Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

Not sure if this counts, but I met this woman last Monday and I clapped last Friday. Older women in her 50s. She never experienced a one night stand or had a hoe phased. She left her husband of 20 years and her friends gassed her up to go out and fukk for a lil bit.

Long story short , she never had orgasms from sex. Only with her toys. I made her nut 3 times and she never experienced it. She drove here from NY and on the ride back she called me talking about how she never experienced any of these events over the weekend and how she regrets not experiencing this while she was younger.


I say that to say this. Get you a woman that experienced life and don't have regrets. You don't need no midlife crisis fukking up your relationship.

nikka said “get you a woman”

Breh just enjoy running the score up and stay disconnected while these weirdos figure out life lol

 

[cyndaquil]

She drove here from NY and on the ride back she called me talking about how she never experienced any of these events over the weekend and how she regrets not experiencing this while she was younger.


I say that to say this. Get you a woman that experienced life and don't have regrets. You don't need no midlife crisis fukking up your relationship.

Breh, when you realize that even if you did that the situation could still end up the same way is when you'll truly be liberated. We gotta stop tryna use logic to understand things that are caused by feelings

 

[Apollo Creed]

Breh, when you realize that even if you did that the situation could still end up the same way is when you'll truly be liberated. We gotta stop tryna use logic to understand things that are caused by feelings

Lol yeah the moment you have emotions tied to a ONS you lost (hence why it takes a certain type of person to be able to have a ton and be somewhat sane).

 

[The ADD]

Breh, when you realize that even if you did that the situation could still end up the same way is when you'll truly be liberated. We gotta stop tryna use logic to understand things that are caused by feelings

^^^
But also lol at get you a woman that had a ONS and Hoe Phase

 

[Brandsdale]

I've deleted my dating apps. They are a waste of time. It's honestly very sad the lack of effort people put in these days. It's a race to see who can put in the least effort it seems. I've spent enough time on there to see the juice isn't worth the squeeze and I wont find what I am looking for there. I got tired of getting matches for it to go absolutely nowhere

i keep it and download it once every few months and it’s literally only for sex. I’ve dated from it and had mid-shyt relationship experiences but sex was usually fun.

The apps don’t seem as enticing anymore and anytime I go back to em the women put in even less effort or catfish even more. i feel less annoyed or caring when my expectations from it are just purely sex or just enjoying someone’s company

 

[MikelArteta]

what percentage do you guys place on looks vs everything else if you had to guess.

When I say looks I mean face, body, smile.

Or do you guys break it up in body category, face category?

Meh looks fade. I've dated some extremely beautiful drop dead gorgeous women but after a time the aggressiveness, the stress, etc. you don't even care.

But in terms of face body smile

Face , body can change can come and go.

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh, when you realize that even if you did that the situation could still end up the same way is when you'll truly be liberated. We gotta stop tryna use logic to understand things that are caused by feelings

Exactly what's meant to be will be.

All of this trying to make the right formula if I did this instead of this meh.

I've mentioned before that before I met my wife I was cavorting with this Ghanian chick we went out like 6 times etc. but it just seemed like it was a one way thing I always had to call, or text, or make plans. If she showed more of an initiative before my trip I would have just kept moving. But it was needed to be and that led me to my wife.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

maaaannnn it's some crazy woman on Hinge. This one chick, attractive, she hits me saturday night, super drunk, we video chat, told her we will talk tomorrow. Tonight we video chat again, she starts showing me her tiddies, says she wants to show me her p*ssy wants me to come over and smash. I told her nooooo, she is like oh im not drunk, I can consent. She is like, I want your parts inside of me and I feel like im begging you for dikk, I feel humiliated I am too attractive for that. I told her we can smash but no weed or alcohol. She is like,yeah, that's boring

She got great t*ts, great lips but I don't take these risks



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Match with a Japenese and Sri Lankan girl on Hinge, I want to sleep with both, just for the experience. The Sri Lankan girl is very beautiful.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

I don't think it breaks down that easily to be honest.

Gets her in the door

1. Face, body
2. Style
3. Personality and demeanor

But then behavior and her treatment of you can negate whatever she has going at the start.

Mean, bytchy, bad with money, bipolar, drug/alcohol abuser, stingy, demanding, untrustworthy, disloyal, selfish, neglectful, narcissistic, etc.

That said, in my experience, looking at myself but also at others - the bar for looks is reachable by many women, and a man's tolerance for her BS is way too high.

