Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

I already know the answer but do you fellas think a chick always has someone lined up when she drops them thangs?

Depends in age, some chicks will do a weightloss transformation and gauge social media attention and feel her chances are better in the streets too. If she already looks good she knows she has a laundry list of suitors already too, thats the curve ball modern social media added where instead of just cheating until the new dude commits she just jumps straigjt to the streets based on social media responses.

I know a breh from college thats married to a fat hoe and this chick stay posting bikini pics and city girl type captions and has this nikka nor her wedding anywhere on her page lol yet i see him in comments always simping (i say simping cause she doesnt even acknowledge the marriage)

 

[cyndaquil]

I already know the answer but do you fellas think a chick always has someone lined up when she drops them thangs?

Hypergamy 101 says yes. Or at least someone she is pining after instead. And sometimes what she wants more than you isn't even a person. It might be freedom, the freedom to experiment and try new people. That’s why you see so many ENM couples now because the woman wanna be in the streets but the man provides for them so they dont wanna break it off.

 

[WIA20XX]

I already know the answer but do you fellas think a chick always has someone lined up when she drops them thangs?

Almost always.
It's often a dude he's met, and usually one he's heard about.

A cat gotta be really horrible for a chick to bounce with no safety net.

 

[The ADD]

Man the game is so cold . I really had no idea fam. Women are terrifying how can a man get married?? Feelings change so quickly

I have to ask now. Once you got to the point of buying the ring, did she have any involvement in the process?

 

[Water]

I have to ask now. Once you got to the point of buying the ring, did she have any involvement in the process?

We shopped for rings together a year to the day before I went and got it made. I took notes and got the exact one made

 

[Ohene]

I've deleted my dating apps. They are a waste of time. It's honestly very sad the lack of effort people put in these days. It's a race to see who can put in the least effort it seems. I've spent enough time on there to see the juice isn't worth the squeeze and I wont find what I am looking for there. I got tired of getting matches for it to go absolutely nowhere

yup. shyt is pointless
its really just something to do when youre bored or on the toilet...swipe and look around at bytches who live in your city lol

 

[Ohene]

I keep thinking if I had just proposed earlier everything would be smooth right now. Idk what took me so long to be ready but damn i fukked up..that damn ring talks to me like the green goblin mask.

you need to find a way to sell that jawn i think

 

[MikelArteta]

I already know the answer but do you fellas think a chick always has someone lined up when she drops them thangs?

99 percent of the time Yes !!! maybe she won't date right away but there is always someone

 

[MikelArteta]

Almost always.
It's often a dude he's met, and usually one he's heard about.

A cat gotta be really horrible for a chick to bounce with no safety net.

Yup some new dude getting dem lol and listening to her ramble about her day etc

Guy at work, gym, church, through a DM

 

[Ohene]

I already know the answer but do you fellas think a chick always has someone lined up when she drops them thangs?

I think the way it works in this era is that a woman always has someone lined up even whilst in a relationship with you. The way social media and phone contacts work its just too easy to keep tabs on people and stay in touch. So whenever a woman is ready she can always find somebody to monkey branch onto.

So i dont necessarily think a woman has a replacement lined up, but the general attention shes getting from men in her orbit (work, gym, daily commute, neighborhood, old classmates, DMs, run clubs etc.) on a day-to-day is always going to contribute to whether or not she feels confident enough to move on from you.

Even when I aint in a relationship, often when a girl decides to stop messing with me I'll see her on Hinge less than 48 hours later lol. Did she have somebody lined up? No. If she had a specific dude in mind she wouldnt be on hinge. But she knows that it's nothing to look in her DMs or on unpause her hinge profile and be inundated with 100 options in a matter of days. That is what men are up against nowadays. There is no solution or defense for it either unless the girl youre dating doesnt use social media or dating apps altogether.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I think the way it works in this era is that a woman always has someone lined up even whilst in a relationship with you. The way social media and phone contacts work its just too easy to keep tabs on people and stay in touch. So whenever a woman is ready she can always find somebody to monkey branch onto.

