did you tell her you were gonna call her? if so then that's one thing. but if you didn't tell her you were gonna call her and she's upset you didn't, she was playing a game.
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Seems self explanatory, breh
not really... anyways, im going to make that call in like 2 hrs and 30 minutes must admit im actually getting nervous, usually after the first 1-2 Im cool, its just the part of me calling, her answering and then we actually starting.
she shyts like all of us. Let me tell you something. If a chick is feeling you enough to to talk to you for hours on a dating site and to give you her number, that means she already thinks you are better than her. the pressure is on her to impress you as well. of course she will try to flip the game on you and try to trick you into believing you should be impressing her. it's all a con/trick.like i said, she gave you her number on a dating website and already chatted for a while. Either she's feeling you, or she's an attention whore. either way there is not much to be nervous about. she already started choosing. i understand feeling slight butterflies but realize she feels the same if not more.
hell, you don't even know yet if her p*ssy stinks...
So yo've never called a chick up and had found out she was boring, prude or shy? You must not talk to many women...
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HAHAHAHAHAHA Every single woman I've ever dated started off with us talking on the phone for at least an Hour frequently. You dudes try too hard sometimes. If she's not comfortable around you yet she won't meet up with you. Some of you will say "well then I throw her in the bushes and move on" the key is to already be moved on with other chicks while still talking to shorty. Patience young grasshoppers.
back in the day, hell i would have to say the last few women i met online i never even called them nor did they call me, straight text.
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Call her once (no voicemail,she SEES your #).If you contact or communicate more then her,its a problem.
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all of these nikkas that are taking "self imposed"(
) breaks from women are the main ones in here overthinking the smallest shyt 
if nikkas would stop tryna read these hoes minds and just did them they wouldn't run into half of the problems that they do
on some real shyt breh stop that shyt. you're stressing yourself over p*ssy and that's the vibe you'll give off while talking to her if you don't relax. you're acting like it's 20 minutes before a big performance or before a big job interview. snap out of it. remember how you felt when you chatted with her online. you cared a little but it wasn't a super big deal. that's the dude she fell in like with. remain that dude and you're good. start morphing into a nervous wreck and you won't feel happy during the convo.
fukk if she likes you or not. she's just some girl looking for a boyfriend/attention on a dating site. my homie, she may very well be a loser! and you're worried about making a good impression on her???
she should be the one worried about making a good impression on you! she already started choosing you. it's up to her now to prove she is worthy of being chosen. don't let her trick you 
you think she doesn't feel that way eventhough she'll try to hide it? TRUST ME breh, 98.6% of them are LOSERS looking for some dude to give them direction and purpose. don't let the make-up, clothes, perfume and jewelery fool you. don't let her "sweetness" fool you.
*disclaimer: not all women are what i described. but a lot of them are. and if you met her on a dating site you increase the odds.
on some real shyt breh stop that shyt. you're stressing yourself over p*ssy and that's the vibe you'll give off while talking to her if you don't relax. you're acting like it's 20 minutes before a big performance or before a big job interview. snap out of it. remember how you felt when you chatted with her online. you cared a little but it wasn't a super big deal. that's the dude she fell in like with. remain that dude and you're good. start morphing into a nervous wreck and you won't feel happy during the convo.
fukk if she likes you or not. she's just some girl looking for a boyfriend/attention on a dating site. my homie, she may very well be a loser! and you're worried about making a good impression on her???
you think she doesn't feel that way eventhough she'll try to hide it? TRUST ME breh, 98.6% of them are LOSERS looking for some dude to give them direction and purpose. don't let the make-up, clothes, perfume and jewelery fool you. don't let her "sweetness" fool you.
*disclaimer: not all women are what i described. but a lot of them are. and if you met her on a dating site you increase the odds.
first off im not nervous, im very relax right now im listening to Pop that from French Montana, secondly im not really worried about how this convo goes at worst, we dont talk again, at best we keep talking, no skin off my back. Secondly the so called losers on a dating site are the same losers that you run across in the real world. People need to toss that stigma on dating sites are losers, there is more to online dating than POF which is a cesspool.
