Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

I got you

True. But if she was interested, a bridge would’ve been there. Atleast a “I’m not comfortable, but you wana grab a drink real quick?” Or “how bout coffee tomorrow?”

She just gave up after I said “I feel you, maybe next time”

I’m not gona overcorrect the behavior. The hinge point was established, she gotta meet me half way.

We expect too much out of women due to all the equality BS they ramble about. It's on us to establish the initial dominance for first link so we have to be strategic in the "offer". The energy check leading up to that is slow responses (meaning you are low priority) or the rejection of a public location as if it is beneath her. As long as we are being fair in that we aint saying travel 4 hours away or some shyt, the most respectful thing she can do if something doesn't work is. "ah this day/hour doesn't work but I can make it at [insert new day/time]" but her suggesting places aren't realistic unless you put the ball in her court on some via convo you all see you both like Pho and you ask her to "put me on to your fav Pho place" and she lists the place and then you still establish dominance by saying "cool lets go there on [date/time] if that works for you".

Women can be delusional but there is a thing about "applying pressure" that is legit (this is when I use the term dominance).

It's like in a job interview a sign of confidence is talking like you have the job already

 

[Ahadi]

We expect too much out of women due to all the equality BS they ramble about. It's on us to establish the initial dominance for first link so we have to be strategic in the "offer". The energy check leading up to that is slow responses (meaning you are low priority) or the rejection of a public location as if it is beneath her. As long as we are being fair in that we aint saying travel 4 hours away or some shyt, the most respectful thing she can do if something doesn't work is. "ah this day/hour doesn't work but I can make it at [insert new day/time]" but her suggesting places aren't realistic unless you put the ball in her court on some via convo you all see you both like Pho and you ask her to "put me on to your fav Pho place" and she lists the place and then you still establish dominance by saying "cool lets go there on [date/time] if that works for you".

Women can be delusional but there is a thing about "applying pressure" that is legit (this is when I use the term dominance).

It's like in a job interview a sign of confidence is talking like you have the job already

I agree. But if there energy is there sometimes you dont even need to put the ball in her court.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Either shorty was playin' me or I was playin' myself.
Next.

 

[John Reena]

I had been off the dating apps for years…….

Recently came back….I see the new trend is these “poly” couples looking for a “third” to link up wit em. Ya notice with all them “poly” couples, the chick husband/boyfriend look like a fruit pop?



Another thing I noticed in dating apps is all of em are now owned by the same company n want you to pay to see ya likes…..are these ppl crazy?!

I’m not paying for that

 

[Apollo Creed]

I had been off the dating apps for years…….

Recently came back….I see the new trend is these “poly” couples looking for a “third” to link up wit em. Ya notice with all them “poly” couples, the chick husband/boyfriend look like a fruit pop?



Another thing I noticed in dating apps is all of em are now owned by the same company n want you to pay to see ya likes…..are these ppl crazy?!

I’m not paying for that

Because only a man into men would do that

 

[Givethanks]

I officially hit unc status, I'm seeing comments on IG models photos left by my boys.

It's harmless fun, but nonetheless funny AF especially when you see what type of content he repost lol

 

[010101]

<<<<<thee square with the sharpest edges>>>>>*

 

[re'up]

Sometimes I just shake my head at the feeling of getting older, I listened to a 35 year old woman the other night go on a long rant about how the seasons of weather, the 4 seasons, were an opportunity to take and remove from life what "doesn't serve you". I could never even comprehend to have such a narrow view of the world, or such grandiose sense of self, that something like the seasons was really an opportunity to optimize your life. This was in a group setting. Then someone started telling me about the Titanic conspiracy theory, and I was like I have to leave.

This is someone who I have gone out with, made out with once or twice, it was kind of hot, and who is by all definitions extremely beautiful. Black/Hawaian with a crazy toned body. She has a college degree. She's not stupid. She just talks so much about energy and aura, and all that kind of shyt, that the sexuality for me is difficult to get to. It's all about protecting your peace, and conserving your energy, and a lot of nonsense words. But, you know what I rarely hear from those types is anything about pleasure.

It's almost like the idea of freedom and self expression became less about pleasure, as it was in the early 2000's, then about becoming the perfect and optimal version of yourself.

 

[WIA20XX]

She just talks so much about energy and aura, and all that kind of shyt, that the sexuality for me is difficult to get to. It's all about protecting your peace, and conserving your energy, and a lot of nonsense words. But, you know what I rarely hear from those types is anything about pleasure.

Do you ever push back, or test her boundaries here?

Cause I can see how to turn into a smash, but I can't see how you turn someone like this into something worthwhile.

 

[re'up]

Do you ever push back, or test her boundaries here?

Cause I can see how to turn into a smash, but I can't see how you turn someone like this into something worthwhile.

This is more me just speaking philosophically, or sociologically. She's never turned me down, we've never even taken it that far. I'm interested physically, and she's very cool to me. Cooked for me a few times, always offers. She's in an extended friend group, so I see her casually, in person, without any texting. We have some good conversations, but a lot of these types don't even have the foundation for any real debate. They just look at Tik Tok videos. They aren't going to like compare intellectual theories.

