Exactly lol
I lowkey wanna remake my shyt and just brand myself as the most hood mfer ever and see what kinda matches I get nowI actually was supposed to add that my young fam have that part of the game on lock and their IG is on point. One of the young fam is a photographer and he is always with them to get shots when they go out and do shyt, so its like in house marketing. I mentioned it before in multiple post that the youngins got great understanding of it, so you are 100% right on that. But they got a certain mindset also, so its hard for brehs to maybe relate. But definitely peep the behaviors.
The paradox of choice is real. I think every breh has to experience atleast for brief time to understand how it really make you be on some pointy elbows type shyt. You have soo many options that you basically short circuit and cant decide.
Damn I'd need like a burner phone or something to do it huh?
, I gave that warning to fam and a week later they had them boys running up in house.. Luckily they survived. Just tone it down a lil but you can still signal wat is needed. lol..
Hell nah I was joking
Good point. Think I’ll just try to be more proactive in taking pics when I’m out. I’ve gotten rid of IG and all that 2 years ago so pics hasn’t been something I have an abundance of on my phone
Anime -5What I've gathered from the ether about how females judge profiles. (I'm mostly joking here)
NBA/Wemby height = -1
Normal height = -1
"ideal height" = +1
Listed as 5'11" or less = -5
Ideal height plus professional athlete muscles = +3
Sleeper build = 0
"he looks like works out" = +2
Magazine cover Bodybuilder = -1 (really depends on the chick though)
Designer logos = +2
Designer no logos/bespoke = 0
Business casual/Casual = -2
Handsome face = +5
Big truck - +1
Big truck on rims - +2
This year's Luxury Sedan - +1
Last year's Luxury Sedan - = 0
Muscle car that's not a Charger/Challenger
= -1
Sports car that's not a Ferrari/ Lambo = -1
Ferrari/Lambo = 0
Rice rocket bike - 0
Harley = -1
Expensive watch = 0
Expensive looking watch = +0.5
Diamond stud earrings = +1
Timbs, Camouflage, Jordans, =
Pics with women - +1- -1 depending on the females in the pic.
Pics with the homies -> what's your friends name?
Pics with kids and/or pets - 0 - (-1) - too much "good catch energy ".
Hunting, guns, outdoors, fishing - zero to minus 1
Instagram locations - +1
Actually exotic places - 0
Genuinely didn’t know a selfie or pet pic was deemed inflammatory
The answer is you should. We should all delete but there is very easy low hanging fruit on the apps lol
Damn...you framimg it in terms of "game" just set a light bulb off in my head. I never classified myself as the avoidant type, but it aligns with how I move with chicks. I often self deprecate and say "I'm only sticking around for the honeymoon stage" , once it's over, it's time to give them the "I'm not up to the standard of man you deserve" speech. But I always do this and it is because I am a self admitted "commitment-phobe".Miss a couple days and miss this exchange on attachment.. Definitely an important discussion for brehs and probably needs to be fleshed out. I am usually someone who sidesteps as mostly woowoo type stuff but when I actually looked into it a couple years back, it was paradigm shifting to me, could see how it affected multiple relationships. I actually think "game" is just packaged Avoidant behavior lol.. I know I have said multiple times that when I became exposed to "game" online, it felt like home and fit like a glove for me. Would also be confused why past behavior would have girls chasing even more when they say they want the opposite. Getting understanding on attachment theory answered why I felt that way. Brehs definitely dont underestimate this stuff, its atleast a pillar in helping you understand what you are dealing with or looking at yourself in mirror.
I know @Ohene talked about getting them to expose early than later but thats the thing, avoidants know how to do the beginning of dating stage REALLLLY well
.. Like I said "game". They not even doing it consciously, it just happens that way. It reveals itself month down the line when vibes cant carry the relationship anymore and the other party wonders where this is going. Thats when its like hold on, I got commitment issues or some shyt comes up
.. Then the chase begins and it triggers an outdated coping mechanism. Dont let it be an anxious type, they are drawn like moths to a flame.. Had to sit my ass down and build self back up brick by brick. Lets see how that plays out. Even if miss discussion good stuff and needed for other brehs. Its life changing because most of that stuff is subconscious and just coping behavior that while might have been adequate at younger age is outdated and outlived use in adulthood.
Idk what they saying all i know is once I am super shredded when I finish this cut. I am going full conceited mode. They can eat a dikk