I'll be back with the results...thanks for your advice though, but im could im mr210
didn't say she was a loser. i said she has the potential to be one. if you're genunely relaxed, forget what i posted and do your thing. my post was designed to dissipate fear. but if there is no fear then my post is not necessary. God bless breh.
"No. She does not love you. She is a woman, and love is NOT the same to them as it is to you.
You are capable of feeling sublime emotions and caring about someone else more than yourself. She is not. (Except temporarily with a young child, due to bonding hormones, that typically wear off in her brain when the child is around 3 years old. This is the age they start to drown their kids in the tub and drive them into a lake.)
You think that, since she is a human like you, she must feel things like you feel things. But she doesn't.
The reality is, she has no clue and no plan. She is just going moment-by-moment, like a dog with an iPhone.
This is not her fault; women need a man with a plan. They need a train that is going someplace with or without them. Once on a train, they can make it fun and party things up, but they won't get a train going from a dead stop, and they sure as fukk won't engineer a train from scratch.
Think of Coyote Ugly. If you own a bar, girls will get drunk and dance on the counter. They will not build the building, apply for a liquor license, or distill spirits. They will look good and they will suck your dikk.
Back to the train metaphor, your job is to be a train that is leaving the depot on YOUR schedule with whoever is on board WITH YOU.
And when you get to your stop, you need to be able to kick off everyone that you don't want going to your NEXT stop.
This means no co-habitation.
Never, ever let them move in with you. You didn't know, and guess what? This is a learning experience. Don't forget it.
Always have your own place in your own name.
Always be able to kick someone out.
You can let them sleep over, but remember it's like when your friends slept over and you played video games all weekend. There was never any expectation that your parents were gonna adopt them; they had their own family and their own home. And it was for a couple days at a time, not weeks or months.
Always keep the upper hand. If you can't do something unless the girl is equal to you (like on a lease) or above you, don't do it. Increase your standing, go back, and try again.
Understand human nature: Everyone is trying to exploit you. Even your own family. They have their own ideas about what you should do to suit them.
Your "friends" will exploit you. If you are doing better than them, they will try to mooch off you. If they are doing better than you, they will try to throw you crumbs that show they think you are below them.
You cannot trust anyone that occupies the same competitive strata as you.
Did you ever notice how humans like dogs and cats and vice-versa? It's because they are not competing with each other. Cats that are nice to you will hate other cats. Dogs will cop a 'tude with other dogs.
It works the same in the rainforest -- many species will co-exist and seemingly cooperate, because they occupy different ecological niches: one species in the canopy, another in the trees, another on the forest floor. They eat different things and share warning systems.
You can "trust" a lot of people online in some ways, because they are not in direct competition with you, and everyone is gaining more from cooperation. Being anonymous, nobody can take advantage of knowledge of your weaknesses.
There are very few relationships like that. Sometimes a real best friend, where you both value the other more than money and more than bytches, and are both trying to elevate the other. This happens in nature too, when two brother lions who are young, and not quite as strong individually as a grizzled male who has his own pride, can together take him down and then rule as co-alphas, and then it's almost impossible for any other lion coming along to depose them.
But women don't think of you like that.
When a new lion comes along, and defeats the old lion, he also kills all the cubs who are still suckling, because suckling releases hormones that prevent her from going into heat again too soon (until they are grown up). The females mourn their murdered cubs for a week or two, but once they go into heat, they all submit to the guy who came in and killed their babies, and mate with him, and have his babies.
Females have extremely plastic and transferable emotions. They had to, because they were always getting passed around from dominant male to dominant male with no choice in the matter. (Anyone who was emotionally wrecked by this, unable to function, would not be able to care for her own children and wouldn't pass on her "sensitive" or "loyal" genes.)
You can see this now by how much women respond to sexual dominance, and how women who were "kidnapped" and live in houses in suburbia as sex slaves just stay there and don't bother running away.
