Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[WIA20XX]

One of the unspoken but sacred rules of the game that must be broken - is the idea that a pretty chick is allowed more leeway.

You often hear it expressed in the negative.

"She is not pretty enough to be that demanding."

Or

"She fine enough that I've got to come correct.".

Or

Gotta use my A Game.

No sir.

How bad a dude thinks she looks should have NO bearing on how he treats her.

None of them are that pretty enough to be demanding.

The tendency for men to use kid gloves with attractive women is something that they exploit, and also a general behavior of men that individual men should exploit.

Now I'm not saying you need to dog hotter than average females, but I'm saying that dogging these chicks is still on the damn menu.

 

[Apollo Creed]

One of the unspoken but sacred rules of the game that must be broken - is the idea that a pretty chick is allowed more leeway.

You often hear it expressed in the negative.

"She is not pretty enough to be that demanding."

Or

"She fine enough that I've got to come correct.".

Or

Gotta use my A Game.

No sir.

How bad a dude thinks she looks should have NO bearing on how he treats her.

None of them are that pretty enough to be demanding.

The tendency for men to use kid gloves with attractive women is something that they exploit, and also a general behavior of men that individual men should exploit.

Now I'm not saying you need to dog hotter than average females, but I'm saying that dogging these chicks is still on the damn menu.

Dudes need to adopt the ick mentality lol

With women the ick is comical cause they arent investimg shyt but dudes tend to waste valuable time and money thus better for them to abort mission rather than sittimg around trying to win someone over.

Most people are weird as fukk in this day and age yet dudes put on rose colored glasses cause “she got ass doe”

 

[Deathstroke]

One thing I’ll never understand is how people don’t value honesty, morals, efforts and genuine care anymore. Correct me if i’m wrong but I feel like it’s mad difficult to find a person who has good values these days or someone that truly search for that. Because even if you do, then they get used to it, and start having syndromes that the grass might be greener somewhere else. They basically think “ shyt this man gives me a whole lot , I can probably get that AND MORE somewhere else” .

Like sometimes I sit and think of how it doesn’t make sense that I have to go through getting to know that many chicks, hundreds of dates, talking stages, relationship to find one person that really lives what she preaches. Do people actually enjoy this ? Now whenever I hear a girl talk about numerous failed relationships and she brings up stupid shyt like “ I lost feelings” , or “we just parted ways you know life”, or bring up right away being cheated on I’m out.

I remember I had one girl who ended things because she couldn’t do long distance(we were in the same country). The year after I see she got into a long distance with a guy that lived all the way in France and guess what ??? Months later she ended things with him the same way too. Are people insane ? Grown woman too Definitely gotta be careful who you give your time too brehs. Stay alert and don’t believe words. Look at how they move in their life and after 3 months in.

 

[Prynce]

I’m going back to not fukking with females at all

The amount of pained I’ve caused myself in the last 2 months has reminded me, why it’s fukk a broad

 

[The ADD]

One thing I’ll never understand is how people don’t value honesty, morals, efforts and genuine care anymore. Correct me if i’m wrong but I feel like it’s mad difficult to find a person who has good values these days or someone that truly search for that. Because even if you do, then they get used to it, and start having syndromes that the grass might be greener somewhere else. They basically think “ shyt this man gives me a whole lot , I can probably get that AND MORE somewhere else” .

Like sometimes I sit and think of how it doesn’t make sense that I have to go through getting to know that many chicks, hundreds of dates, talking stages, relationship to find one person that really lives what she preaches. Do people actually enjoy this ? Now whenever I hear a girl talk about numerous failed relationships and she brings up stupid shyt like “ I lost feelings” , or “we just parted ways you know life”, or bring up right away being cheated on I’m out.

I remember I had one girl who ended things because she couldn’t do long distance(we were in the same country). The year after I see she got into a long distance with a guy that lived all the way in France and guess what ??? Months later she ended things with him the same way too. Are people insane ? Grown woman too Definitely gotta be careful who you give your time too brehs. Stay alert and don’t believe words. Look at how they move in their life and after 3 months in.

