Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Leave him alone then. If you weren’t trying to kiss him back, you don’t like him. But you’ll entertain another date because you’re desperate and don’t have any options at your age.
“No chemistry, he’s nice, kind, not exactly my type”
Your type don’t want you.
VertigoKnight
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Lol the type of chick I would never message back. As she'll just leave you on read. And have you double messaging her only to hit you with the "I think your nice but..." after 4 days of silence.
If a chick wants you she'll be in touch anything else is a waste of your time.
Every woman I've had good times with, made sure she got in touch after the date. I'll also say we kissed as a base standard, a lot of time we smashed.
No kiss after a first date for me = no physical attraction from her most of the time.
My hit rate on first date kisses was high so was first date smashing. But I always do the touch test. Once you've broken that barrier, that's when you will see if a woman is open to it.
If a chick wants you she'll be in touch anything else is a waste of your time.
Every woman I've had good times with, made sure she got in touch after the date. I'll also say we kissed as a base standard, a lot of time we smashed.
No kiss after a first date for me = no physical attraction from her most of the time.
My hit rate on first date kisses was high so was first date smashing. But I always do the touch test. Once you've broken that barrier, that's when you will see if a woman is open to it.
It's funny how dudes that don't know each other, never broke bread in real life - all come to the very same conclusions and practices. Cause this is exactly what I do, and I know it's exactly what other people do - and nobody learned this online or in a book someplace.
Exactly. You want to initiate and break the touch barrier as quickly as possible so you understand where you are in that dynamic with her. That way you’re saving time and saving money.
Nothing was going to change from that initial interaction. Even if he did set up the reservation correctly for the bowling alley, she still wasn’t attracted so there was no saving that date.
See if it was a King68, she would’ve said “lol he was probably busy! That’s why he didn’t set up the reservation, but it was still a good date
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Exactly. You want to initiate and break the touch barrier as quickly as possible so you understand where you are in that dynamic with her. That way you’re saving time and saving money.
Nothing was going to change from that initial interaction. Even if he did set up the reservation correctly for the bowling alley, she still wasn’t attracted so there was no saving that date.
See if it was a King68, she would’ve said “lol he was probably busy! That’s why he didn’t set up the reservation, but it was still a good date
Lemme add something else to the mix.
Sometimes putting your paws on a broad, turns from her from neutral/not really into it, to POSITIVE.
All the time? No.
Do some chicks freak the hell out, if a cat inadvertently brushes up on them - yup, all the time
But.....sometimes
She didn't expect your hands to be warm.
Didn't expect your mitts to be soft and moisturized.
And a big one, she didn't expect you to have the physical strength that you have.
The fact that ol girl wasn't feeling him from jump, and then he went for the kiss and still wasn't feeling it, but she's gonna see him again - she's showing positive signs that don't make any intellectual sense - but it's not the PhD brain that's driving her behavior. We want to think her big brain is in charge, she wants to think that - but her ACTIONS betray her words.
Just like a broad you wouldn't piss on to save her from burning to death in the real world, gets kinda ugly sexy when you work with em and see them all the time.
People's minds are not fixed. Their ideas aren't fixed. Their emotions aren't fixed.
Not only do they adapt to things of their own accord, but they can also be MOLDED by others, Changed by new situations. Things can feel different, and they move different.
VertigoKnight
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The scary thing is the number of guys who don't know that. I'd have friends and acquaintances asking me how I was doing so well at dating.
They would rarely get dates, but when they did, they'd go out with a chick and get rejected; they never try and kiss a chick. They never attempt to break the touch barrier. They try and be a perfect gentleman, as that's what we've been taught, but sometimes a man has to be clear about what he wants. All this holding back comes across as indecisive to a lot of women.
The number of women who told me it turned them on that I made a reservation for drinks and sent them the details of where we're meeting and what time.
Now that doesn't mean strong-arming a chick. I just let a woman know I'm interested in her mentally and physically. The more I dated, the more I picked up on energy right away.
I could always tell when a date was going to go badly. As a chick's energy in person is all messed up.
I used to do the dinner invite, but learned, why do I want to take the risk of sitting down for a meal with a woman I may find absolutely boring or who is looking to get fed.
It's why I shifted to meeting for drinks. I can bail if the date goes downhill. A chick who insists on dinner as a first date can go kick rocks. I tell my guy friends never to fall for that shyt. If a chick is interested, a coffee date will work, I mean, we're supposed to be seeing if we vibe. We don't need dinner for that.
Dinner is only for women I've had sex with. As at least I know I enjoy their company.
cyndaquil
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cyndaquil
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This is facts. I be in the gym so sometimes I honestly forget how big I am compared to the average man. Once I get the arm around my date or she start feeling on the arms it's game over. Dudes underestimate the natural desire women have to feel safe and warm in a man's arms