Definitely gotta be careful who you give your time too brehs. Stay alert and don’t believe words. Look at how they move in their life and after 3 months in.I don’t think this is much different from recent memory. The world is just more connected, you have access to more people and what they do post involvement with you.One thing I’ll never understand is how people don’t value honesty, morals, efforts and genuine care anymore. Correct me if i’m wrong but I feel like it’s mad difficult to find a person who has good values these days or someone that truly search for that. Because even if you do, then they get used to it, and start having syndromes that the grass might be greener somewhere else. They basically think “ shyt this man gives me a whole lot , I can probably get that AND MORE somewhere else” .
Like sometimes I sit and think of how it doesn’t make sense that I have to go through getting to know that many chicks, hundreds of dates, talking stages, relationship to find one person that really lives what she preaches. Do people actually enjoy this ? Now whenever I hear a girl talk about numerous failed relationships and she brings up stupid shyt like “ I lost feelings” , or “we just parted ways you know life”, or bring up right away being cheated on I’m out.
I remember I had one girl who ended things because she couldn’t do long distance(we were in the same country). The year after I see she got into a long distance with a guy that lived all the way in France and guess what ??? Months later she ended things with him the same way too. Are people insane ? Grown woman too
I’m going back to not fukking with females at all
The amount of pained I’ve caused myself in the last 2 months has reminded me, why it’s fukk a broad
Earlier this week I came to the conclusion that I'm putting chicks onna 90 day probation period..
One thing I’ll never understand is how people don’t value honesty, morals, efforts and genuine care anymore. Correct me if i’m wrong but I feel like it’s mad difficult to find a person who has good values these days or someone that truly search for that. Because even if you do, then they get used to it, and start having syndromes that the grass might be greener somewhere else. They basically think “ shyt this man gives me a whole lot , I can probably get that AND MORE somewhere else” .
Like sometimes I sit and think of how it doesn’t make sense that I have to go through getting to know that many chicks, hundreds of dates, talking stages, relationship to find one person that really lives what she preaches. Do people actually enjoy this ? Now whenever I hear a girl talk about numerous failed relationships and she brings up stupid shyt like “ I lost feelings” , or “we just parted ways you know life”, or bring up right away being cheated on I’m out.
I remember I had one girl who ended things because she couldn’t do long distance(we were in the same country). The year after I see she got into a long distance with a guy that lived all the way in France and guess what ??? Months later she ended things with him the same way too. Are people insane ? Grown woman too
Look breh a lot of the shyt you deal with will come from the last man that she was with. A possible reason the dude in France could have a long distance relationship with her and not you is because it's something you wanted but she didn't at the time. Once she saw and thought about how maybe making a long distance relationship work wouldn't be so bad and how she might have missed out because of it she adjusted her boundaries. You loosened her up for the next man. That's the fukked up part a lot of this shyt is timing. Ain't nothing you can do about it but charge it to the game. Women change their minds all the time and they aren't necessarily consistent. It is what it isOne thing I’ll never understand is how people don’t value honesty, morals, efforts and genuine care anymore. Correct me if i’m wrong but I feel like it’s mad difficult to find a person who has good values these days or someone that truly search for that. Because even if you do, then they get used to it, and start having syndromes that the grass might be greener somewhere else. They basically think “ shyt this man gives me a whole lot , I can probably get that AND MORE somewhere else” .
Like sometimes I sit and think of how it doesn’t make sense that I have to go through getting to know that many chicks, hundreds of dates, talking stages, relationship to find one person that really lives what she preaches. Do people actually enjoy this ? Now whenever I hear a girl talk about numerous failed relationships and she brings up stupid shyt like “ I lost feelings” , or “we just parted ways you know life”, or bring up right away being cheated on I’m out.
I remember I had one girl who ended things because she couldn’t do long distance(we were in the same country). The year after I see she got into a long distance with a guy that lived all the way in France and guess what ??? Months later she ended things with him the same way too. Are people insane ? Grown woman too
I'm a bit confused by your story. So she just got up and left without saying anything? Or she went to the bathroom cuz she was sick and never came back?Felt this heavy. I had a moment like that recently at a Freddie Gibbs concert. Met this girl there. We lightly chop it up, she couldnt see downstairs, my guy working security upstairs, hooked me up with seats upstairs, went back to grab her and offer her a better seats / better view. She bought a round of drinks, we had cool banter, real chill. she then said she wasnt feeling well, so helped her out when she said she felt sick, copped water, waited during her bathroom break, stayed chilled for a good 5-10 mins. She dipped without a thank you or even a basic heads-up. No drama, just zero reciprocity.
It wasn’t even about rejection - it was the quiet disrespect. The ‘take without give’ energy. People are so used to surface-level care or transactional attention that when you move with actual integrity, they either get suspicious or just... take it for granted. Like it said its largely with BW.
Lesson learned: Don’t confuse being around someone for them being with you. Match energy. Protect your time. Keep your heart open, but your standards higher.
I’m going back to not fukking with females at all
The amount of pained I’ve caused myself in the last 2 months has reminded me, why it’s fukk a broad
what are you going back to fukking with?
I just want to say I have severely underestimated how delusional and egotistical some women are. This whole video is about manifesting your “special person” to break no contact. She saying you’re thinking about him all the time because he’s thinking about you, and believing this will make him reach out to you. Everything but actually…reaching out and apologizing.
Please read the comments. They’re literally obsessing over dudes they ran off.
