what percentage do you guys place on looks vs everything else if you had to guess.
When I say looks I mean face, body, smile.
Or do you guys break it up in body category, face category?
I don't think it breaks down that easily to be honest.
Gets her in the door
- Face, body
- Style
- Personality and demeanor
But then behavior and her treatment of you can negate whatever she has going at the start.
Mean, bytchy, bad with money, bipolar, drug/alcohol abuser, stingy, demanding, untrustworthy, disloyal, selfish, neglectful, narcissistic, etc.
That said, in my experience, looking at myself but also at others - the bar for looks is reachable by many women, and a man's tolerance for her BS is way too high.
Women tend to initiate divorces 75 to 80% time, if men were more on their hustle, that number should go down to 50%. It would never happen because men are starved for attention, affection, and physical connection.
And most importantly the packaging and initial interview tells you nothing about the long term, and
even the long term tells you nothing about the long term.
Cats say that hoop earrings, tattoos, if she's a nurse, etc is some telltale signs of trouble ahead, but that's never the case.
You can be with a chick for years, invest in her, marriage, kids, house, and one thing gets in her ear and she goes left.
Like imagine the chick has good job and then wants to pack up and be an artist or "Van Life". I can respect wanting change, but I've seen too many chicks blow up their lives chasing some dream.
Even the patriarchal Muslims that keep chicks covered up and stuck in homes got to deal with chicks trying to renegade.
. But I only approach women i find attractive so idk I guess I put a lot of percentage on looks but it's only the first criteria I'm looking for.
