the ghosts of your ex's either. Also if they were so great you would still be with them but you're not and you're in my face now.

That simple