Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

my homie uses that

this year some of the coolest chicks i met randomly in person are bisexual and polyamourous

i think its because they understand what its like to date women; that sympathy turns them into cooler chicks. plus theres no strings attached

.when dudes give up on "tradition" and take people as they are dating becomes easy, the issue is brehs who want family lol that shyt will make you even more jaded

 

[Bigblackted4]

.when dudes give up on "tradition" and take people as they are dating becomes easy, the issue is brehs who want family lol that shyt will make you even more jaded

Nah I want a kid and wife I just don’t want the monogamy and won’t force her into it either

 

[Redwood]

The "match energy" has always seemed to me a little bit p*ssy, to put it in a street way, in the same way a lot of our new wage/wellness culture language has become.

We all get trapped in the quicksand of texting and bad responses -worse responses cycle. But, I do my thing, not theirs. Two good faith invites, and that's it, but everyone gets the good faith invite, because that's me. Why would I embody or emulate traits I don't respect?

It is, and is a VERY big reason why everyone is trapped in these snafus.

 

[jay83]

ill never understand how women can spend time with a dude they have no interest in just for a free meal or experience

i have two women tryna take me out for my birthday - one for drinks and one for dinner - and i dont even care for all that, even though i'm feeling them. they can just come over and kick it or i might even just sspend the night alone. kinda shows you how differently men and women are wired

however, i think the key distinction is that if a woman can take herself out to nice restaurants and shyt she will be wired more similarly to me in that her time is more valuable. it really only be the broke women that care about all that wining/dining shyt. i say all that to say, if a girl cares about how much you spend on her, its often because she is broke and has no understanding of money. As a result, a dude taking her out is the only way she can have nice dinners or experiences.

last chick i took out for her birthday, took her out for a nice dinner, drinks and even sent her flowers. spent about $300 and she had the nerve to say i seemed frugal weeks later. meanwhile i got chicks tryna take me out and I am telling them i'm straight.

Broke pretty chicks have very little appreciation for what you do for them.

 

[cyndaquil]

2 hours drive no smash is straight ether

 

[etrofllenrod504]

When I say check her I just mean communicating your boundaries. Some women don't know for real cuz the prior dudes they were with would simp and chase em or didn't value their time. You let her know what it is and if she violate then you keep it moving.

I've had women who shape up cuz I tell em I don't play games so if you tired or cant talk just let me know rather than tryna hide and wait til later cuz she scared of the response or she think imma hang around no matter what she does.

Like you said tho you can play the games and match her energy if you want to smash but if we out here with options why even do that? It's already hard enough to basically code switch between women and remember all the little shyt about them without mixing them up now we wanna add on energy matching too? Sounds like unnecessary headache to me

Lmao so true. That why I adds notes about them in they contact info in my phone lol.

 

[cyndaquil]

Lmao so true. That why I adds notes about them in they contact info in my phone lol.

Oh that's smart as fukk

 

[etrofllenrod504]

Oh that's smart as fukk

It works…..randomly mention some shyt she brought up to me. She like you remember …….in my mind I’m like word to Batman prep time essential to winning

 

[cyndaquil]

What's up with the proliferation in chicks who want you to raw dog them after just meeting?

 

[skyrunner1]

Thought this was funny from the Jermaine Dupri thread

In 2022, Dupri appeared in Jackson’s self-titled documentary and spoke candidly about their relationship and breakup. Although she wanted to start a family with the legendary producer, Jackson changed her mind when she heard that he was allegedly cheating on her. Dupri admitted that he was “reckless.”

"Girls wanted to talk to me more because I was dating her, which was really weird,” he said in the documentary. And I was a man."

Even a breh like that didnt understand that dynamic, something simple now in this day n age

Jermaine Dupri Wonders Why No One Asks If Janet Jackson F...

Jermaine Dupri revealed in a Hot 97 interview that he won...

www.complex.com

 

[WIA20XX]

Thought this was funny from the Jermaine Dupri thread




Even a breh like that didnt understand that dynamic, something simple now in this day n age

Jermaine Dupri Wonders Why No One Asks If Janet Jackson F...

Jermaine Dupri revealed in a Hot 97 interview that he won...

www.complex.com

The number one thing you can do to get a bad beach is to always be surrounded by bad beaches.

So the question is always, how do you get that first one?

Takes money to make money, but I ain't got money....

I can answer both for the low low price of $49.99/month.....(C) Your friendly neighborhood internet scammer

 

[Redwood]

What's up with the proliferation in chicks who want you to raw dog them after just meeting?

Lucky you breh

 

[cyndaquil]

Be non chalant
Always keep a bullpen
Dump a hot girl once in your life to build immunity
....
Key logger
Never feel sorry for them tough luck

Breh imma need to emphasize this last one.
The amount of sob stories some of these chicks be dumping on you almost immediately is insane. Tryna make you feel bad for them to stick around

 

[phcitywarrior]

Get the right foundation (fitness, finances, outside work pursuits, decent social circle) and you’ll feast.

But you need to do the initial work and get that right foundation. Even if it means going monk for 3-6 months.

Become a better/best version of yourself and they way you interact with women will be night and day.

Just lock in and build yourself up first. I think dudes need a reminder about first things first.

 

[Prynce]

lol I hate I dwell on a broad when ish don’t go my way. I lost and I accept that and kept it moving. But I hate that there is period of a week or 2 when I think about them.