I forgot why I don't get seriously involved with a woman with kids until yesterday...was talking with this one chick on the phone and all I heard was her arguing with her 3 yr old the whole time. I just hung up the phone and ignored her call back.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
I'm confused about this...
Why are women so concerned with what you have and what you don't have? I was thinking about it the other day ago, but if I'm talking to you it isn't because of what you have, but because of what you are. As men I think we're looking for more of a companion while women on the other hand are looking for status. Like Reincar for example, he met a woman on the bus and knowing that she didn't have a car he still placed that fact aside and said something along the lines of "as long as she can get to our date, then I don't care" now a woman on the other hand would have labeled us men as "scrubs". Now how does that work? What I'm confused about is why are you so interested in what I am, rather than who I am, when you won't be getting any of it. If we're married yes we can share, but when first getting to know someone material items should be the last thing that you should care about, it should be getting to know the person, then progression.
I'm confuzzled.
Why are women so concerned with what you have and what you don't have? I was thinking about it the other day ago, but if I'm talking to you it isn't because of what you have, but because of what you are. As men I think we're looking for more of a companion while women on the other hand are looking for status. Like Reincar for example, he met a woman on the bus and knowing that she didn't have a car he still placed that fact aside and said something along the lines of "as long as she can get to our date, then I don't care" now a woman on the other hand would have labeled us men as "scrubs". Now how does that work? What I'm confused about is why are you so interested in what I am, rather than who I am, when you won't be getting any of it. If we're married yes we can share, but when first getting to know someone material items should be the last thing that you should care about, it should be getting to know the person, then progression.
I'm confuzzled.
a woman could care about what you have because she could be plotting to game you into giving her your ressources. but a lot of times it's because she feels like you having things is a side effect of your ambition. to some extent she wants the status and the fact that you have something to show, if she associates herself to you then the status goes to her a little bit as well. She gets more "respect" for it because she was chosen by someone who everyone knows (because of the display of ressources) has a lot and had many options yet chose her.
but smarter women know that just because a man doesn't have much to show when she meets him, doesn't necessarily means he's a loser. They just have a sixth sense for that drive. they see it in your eyes. hear it in your voice, see it in your body language etc. they see the diamond in the rough.
I'll never cheat, women don't love like men do.
I only love God and my family.
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Women like to brag to their friends.
One f the first thing a chicks friends will ask is what does he do?
What kind of car does he drive?
It's all about status
As for a male with my male friends No homo, what she look like, no kids?
Damn you won.
What she drives, what she does for A living no one cares
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Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
That makes a lot of sense, which goes back to the point that someone else was making, most women want something right now rather than putting in the effort and getting something out.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Not simple as that breh, but if a breh is cheating on a good girl thats holding him down, his a foooooool
Not simple as that breh, but if a breh is cheating on a good girl thats holding him down, his a foooooool
If she's not holding you down and your inclined to cheat dump her, she's not for you.
As someone who has been cheated on that is the worse thing you can do to a man or a woman.
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Im a stoner, a bartender, and a proud mommy. I love tattoos, coffee, llamas, and batman. Anything else? Just ask. Im pretty awesome.
Reincar you were right about the hilarity in these dating profiles. I am dying right now at some of the things I'm seeing.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=40625208
^You peep the message this broad put at the end of her profile?
about not giving her any "BS"(we all kno what she means by that) when contacting her?
but check out that 3rd picture on the top where she is getting her top undressed like she is getting ready to Put up a Backpage escort ad....
and then look at that other pic in her ton of pictures that only shows a picture of her "lips".....close up......
So basically this girl puts up a picture of her getting half undressed and a closeup of her thick juicy lips....and tells horny red blooded males not to give any BS...
and these chicks wonder why they are not taken seriously at all.
Im a stoner, a bartender, and a proud mommy. I love tattoos, coffee, llamas, and batman. Anything else? Just ask. Im pretty awesome.
Reincar you were right about the hilarity in these dating profiles. I am dying right now at some of the things I'm seeing.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=40625208
^You peep the message this broad put at the end of her profile?
about not giving her any "BS"(we all kno what she means by that) when contacting her?
but check out that 3rd picture on the top where she is getting her top undressed like she is getting ready to Put up a Backpage escort ad....
and then look at that other pic in her ton of pictures that only shows a picture of her "lips".....close up......