Women tend to initiate divorces 75 to 80% time, if men were more on their hustle, that number should go down to 50%. It would never happen because men are starved for attention, affection, and physical connection.

And most importantly the packaging and initial interview tells you nothing about the long term, and even the long term tells you nothing about the long term.

Cats say that hoop earrings, tattoos, if she's a nurse, etc is some telltale signs of trouble ahead, but that's never the case.

You can be with a chick for years, invest in her, marriage, kids, house, and one thing gets in her ear and she goes left.

never gets old..

• Like imagine the chick has good job and then wants to pack up and be an artist or "Van Life". I can respect wanting change, but I've seen too many chicks blow up their lives chasing some dream.

Even the patriarchal Muslims that keep chicks covered up and stuck in homes got to deal with chicks trying to renegade.

somebody been peeping that cute lil spanish chick's youtibe vids.....

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

An app to look out for dudes with domestic abuse history doesn’t bother me. But women can be very spiteful and it’s just gonna turn into a “he’s an f boy because he didn’t commit to me” and false accusations can destroy your reputation.

That’s my concern. Men and women be like “if you’re not toxic or one of them f*** boys you have nothing to worry about” but in reality you’re dealing with something you can’t control.

I had a chick early last summer that flipped out on me when I said I was no longer interested. Only “dated” for like a month. She was trying her hardest to lock me down too saying I was emotionally unavailable. Even told her no hard feelings and she was like “no there’s hard feelings”

Used to be you just dubbed the situation and kept it pushing. If these women invested in their mental health, healing and introspection like they do these dumb ass “exposal” apps/Facebook pages maybe they might attract the right partners.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

It's been 3 months since my ex left me and i think something in me just broke. I'm just permanently sad regardless of what's happening at that moment and everything just feels gray. She's out lving her best life and I'm barely hanging on lol. fukk love man. Never again

I’m 2 months post breakup experiencing the same thing so I know what you going through. Spend this time taking care of yourself breh. Sit with your feelings and don’t run from it. Don’t drink. Don’t smoke. Don’t use new chicks to distract you. Just feel it. You’ll come out better on the other side. Healing isn’t linear. Some days you’ll be on your “forget that chick” mentality and some days you’ll be in your feelings.

And whatever you do DONT REACH OUT. They made their decision let them feel it. I’ve wanted to reach out everyday but I won’t.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I've deleted my dating apps. They are a waste of time. It's honestly very sad the lack of effort people put in these days. It's a race to see who can put in the least effort it seems. I've spent enough time on there to see the juice isn't worth the squeeze and I wont find what I am looking for there. I got tired of getting matches for it to go absolutely nowhere

I feel that. Last time I was on dating apps was early 2024. Expeditiously deleted that crap.

I’m strictly pull up game now. At least I know that I’m 100% physically attracted to an chick and let the rest fall where it fall.

 

[Water]

I’m 2 months post breakup experiencing the same thing so I know what you going through. Spend this time taking care of yourself breh. Sit with your feelings and don’t run from it. Don’t drink. Don’t smoke. Don’t use new chicks to distract you. Just feel it. You’ll come out better on the other side. Healing isn’t linear. Some days you’ll be on your “forget that chick” mentality and some days you’ll be in your feelings.

And whatever you do DONT REACH OUT. They made their decision let them feel it. I’ve wanted to reach out everyday but I won’t.

I keep thinking if I had just proposed earlier everything would be smooth right now. Idk what took me so long to be ready but damn i fukked up..that damn ring talks to me like the green goblin mask.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I keep thinking if I had just proposed earlier everything would be smooth right now. Idk what took me so long to be ready but damn i fukked up..that damn ring talks to me like the green goblin mask.

Lmfao relax nikka you just facing scarcity panic.

 

[cyndaquil]

I keep thinking if I had just proposed earlier everything would be smooth right now. Idk what took me so long to be ready but damn i fukked up..that damn ring talks to me like the green goblin mask.

Cmon man you weren't ready. You can't look back at the past with rose tinted glasses. Something about her and yourself wasnt ready to be married. Would you rather marry the wrong person and be posted up in one of these threads with #GMB in a few years?
There's pros and cons of it all too. Lean into the pros of being single. I guarantee when you get back into it and eventually when you're married you'll look back on this freedom you have right now with rose tinted glasses too. Every vacation you get to go where you want, every night after work you get to watch what you want, your free time you can talk to, fukk, hangout with whoever you want