Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Agreed overall, Im more just looking at the overall context.. the entitlement, I deserve this, I manifest this, etc.. On tiktok which would imply to me perpetually online or grew up with it, there is something overall going on when a generally attractive women based on looks is talking in a way that makes it seem people wont even look at her.
I could be totally putting that on her, but Im around successful women all the time (older and younger), there is definitely a change in the generations as a whole really. Something is up in the water, its not making sense like this.. All these gender war type ideas going mainstream via mass consumption of social media from content creators entirely motivated by dollars per video to repeat the same thing over and over with evergreen examples really seem to be reaching a breaking point. I could be 100% off base and open to that also
I'm working on a theory or an idea that social media by design, consumes itself. Anything that you put on social media ends up like gnawing itself into nothing. I don't really have the technical terms. But it's something like that. Or like nullifies it.
-And on this point of relationships/sex/dating, you start venting about breakup, and you end up in this place where you don't want to date anyone, and you are more consumed by just the act of posting and scrolling and ranting on social media itself.
Another example:
-You start off in one form of activism or another, with good intentions, Israel, Palestine, BLM/brutal police killing whatever it is, doesn't matter, for a good reason, and just end up scrolling obsessively and saying insane things on social media all day.
so apply that theory in some part to 22-32 year olds.
shyt has devolved into the same cohort of nikkas bytching about random women. people would put up advise on actual women they dealt with. spinning plates. talk on their own successful/bad dates ideas/experiences. convo pieces on apps. actual field/relationship reports. i've see how these movements have development into alt-right pipelines and im super careful not to consume this slop from tiktok/insta/youtube but some brehs love it & i called it
@VertigoKnight come back and save this thread. we're in an era of MID
Financial Celibacy
the chick in video aint saying shyt bout women paying lol just that ok nikkas I aint paying shyt but here is a Groupon
Friends First on Hinge = trick off on dates, stay woke
Absolutely not
Anything but them pulling out their wallet.
if a women doesn't invest any money she better be one of many chicks you fukking and you give zero emotional labor to lol.
What's missing from a lot of these discussions is that actual "alpha" stuff.
It's rare that I ever see it - on here or elsewhere.
Alpha means leader of the group.
But most of the RP stuff is - "these chicks ain't followers, so mgtow, pump and dump, enjoy the decline, tats means she's for the streets, you share that broad, etc"
Before this stuff mutated into what it is now, there were actual insights on human psychology. Now? That stuff won't fit into a tweet or a tiktok video, much less an audience that can comprehend it.
The argument now is more so this shyt isn't worth taking serious. Alpha and all these categories imo is nerd shyt and dudes living life dont really need to adopt this stuff. The only thing that matters is dudes comparing notes on the current tactics being used to get over on men and go from there, because as a man either you have it or you dont and at best you become the best version of yourself find an actual life and then converse with people in proximity of you living life.
Lotta dudes have no life, pick up internet nerd shyt or cornball books and "hit the field" in environments they dont even want to be with to awkwardly hunt bird brains then get pissed at the results.