So basically this girl puts up a picture of her getting half undressed and a closeup of her thick juicy lips....and tells horny red blooded males not to give any BS...
and these chicks wonder why they are not taken seriously at all.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
damn, that's true. You know breh, after I dropped my ex off bc of her bullshyt, I can't lie I've come to realize love as a mutual feeling is a hard thing to find and so is finding a decent woman. The funny thing is women love to be nice, volunteer, help out, and be looked at as this good girl, but that's just all an image to empower them. I need me a mother Theresea type, not one of these bytches that are interested in their self image. A nun
About Me
Im a stoner, a bartender, and a proud mommy. I love tattoos, coffee, llamas, and batman. Anything else? Just ask. Im pretty awesome.
Reincar you were right about the hilarity in these dating profiles. I am dying right now at some of the things I'm seeing.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=40625208
^You peep the message this broad put at the end of her profile?
about not giving her any "BS"(we all kno what she means by that) when contacting her?
but check out that 3rd picture on the top where she is getting her top undressed like she is getting ready to Put up a Backpage escort ad....
and then look at that other pic in her ton of pictures that only shows a picture of her "lips".....close up......
So basically this girl puts up a picture of her getting half undressed and a closeup of her thick juicy lips....and tells horny red blooded males not to give any BS...
and these chicks wonder why they are not taken seriously at all.
Pof is garbage, come back 5 years later shorty will sill be on Pof.
Sometimes when I'm bored ill do a search In my area, and see some chicks who I smashed like 3 years ago still on there.
Chicks who blew me in their car the second time I met em in Dave and busters parking lot, talking about they want a good man, and there not looking for sex etc yea right.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
25 SIGNS SHE'S NOT INTO YOU - YouTube
Straight from the horse's mouth. One word fellas: pre-empt!
Straight from the horse's mouth. One word fellas: pre-empt!
CrossBones
Louder than words
we have to understand that many women are stuck on that basic shyt where if they are looking and acting like a hooker, then they KNOW it will attract them a man who will spend some time and money on them. or at least get her a goon to come by some nights and fukk her
but when women mostly rely on their looks and sex appeal to get a man, they seem to have a lot less to offer you in other terms. no conversations with real substance, little in the way of manners, and never any moral support. you see that in all of her insecurity, its only about her and how much that she puts her looks over everything. on top of that, if their looks are getting them something today, and it can get them something else tommorow, of course theyll be jumping on that next ride. those are the shallow females that have little valuable substance to them, so what they do is they go around playing this "gimme" game on all the sucker ass tricks who're stuck on their looks. females with little substance seek men with little substance.
you know the types, the pretty girls who cant fukk, the girl who is on the phone all the time flirting with men for favors, the ones who expect to be spoiled and do shyt, the females who need a lot of people to pay attention to her photos, etc
that pof profile reminded me, I used that website long ago. I remember getting only two or three responses in a week, where I would shoot out 35-40. it got tiring because I wasnt even using generic messages to holla at them
anyways, I switched it up about a month later. for some reason I thought being articulate, mannered, and appealing to their interests mentioned would get these internet females to respond. it wasnt simping (borderline), but I was making the mistake of coming off as nice and polite.
anyways, I didnt get it at first. so I changed it up and I treated it like a job interview. you know how they looking for "buzz words" and shyt that matches up with their job description?
I completely threw away my old school, tailor made messages for each girl, and went into vh1 mode. I wrote shyt like "Im a man who is not with the drama" "Im brutally honest with my friends" "Im down to earth" "I like to make people laugh" "so if youre not serious, dont reply" and shyt like that, just taking whatever cliches that was on their profiles and repackaged it back at em. to catch their attention, I started using their own language on them.
just like that, I got WAY better responses. even from women I was only testing it on, as well as some of the others
problem is, when you successfully speak chickenhead ... youre dealing with a chickenhead
changing my lingo to get these ho asses wasnt worth it. had me all up and down the city with these broke, thirsty bytches from different parts of town. so many of them put on a big front. damn bruh what a fool I was. I fronted to get with women who were in turn fronting. so fukk all that.
but anyways, if you see youre dealing with a simpleton, then you have to speak simpleton to play them/reach them. but think about that, and whats really going on. thats all Im saying.
the other option is to take it back to basics, and keep it simple. tell her what youre looking for, and she'll either respect it or ignore it. you dont have to play games like that and go in circles to get to where you want to be.
women are so deep into their own games, and being about that bullshyt, that they resent whenever they think theyre seeing a man trying to work his game on them to get to what he wants. they think its them being played, when a lot of times its just courtship and making an impression. well, so be it. I suggest that you never go out your way to be like that. dont play idle games with them or try to impress them. you have to be yourself. and if you dont think thats good enough, then work on that until youre comfortable and happy with your whole shyt to be like that.
see if theyre real, then theyd prefer you to be upfront and real as well. a-alike, b(e) alike, c(see) alike.