Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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bad way to start lol now you gonna be on edge looking for any reason to cancel a bytch. Remember they all the same and simply play to the rules of the land.
Dating apps go CRAZY during holidays and bad weather. bytches ain’t got shyt to do. Only other time I get flooded like this is when I go out of town.
Dudes should clean up during this storm.
Close quick get to the point set up a FT that day
Dudes should clean up during this storm.
Close quick get to the point set up a FT that day
Dating apps go CRAZY during holidays and bad weather. bytches ain’t got shyt to do. Only other time I get flooded like this is when I go out of town.
Dudes should clean up during this storm.
I just told someone the other day the women have been thirst trapping on social media with this winter storm. If they were posting selfies or complaining about being alone for the storm. They really just wanted a list of men in their DMs.
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More often than not I tend to take that L.
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So, my fiancee makes 97k, I made 98k until this month where I got a raise at 115k. We live together, and we split bills everything etc about 50/50 and we are in NYC. She told me she wants me to pay more rent now that I got a raise, we got into a big argument and she said she's tired of us being roomates etc.and I said I wasn't paying more. For context, she got laid off and I moved in with her before she got a new job, she lived and paid the rent for a year and a half alone by herself. I proposed a week before Christmas, (very expensive ring) and bought her bottega venetta sneakers for christmas etc. everything ceased, she's been the nicest and receptive like I've ever seen after that. Until tonight, where I said I don't want to be a provider and pay for everything. I said if I made $250 or $350k and she made $100k or $80k etc I would pay all but we are not that far apart right now. She got mad all over again, I just camre back from the bar. I asked what do provider men get in return and she mentioned cooking and cleaning, which I do already, and I don't think that's an equal exchange. I said I would be a contributor and we can help each other. I was upfront from the beginning after the 4th date way back then, I said umm are you gonna pay for this one? and she said she should have never paid it that time. Idk what world she thinks she's lviing in or what type of fantasty land she lives in, but I'm not going for this. When I marry her, I inherit her massive student loans, and like I said i just bout expensive ass ring and designer sneakers and I have to pay for a wedding that I rather just sign the doucment for. Am I tripping right now or what?
Doesn’t sound good. As someone recently married you have to get this sorted out before going much further IMO.
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I can attest to his time in Kenya
Sounds like your shorty is a victim of social media bs/dumbass women repeating tired tropes about men being providers lol
breh...God is showing you whats really good right now
I deliberately stay away from women who have student debt. and i only date women who come from solid families (that can presumably assist in paying for a wedding even if thats not a conscious thought). the wedding is for them after all and its the woman's family whos supposed to pay for most of it.
you will lose any leverage you have when you marry her . you think this shyt bad now? imagine after ya'll bonded by law, you have taken on her debt and spent 25-100K on a wedding. imagine after you have kid(s). that sunk cost fallacy gonna hit like a mothafukka.
if you marry her you better do your research on prenups / state laws. personally i'd start planning my exit
She's on point
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If you're getting her a pair of thousand dollar sneakers, expensive engagement rings, and prolly some other stuff that we don't know about - you're leading with your wallet.
That is who you are.
That is what you're about.
Doesn't matter how much she makes.
She was being consistent in her behavior, but now you're switching up.
You wasn't penny pinching before.
When you make more, she makes more.
Now you want to talk about fiscal responsibility?
You need to apologize, preferably with something from Tiffany/Louis/Hermes/Chanel or Dior.
sarcasm?She's on point
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If you're getting her a pair of thousand dollar sneakers, expensive engagement rings, and prolly some other stuff that we don't know about - you're leading with your wallet.
That is who you are.
That is what you're about.
Doesn't matter how much she makes.
She was being consistent in her behavior, but now you're switching up.
You wasn't penny pinching before.
When you make more, she makes more.
Now you want to talk about fiscal responsibility?
You need to apologize, preferably with something from Tiffany/Louis/Hermes/Chanel or Dior.
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None.
I'm being Straight up.
He's leading with his wallet with all of the over and above financial treatment.
He's built that expectation into the relationship.
He doesn't have a leg to stand on based on past behavior.
This is what he signed up for, cheered about, put his money behind - and when she predictably wants more support, he's throwing a fit.
This is the bed he made, so he needs to sleep in it.