I don’t think this is much different from recent memory. The world is just more connected, you have access to more people and what they do post involvement with you.

Finding someone you really connect with has been difficult for a long time. I’m not including people unserious about dating in general.

 

[MicIsGod]

I just want to say I have severely underestimated how delusional and egotistical some women are. This whole video is about manifesting your “special person” to break no contact. She saying you’re thinking about him all the time because he’s thinking about you, and believing this will make him reach out to you. Everything but actually…reaching out and apologizing.

Please read the comments. They’re literally obsessing over dudes they ran off.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’m going back to not fukking with females at all

The amount of pained I’ve caused myself in the last 2 months has reminded me, why it’s fukk a broad

maybe go to therapy because you always just come in with these random post so things clearly aint working out and you need to break this cycle.

 

[Ohene]

One of the unspoken but sacred rules of the game that must be broken - is the idea that a pretty chick is allowed more leeway.

You often hear it expressed in the negative.

"She is not pretty enough to be that demanding."

Or

"She fine enough that I've got to come correct.".

Or

Gotta use my A Game.

No sir.

How bad a dude thinks she looks should have NO bearing on how he treats her.

None of them are that pretty enough to be demanding.

The tendency for men to use kid gloves with attractive women is something that they exploit, and also a general behavior of men that individual men should exploit.

Now I'm not saying you need to dog hotter than average females, but I'm saying that dogging these chicks is still on the damn menu.

Just a person by how they treat their inferiors not their equals (or somebody they have nothing to gain from)

Same logic

 

[DA_LURKA]

Look at how they move in their life and after 3 months in.

Earlier this week I came to the conclusion that I'm putting chicks onna 90 day probation period..

 

[Ahadi]

One thing I’ll never understand is how people don’t value honesty, morals, efforts and genuine care anymore. Correct me if i’m wrong but I feel like it’s mad difficult to find a person who has good values these days or someone that truly search for that. Because even if you do, then they get used to it, and start having syndromes that the grass might be greener somewhere else. They basically think “ shyt this man gives me a whole lot , I can probably get that AND MORE somewhere else” .

Like sometimes I sit and think of how it doesn’t make sense that I have to go through getting to know that many chicks, hundreds of dates, talking stages, relationship to find one person that really lives what she preaches. Do people actually enjoy this ? Now whenever I hear a girl talk about numerous failed relationships and she brings up stupid shyt like “ I lost feelings” , or “we just parted ways you know life”, or bring up right away being cheated on I’m out.

I remember I had one girl who ended things because she couldn’t do long distance(we were in the same country). The year after I see she got into a long distance with a guy that lived all the way in France and guess what ??? Months later she ended things with him the same way too. Are people insane ? Grown woman too Definitely gotta be careful who you give your time too brehs. Stay alert and don’t believe words. Look at how they move in their life and after 3 months in.

Felt this heavy. I had a moment like that recently at a Freddie Gibbs concert. Met this girl there. We lightly chop it up, she couldnt see downstairs, my guy working security upstairs, hooked me up with seats upstairs, went back to grab her and offer her a better seats / better view. She bought a round of drinks, we had cool banter, real chill. she then said she wasnt feeling well, so helped her out when she said she felt sick, copped water, waited during her bathroom break, stayed chilled for a good 5-10 mins. She dipped without a thank you or even a basic heads-up. No drama, just zero reciprocity.

It wasn’t even about rejection - it was the quiet disrespect. The ‘take without give’ energy. People are so used to surface-level care or transactional attention that when you move with actual integrity, they either get suspicious or just... take it for granted. Like it said its largely with BW.

Lesson learned: Don’t confuse being around someone for them being with you. Match energy. Protect your time. Keep your heart open, but your standards higher.