I'm not saying she's not sexual at all, but it never comes across to me. She's too into herself. You know how some women all they have to do put their hand on yours? Or just look at you a certain way, and you kinda know? It's more me who doesn't move things forward. Like going on a proper date. All that talk is too much.

And like a lot of people, esp. women, tend to do recently, she monologues, more than a conversation. It's different than a conversation. It's like dogmatic. They talk like they are quoting scripture.

 

[WIA20XX]

This is more me just speaking philosophically, or sociologically. She's never turned me down, we've never even taken it that far. I'm interested physically, and she's very cool to me. Cooked for me a few times, always offers. She's in an extended friend group, so I see her casually, in person, without any texting. We have some good conversations, but a lot of these types don't even have the foundation for any real debate. They just look at Tik Tok videos. They aren't going to like compare intellectual theories.

I'm not saying she's not sexual at all, but it never comes across to me. She's too into herself. You know how some women all they have to do put their hand on yours? Or just look at you a certain way, and you kinda know? It's more me who doesn't move things forward. Like going on a proper date. All that talk is too much.

And like a lot of people, esp. women, tend to do, recently is she monologues, more than a conversation. It's different than a conversation. It's like dogmatic. They talk like they are quoting scripture.

When I'm sitting next to Queen Muva Earth, I will keep pushing them to talk more about it, to explain the topic and themselves more.

• So how long have you been manifesting?
• What have you gained?
• Are your friends manifesting?
• Who in here has a bad aura?
• What does your mother think about this?

And I do it totally engrossed, like I've never heard this stuff before.

A couple sips of my drink and stroking of the chin whiskers helps.

I get some internal chuckles from this, but it's really an exercise for how far I can push the lunacy.

If I'm out and about and where having this convo, I'm not above bringing in wait staff or random passerby into the chat to get their perspective.

I made the mistake of asking a manifesting chick about poor kids in Africa - I didn't get the smash, lol. So never skeptic, always in the explorer role.

Along those lines, I know SO MANY female food experts - and all of them are fat.

 

[re'up]

Another note, is, a woman I met a few months back, the one who was really drunk and damn near cuffing me, but who never responded when I followed up, I happened to see this week. Walked into a rooftop pool, and there she was in a bikini, like Swordfish and the exact same thing happened. We took all the attention in the cabana because we just locked into each other. I said straight up I left because you were repeating yourself, and you were blacked out. And she said I thought I was just being a a bytch and you wanted to leave. I said we talked for 2 hours.

Anyway, we had a long talk, and then I left, they were all partying all day, and I said all I wanted to. So she hits me up today, very casually. And I was laughing like she retrieved that text from 3 months ago. Had to scroll back for awhile for that one, she didn't have my contact, only a text I sent. Not so often to get a text pulled from the void of ghosting.

Things I learned about her: She's messier than I thought. Maybe too messy. She went to high school with another of my boys. Long list of wealthy benefactors in her past.

 

[re'up]

When I'm sitting next to Queen Muva Earth, I will keep pushing them to talk more about it, to explain the topic and themselves more.

• So how long have you been manifesting?
• What have you gained?
• Are your friends manifesting?
• Who in here has a bad aura?
• What does your mother think about this?

And I do it totally engrossed, like I've never heard this stuff before.

A couple sips of my drink and stroking of the chin whiskers helps.

I get some internal chuckles from this, but it's really an exercise for how far I can push the lunacy.

If I'm out and about and where having this convo, I'm not above bringing in wait staff or random passerby into the chat to get their perspective.

I made the mistake of asking a manifesting chick about poor kids in Africa - I didn't get the smash, lol. So never skeptic, always in the explorer role.

Along those lines, I know SO MANY female food experts - and all of them are fat.

oh bro that sounds insane. That made me laugh. I know exactly what you are saying, and it's hilarious but I'm not fukking doing that. That's like out of a 90's romantic comedy. There's no way I could keep that up. I could barely make it through that 4 seasons rant. I know that a blindspot for me is, not having to be right, but knowing so much about a subject I make everyone uncomfortable.

So, when someone is rambling about manifesting and all that shyt, I try to just keep quiet. There's girls who know it sounds dumb, and know that I am laughing at them, but I just try to connect when I can. A gratitude list is dope. I like keeping one. I did write my dreams down for awhile. I do believe in some spirituality. I do love nature. So, when I am on my game, I do that and it's real.

It wasn't to a woman, but I remember making a similar argument when my friends goofy asses learned about Rhona Byrnes The Secret.

I think someone was saying that they believed in the idea that whatever bad happened to someone in this life, it was because they did something wrong in a previous life. And therefore justified. I said so can you tell that to the kids who get gunned down in Juarez? Some 7 year old's parents? That was a grown man my age saying that too.

 

[WIA20XX]

She went to high school with another of my boys. Long list of wealthy benefactors in her past.

I just find it interesting how truly different womens' lives are.
How differently they think.

 

[Ohene]

I just find it interesting how truly different womens' lives are.
How differently they think.

Completely diff world for attractive woman b