So i dont necessarily think a woman has a replacement lined up, but the general attention shes getting from men in her orbit (work, gym, daily commute, neighborhood, old classmates, DMs, run clubs etc.) on a day-to-day is always going to contribute to whether or not she feels confident enough to move on from you.

Even when I aint in a relationship, often when a girl decides to stop messing with me I'll see her on Hinge less than 48 hours later lol. Did she have somebody lined up? No. If she had a specific dude in mind she wouldnt be on hinge. But she knows that it's nothing to look in her DMs or on unpause her hinge profile and be inundated with 100 options in a matter of days. That is what men are up against nowadays. There is no solution or defense for it either unless the girl youre dating doesnt use social media or dating apps altogether.

Yeah I don’t think a chick always has a replacement lined up either but like you said the ease at which they can “replace” you and to your point you never know who she’s keeping in touch with while you’re in a relationship with her.

Also like @cyndaquil said that freedom of potentially finding someone new that’s “better”.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

On that same note about having someone lined up I was reading something that said men are more likely to spin the block on an ex than women. That when women walk the chances of them coming back is low to zero

Maybe it’s because women naturally have an abundance mentality and don’t have to do much to get a new guy so they don’t feel like they lost anything by leaving a dude.

 

[cyndaquil]

On that same note about having someone lined up I was reading something that said men are more likely to spin the block on an ex than women. That when women walk the chances of them coming back is low to zero

Maybe it’s because women naturally have an abundance mentality and don’t have to do much to get a new guy so they don’t feel like they lost anything by leaving a dude.

Because men don't typically have something lined up after. We usually just wing it and go out to the club or bars or hop on the apps tryna fukk. The new found freedom is great but we just tuning out our own shyt cuz men aren't tapped into pur feelings like women. So we dont do the work. Then 6 months later like @Apollo Creed was saying dudes be tore down and desperate unable to be alone and would rather go back to their ex than be alone. shyt is sad.

Women on the other hand front load their feelings. Cry and be sad right after then be happy as fukk months later. Partly because women have better support systems than men typically. Women can deny applications while they resolve their feelings then start accepting when they feel better bad move on.

Men gotta go out and hunt for their partners so if you aint got your shyt all healed up from your previous shyt and you out here being needy and lacking confidence it's only gonna get worse. Men gotta do the work after a break up too

 

[Ohene]

On that same note about having someone lined up I was reading something that said men are more likely to spin the block on an ex than women. That when women walk the chances of them coming back is low to zero

Maybe it’s because women naturally have an abundance mentality and don’t have to do much to get a new guy so they don’t feel like they lost anything by leaving a dude.

its true. men go through the ringer wasting far more time and money when it comes to dating and get rejected more often so its only natural

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Because men don't typically have something lined up after. We usually just wing it and go out to the club or bars or hop on the apps tryna fukk. The new found freedom is great but we just tuning out our own shyt cuz men aren't tapped into pur feelings like women. So we dont do the work. Then 6 months later like @Apollo Creed was saying dudes be tore down and desperate unable to be alone and would rather go back to their ex than be alone. shyt is sad.

Women on the other hand front load their feelings. Cry and be sad right after then be happy as fukk months later. Partly because women have better support systems than men typically. Women can deny applications while they resolve their feelings then start accepting when they feel better bad move on.

Men gotta go out and hunt for their partners so if you aint got your shyt all healed up from your previous shyt and you out here being needy and lacking confidence it's only gonna get worse. Men gotta do the work after a break up too

its true. men go through the ringer wasting far more time and money when it comes to dating and get rejected more often so its only natural

I agree with both post. Which is why I REFUSE to reach out to my ex. My pride won’t let me. I make it known that I don’t want the breakup and if they insist i say “ok I respect your decision” and disappear.

Where a lot of men mess up is they spend days or weeks trying to get her back panicking. More women would probably come back if a dude just says “alright I respect it” and disappear from her life.

People underestimate walking away from someone that doesn’t value you. Radio silence is powerful.