They have completely fukked-up psychology compared to your ideal for yourself.
So stop thinking about THEIR FEELINGS.
Women are the closest thing to happy when YOU do the shyt YOU want to do, and they get to follow you around like puppies."
You are capable of feeling sublime emotions and caring about someone else more than yourself. She is not. (Except temporarily with a young child, due to bonding hormones, that typically wear off in her brain when the child is around 3 years old. This is the age they start to drown their kids in the tub and drive them into a lake.)
You think that, since she is a human like you, she must feel things like you feel things. But she doesn't.
The reality is, she has no clue and no plan. She is just going moment-by-moment, like a dog with an iPhone.
This is not her fault; women need a man with a plan. They need a train that is going someplace with or without them. Once on a train, they can make it fun and party things up, but they won't get a train going from a dead stop, and they sure as fukk won't engineer a train from scratch.
Think of Coyote Ugly. If you own a bar, girls will get drunk and dance on the counter. They will not build the building, apply for a liquor license, or distill spirits. They will look good and they will suck your dikk.
Back to the train metaphor, your job is to be a train that is leaving the depot on YOUR schedule with whoever is on board WITH YOU.
And when you get to your stop, you need to be able to kick off everyone that you don't want going to your NEXT stop.
This means no co-habitation.
Never, ever let them move in with you. You didn't know, and guess what? This is a learning experience. Don't forget it.
Always have your own place in your own name.
Always be able to kick someone out.
You can let them sleep over, but remember it's like when your friends slept over and you played video games all weekend. There was never any expectation that your parents were gonna adopt them; they had their own family and their own home. And it was for a couple days at a time, not weeks or months.
Always keep the upper hand. If you can't do something unless the girl is equal to you (like on a lease) or above you, don't do it. Increase your standing, go back, and try again.
Understand human nature: Everyone is trying to exploit you. Even your own family. They have their own ideas about what you should do to suit them.
Your "friends" will exploit you. If you are doing better than them, they will try to mooch off you. If they are doing better than you, they will try to throw you crumbs that show they think you are below them.
You cannot trust anyone that occupies the same competitive strata as you.
Did you ever notice how humans like dogs and cats and vice-versa? It's because they are not competing with each other. Cats that are nice to you will hate other cats. Dogs will cop a 'tude with other dogs.
It works the same in the rainforest -- many species will co-exist and seemingly cooperate, because they occupy different ecological niches: one species in the canopy, another in the trees, another on the forest floor. They eat different things and share warning systems.
You can "trust" a lot of people online in some ways, because they are not in direct competition with you, and everyone is gaining more from cooperation. Being anonymous, nobody can take advantage of knowledge of your weaknesses.
There are very few relationships like that. Sometimes a real best friend, where you both value the other more than money and more than bytches, and are both trying to elevate the other. This happens in nature too, when two brother lions who are young, and not quite as strong individually as a grizzled male who has his own pride, can together take him down and then rule as co-alphas, and then it's almost impossible for any other lion coming along to depose them.
But women don't think of you like that.
When a new lion comes along, and defeats the old lion, he also kills all the cubs who are still suckling, because suckling releases hormones that prevent her from going into heat again too soon (until they are grown up). The females mourn their murdered cubs for a week or two, but once they go into heat, they all submit to the guy who came in and killed their babies, and mate with him, and have his babies.
Females have extremely plastic and transferable emotions. They had to, because they were always getting passed around from dominant male to dominant male with no choice in the matter. (Anyone who was emotionally wrecked by this, unable to function, would not be able to care for her own children and wouldn't pass on her "sensitive" or "loyal" genes.)
You can see this now by how much women respond to sexual dominance, and how women who were "kidnapped" and live in houses in suburbia as sex slaves just stay there and don't bother running away.
They have completely fukked-up psychology compared to your ideal for yourself.
So stop thinking about THEIR FEELINGS.
Women are the closest thing to happy when YOU do the shyt YOU want to do, and they get to follow you around like puppies."