Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Mirin4rmfar

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Am I wrong for letting this bother me? I know my ex 's reddit account :mjlol:. I can see what she posts about me. It's insane how wrong she is about me, everything has been wrong :mjlol:. Her thinking I was cheating on her, her thinking I was hiding shyt from her, literally everything has been wrong, her thinking I preferred to have casual sex etc. The only I was not upfront about was my finances. She was surprise to learn what my net worth was.

I was literally faithful to this woman from the get go. It's hilarious but also sad what's she thinks she knows of me :mjlol:.
 

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Am I wrong for letting this bother me? I know my girl's reddit account :mjlol:. I can see what she posts about me. It's insane how wrong she is about me, everything has been wrong :mjlol:. Her thinking I was cheating on her, her thinking I was hiding shyt from her, literally everything has been wrong, her thinking I preferred to have casual sex etc. The only I was not upfront about was my finances. She was surprise to learn what my net worth was.

I was literally faithful to this woman from the get go. It's hilarious but also sad what's she thinks she knows of me :mjlol:.
You mean ex-girl….
 
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Am I wrong for letting this bother me? I know my ex 's reddit account :mjlol:. I can see what she posts about me. It's insane how wrong she is about me, everything has been wrong :mjlol:. Her thinking I was cheating on her, her thinking I was hiding shyt from her, literally everything has been wrong, her thinking I preferred to have casual sex etc. The only I was not upfront about was my finances. She was surprise to learn what my net worth was.

I was literally faithful to this woman from the get go. It's hilarious but also sad what's she thinks she knows of me :mjlol:.

I think the part that might be bothersome is how off base her judgment is. If it's that far off in this case, what other aspects of her life is she wildly off the mark? Also a good chance she is bringing her issues from past relationships into this one. Her thinking all those things about you, when you weren't, is probably reflective of aspects of dudes from her past. She's seeing ghosts that aren't there. Do you want to put up with that for the foreseeable future? Because you definitely ain't gonna change her :manny:
 

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Am I wrong for letting this bother me? I know my ex 's reddit account :mjlol:. I can see what she posts about me. It's insane how wrong she is about me, everything has been wrong :mjlol:. Her thinking I was cheating on her, her thinking I was hiding shyt from her, literally everything has been wrong, her thinking I preferred to have casual sex etc. The only I was not upfront about was my finances. She was surprise to learn what my net worth was.

I was literally faithful to this woman from the get go. It's hilarious but also sad what's she thinks she knows of me :mjlol:.
Yes. There's two sides of every story. In her eyes she may have done nothing wrong and you were the problem. In your eyes it may have been her. In reality it was probably a combination of things and you both just weren't compatible. Let her tell her side, you can tell yours but it doesnt change what is actually true. On the one hand I understand reading her posts it can give you confirmation on why you aren't together in case you end up missing her. In the other hand, if you are truly moving on from someone you shouldn't be checking their social media. While you're worrying about what she posting there's a better fit for you out there not getting your attention.
 

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Am I wrong for letting this bother me? I know my ex 's reddit account :mjlol:. I can see what she posts about me. It's insane how wrong she is about me, everything has been wrong :mjlol:. Her thinking I was cheating on her, her thinking I was hiding shyt from her, literally everything has been wrong, her thinking I preferred to have casual sex etc. The only I was not upfront about was my finances. She was surprise to learn what my net worth was.

I was literally faithful to this woman from the get go. It's hilarious but also sad what's she thinks she knows of me :mjlol:.
That’s to be expected. Women lack accountability so she has to frame the ordeal in that way to absolve herself of any guilt, responsibility or control over result.

It’s really that simple. She will make the same mistakes with her next man as a result
 

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You know you need to meet more single women when you’re on social media trying to look up the 1 unknown woman that you saw on the e-invite to the Juneteenth function.

Thisbrothasstarving.jpg

I literally did this on Monday lol :snoop:
False alarm for me. I know who the girl is. She just had a funny username on the invite.

So it’s going to be 2 couples, 2 single women that I’m not interested in, and me. :/
 

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Am I wrong for letting this bother me? I know my ex 's reddi

Wrong? Not really, cause everybody always have a lot of "you must not know bout me" inherent defensiveness.

Tapping into that "you got me f¢€¥ed up" energy is always a great strategy to get a chick caught up in your game. It's even better than a good cold read, because being wrong about someone is far more engaging than being right. Most everything we do with people has 1) zero effect, 2) marginally positive, 3) massively negative. And avoiding pain and loss is more motivating than seeking pleasure and success.

To get academic with it...

*Kahneman proved that "𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘵𝘸𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘢𝘴 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘢𝘴 𝘦𝘲𝘶𝘪𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴". ".

Keeping tabs on your ex girl is the real problem.

You need to get to the root of that
 
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