Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Kurt off them percs]

Breh, when you realize that even if you did that the situation could still end up the same way is when you'll truly be liberated. We gotta stop tryna use logic to understand things that are caused by feelings

With all due respect. This entire thread is about using logic when it comes to women. Fact is both men and women often have cases of FOMO and it ruins marriages.

You will have a higher success rate if you find someone with experience.

 

[MikelArteta]

I agree with both post. Which is why I REFUSE to reach out to my ex. My pride won’t let me. I make it known that I don’t want the breakup and if they insist i say “ok I respect your decision” and disappear.

Where a lot of men mess up is they spend days or weeks trying to get her back panicking. More women would probably come back if a dude just says “alright I respect it” and disappear from her life.

People underestimate walking away from someone that doesn’t value you. Radio silence is powerful.

Yup like I said the only women who came back to me is when I didn't care there they ended it. I knew it was coming so was like meh

When I begged, was sad, wondering what I could do different etc.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Yup like I said the only women who came back to me is when I didn't care there they ended it. I knew it was coming so was like meh

When I begged, was sad, wondering what I could do different etc.

You can show you care they are ending it but it’s the way you do it. It’s an energy and vibe thing. Less is more.

Like with my ex she knew I was hurt, she could feel it but I never begged, cried, or pleaded. We had a conversation and I calmly emphasized that I don’t want the relationship to end and that I’d do anything (if there was a flaw on my end) to fix it. She stood on her decision. I then said “I respect your decision…see you around” and that was the absolute last she heard from me or seen me. No drama no big displays of emotion just a simple see ya around.

Even though she made the decision her last memory of me is me walking away with strength and resolve and so far STANDING on it. This only works if you were overall a good dude to her though

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

On a lighter note now that the apps are bushed what’s some of you fellas go to spots to meet women? I was going out to bars and approaching in the gym. The bars were

The gym is ok but the last two women I approached were married and I don’t wait for choosing signals if I see a chick I think is attractive I pull up

 

[The ADD]

On a lighter note now that the apps are bushed what’s some of you fellas go to spots to meet women? I was going out to bars and approaching in the gym. The bars were

The gym is ok but the last two women I approached were married and I don’t wait for choosing signals if I see a chick I think is attractive I pull up

No rings?

 

[gho3st]

Together 5 years. I went out to get the ring made in January.. she checked out atleast 10-12months before that. Looking back the signs are obvious. She wanted to get married 3 years in but this was my first long term gf (longest one before her was 6 months ) and I just wanted to be sure. All this was happening at the same time as me being burnt out at work (software engineering) and I just didn't have the capacity to give her what she needed. When I found a new role with better work life balance I saw things clearly but she was gone mentally already. Damn

If a woman want to be with you, she would. spea from experience. And how old is your girl?

i think she may have had another situation lined up as backup. And didnt want to lose it since you were slow moving

 

[gho3st]

The thing is women plot in advance they are already mourning the end while they are with you. You ask what's ok and a big smile everything is fine. Their friends know everything, their mom
You're the villian she's relieved to finally end it.

Most men are caught off guard but she said she loved me yesterday, we just had sex, we just went on a vacation bla blah. Where did I go wrong.

As I got older I read the signs . That's why the last few women who "dumped me" I was already checked out and knew it was coming. Those are also the women who tried to still msg me and ish about their lives till they saw my engagement photos

Dog i know this woman who i was fckin with then stopped bc i wanted to get back with my girl. She tried everything to fck sht up with my girl. Eventually she started dating this other nikka--a whole muslim dude found out she was texting/callin me, told her to stop and she still continued to do so. she got engaged and sent me a picture. I told her im happy for her n sht, then said i got good news too, my girl is pregnant. The energy shifted mad quick. She told me congrats. Then got off the phone. 10mns later im blocked everywhere

 

[Ohene]

On a lighter note now that the apps are bushed what’s some of you fellas go to spots to meet women? I was going out to bars and approaching in the gym. The bars were

The gym is ok but the last two women I approached were married and I don’t wait for choosing signals if I see a chick I think is attractive I pull up

I’m going to be honest with you. I used to meet women everywhere from the grocery store to the street to the gym etc.

But even after deleting hinge I’ve gotten to a point where i actually talk myself out of approaching women. I do it sometimes but usually find myself asking, “what’s the point?” Because it’s just going to fizzle out over some bs anyways.

 

[Ohene]

No rings?

Happens often
Might be a new trend

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

No rings?

Nope. One said she’s engaged and the other said she was married. Couple weeks ago went out with another chick from the gym but she said she didn’t feel a “spark” She got out of a 11 year relationship summer of 2023

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I’m going to be honest with you. I used to meet women everywhere from the grocery store to the street to the gym etc.

But even after deleting hinge I’ve gotten to a point where i actually talk myself out of approaching women. I do it sometimes but usually find myself asking, “what’s the point?” Because it’s just going to fizzle out over some bs anyways.

Yeah my sentiments as well which is why I asked. Lol. I’m enjoying the peace and alone time but I know eventually I’ll want something more. More often than not it always fizzles out sooner rather than later. I don’t ever remember struggling to keep a relationship going in the past. Things are different now. My last long term relationship 2+ years ended late 2021. So for going on 4 years I haven’t had anything last longer than a few months with my last relationship being the longest (8 months). And in 70% of the situations the chick made the decision to end it. It is what it is.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Happens often
Might be a new trend

What do you mean breh?

 

[Ohene]

What do you mean breh?

That women are or are last day they’re married without having a ring

Some are lying but some just don’t wear it

 

[John Reena]

Don’t buy into that garbage from women on dating apps who be like “Don’t say “Hi” or “Wyd” be creative when addressing me!!!”! I do it all the time n still get the number and smash. “Say something different so you’ll stand out!!” Man fuggggg that! Chicks not being different n tryna stand out….they got they titties, ass out and wearing them stupid baby hairs n weave like every other chick.

 

[John Reena]

On a lighter note now that the apps are bushed what’s some of you fellas go to spots to meet women? I was going out to bars and approaching in the gym. The bars were

The gym is ok but the last two women I approached were married and I don’t wait for choosing signals if I see a chick I think is attractive I pull up

nikkaz don’t believe me, but church is the PERFECT place to meet women. 98% of the time you don’t even have to approach…..they’ll approach you or they mom/aunt/granny gonna drag them to you to make an introduction.