 

[cyndaquil]

One thing I’ll never understand is how people don’t value honesty, morals, efforts and genuine care anymore. Correct me if i’m wrong but I feel like it’s mad difficult to find a person who has good values these days or someone that truly search for that. Because even if you do, then they get used to it, and start having syndromes that the grass might be greener somewhere else. They basically think “ shyt this man gives me a whole lot , I can probably get that AND MORE somewhere else” .

Like sometimes I sit and think of how it doesn’t make sense that I have to go through getting to know that many chicks, hundreds of dates, talking stages, relationship to find one person that really lives what she preaches. Do people actually enjoy this ? Now whenever I hear a girl talk about numerous failed relationships and she brings up stupid shyt like “ I lost feelings” , or “we just parted ways you know life”, or bring up right away being cheated on I’m out.

I remember I had one girl who ended things because she couldn’t do long distance(we were in the same country). The year after I see she got into a long distance with a guy that lived all the way in France and guess what ??? Months later she ended things with him the same way too. Are people insane ? Grown woman too Definitely gotta be careful who you give your time too brehs. Stay alert and don’t believe words. Look at how they move in their life and after 3 months in.

Look breh a lot of the shyt you deal with will come from the last man that she was with. A possible reason the dude in France could have a long distance relationship with her and not you is because it's something you wanted but she didn't at the time. Once she saw and thought about how maybe making a long distance relationship work wouldn't be so bad and how she might have missed out because of it she adjusted her boundaries. You loosened her up for the next man. That's the fukked up part a lot of this shyt is timing. Ain't nothing you can do about it but charge it to the game. Women change their minds all the time and they aren't necessarily consistent. It is what it is

 

[cyndaquil]

Felt this heavy. I had a moment like that recently at a Freddie Gibbs concert. Met this girl there. We lightly chop it up, she couldnt see downstairs, my guy working security upstairs, hooked me up with seats upstairs, went back to grab her and offer her a better seats / better view. She bought a round of drinks, we had cool banter, real chill. she then said she wasnt feeling well, so helped her out when she said she felt sick, copped water, waited during her bathroom break, stayed chilled for a good 5-10 mins. She dipped without a thank you or even a basic heads-up. No drama, just zero reciprocity.

It wasn’t even about rejection - it was the quiet disrespect. The ‘take without give’ energy. People are so used to surface-level care or transactional attention that when you move with actual integrity, they either get suspicious or just... take it for granted. Like it said its largely with BW.

Lesson learned: Don’t confuse being around someone for them being with you. Match energy. Protect your time. Keep your heart open, but your standards higher.

I'm a bit confused by your story. So she just got up and left without saying anything? Or she went to the bathroom cuz she was sick and never came back?

 

[cyndaquil]

I’m going back to not fukking with females at all

The amount of pained I’ve caused myself in the last 2 months has reminded me, why it’s fukk a broad

what are you going back to fukking with?

 

[cyndaquil]

I just want to say I have severely underestimated how delusional and egotistical some women are. This whole video is about manifesting your “special person” to break no contact. She saying you’re thinking about him all the time because he’s thinking about you, and believing this will make him reach out to you. Everything but actually…reaching out and apologizing.

Please read the comments. They’re literally obsessing over dudes they ran off.

Mentally ill women. This is why the dudes ran off...

 

[Ahadi]

I'm a bit confused by your story. So she just got up and left without saying anything? Or she went to the bathroom cuz she was sick and never came back?

Yeah, she said she felt sick, went to the bathroom, and just never came back. No message, no heads-up, no thanks. I gave her the benefit of the doubt in the moment, but after a while it was clear - she just dipped. I saw her outside, and was like "hey, you missed ensalada" and she was like "no i didnt, i saw you" and at that point i was checked out.

Wasn’t about catching feelings or being pressed - it was the lack of basic courtesy that stood out. I wasn’t owed anything beyond that, but it told me everything I needed to know.